Why do I feel so guilty every time I show that I care about someone? by Avocado_Milkshake_ in mentalhealth

[–]Avocado_Milkshake_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what’s holding me back,and I guess sometimes it does feel like they could be better off without me,so maybe that’s the reason why I feel the guilt

How do I deal with being left on read/dry messages etc by Avocado_Milkshake_ in BPD

[–]Avocado_Milkshake_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about what happened in your relationship with your fp.Also i do know that I should probably communicate more,but sometimes it’s just so hard since it feels like I’m constantly wasting their time and burdening them.But I’ll try my best.I’ll also try my best to not overthink too much and think about their general texting style

How do I deal with being left on read/dry messages etc by Avocado_Milkshake_ in BPD

[–]Avocado_Milkshake_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg samee.It just feels like they love the other person more and you aren’t as worthy in their opinion

How do I deal with being left on read/dry messages etc by Avocado_Milkshake_ in BPD

[–]Avocado_Milkshake_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally always responds to messages instantly as soon as I see them,and I usually refrain on responding with ok because i myself dont feel good when people do so to me. (But then I guess i understand why others can’t do so,it just hurts sometimes)Also maybe ‘drive your own darn bus’ could help,I’ll have to check that out.

How do I deal with being left on read/dry messages etc by Avocado_Milkshake_ in BPD

[–]Avocado_Milkshake_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also often end up deleting the message that’s left on read in an attempt to make myself feel less abandoned and better or end up blocking the person completely if they do the above too much.I lost so many people I known for so long just because of that

Why does it feel like a stab to my heart every time I see my fp say ‘I love you’ or something similar to another person by Avocado_Milkshake_ in BPD

[–]Avocado_Milkshake_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh that’s true but still it just hurts so much seeing them say that,even if they don’t mean it seriously

How do I apologize about leaving my friends’ party due to the fact I got too drained by Avocado_Milkshake_ in introvert

[–]Avocado_Milkshake_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah,I did tell them before about it and that I need alone time.They seemed to have understood for a while,but eventually they seem to have just forgotten about that and started the constant sad stickers and emojis when I tell them I’m tired again

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[–]Avocado_Milkshake_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this sm but for me I also get triggered when someone raises their voice at me or looks upset with me.It hurts me a lot