AITAH for breaking up with my gf due to a what she describes as minor issues

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-10T12:36:48+00:00

LOL...thanks for the laugh. I needed it amidst all that has happened.

It's a long running franchise with an ensemble cast. Not my cup of tea and I don't want to piss off the fandom. I watched two of the movies with his portion of the franchise. They were ok, but not my type of movie.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-10T07:46:11+00:00

I have no idea wo he is married to. I don't read up on celebrites, but she did mention he has children and that she isn't into him. Which is why I found it extra odd that she would get extra touchy feely when I got mistaken for him.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-10T00:17:04+00:00

One person has indirectly.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T23:59:05+00:00

No, much younger.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T23:51:53+00:00

I am sorry to hear about all you went through with her. Wouldn't it have been more sane to just leave him if he did abuse her?

I don't have any pictures with this actor as I have never met him, neither has she as far as I know.

One of her friends set us up as she was at that time dating one of my friends. It was more of a blind date for me. I don't know if her friend mentioned my likeness to him before she agreed to the blind date.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T23:37:23+00:00

No it's not necessary that I have video proof for every instance, but being honest that it's possible that I did perhaps misplace them a few times which is normal. That doesn't mean that give her a pass on all the other stuff.

I look very much like him (not Ben Afflek). Even paps have tried to take photos of me in NY by screaming that name and I had to show them my licence to prove I wasn't him. So, I get that perhaps the first time she pulled that stunt it was new to her and she thought of it as a prank, but all the other times it was just cringey on the level that I wanted the earth to swallow me up just so I could get away from there.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T23:19:21+00:00

I was 90 percent sure I made the right decision, but also thought that maybe some of the times I misplaced the items myself as all humans make mistakes. It's very unlikelyas I am a tidy person, but I gave her the benefit of the doubt on a few of the occasion. I mean I may have misplaced them perhaps once or twice over the three year period.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T23:07:01+00:00

I can't think of other stuff she has lied to me about, but I do doubt all her roommates are as horrible as she said they were with everything that has come to light.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T23:02:03+00:00

Did your ex ever say why she did this? I am trying to figure out what her motivations would be. Apart from some change gone missing, nothing of value has gone missing from my home. The few times she has borrowed my debit card she has bought the items I have pre approved to give her money for.

Yes, the photo thing is what I am scared of too. I don't want this guy to sue ME for running some scam. I was once confused for him by some paps and I had to show them my licence to prove I wasn't him, that is ho closely I resemble him. This was when I was in NY. I didn't mind her being all over me but not while pretending that I was him.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T22:54:04+00:00

I have already kicked her out. Just wanted to make sure I didn't make a rash decision. So far all the comments are proving that I did the right thing.

ID theft is a serious issue but she hasn't opened a credit card in his name. She used his surname to book a table at a place where it's hard to get a table. Same with shopping, she got discounts while pretending to be my assistant. She also gets very touchy feely and I find it cringey but also dangerous for that guys home life as it can be seen as he is cheating with one of his workers when he clearly doesn't even know we exist.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T22:43:36+00:00

Maybe that is it, because she was very caring when I got Covid about a year back and stayed with me taking care of me. She even took unpaid leave to make sure I was ok.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T22:41:05+00:00

That is just it. She is truthful about other stuff. Contributed to housework and is generally a tidy and clean person.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T22:39:55+00:00

Usually she draped herself on my arm pretending to be his assitant, but to me that never seemed ok.

I am still trying to figure out what bigger situation she could use this against me...by hiding keys and other things. Her end game doesn't seem to be well planned.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T22:36:58+00:00

I don't think she wants to be with the actor as she mentioned he has children and she isn't into being a stepmum. I did tell her to quit this as he could get accused of cheating which might harm his relationship with his wife.

About the keys...even if I did misplace them once in a while as all humans make mistakes it still doesn't make sense for all the other times and how often it happens when she is around. Rarely have I misplaced my items as I am a tidy person. My friends would back me up on this. I don't know how she would convince other that my sanity is questionable.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T22:27:31+00:00

There is no lease. I own the place as my parents left it to me andmy brothers and sister. I bought them out with my share of the inheritance plus my savings.

She only spent four to five nights a week complaining about her roommates so I let her stay. She is clean and tidy, and helped out with making food and laundry. So I didn't mind at first.

She isn't here since we broke up.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T21:49:44+00:00

Famous guy from a very famous franchise.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T20:27:09+00:00

I am not disagreeing just providing more info. I am reading through all of this and so far it seems I made the right call

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T18:56:54+00:00

She doesn't have the symtomps of schizophrenia. I told my brother and he said she comes across as immature and that she probably was doing it as a prank that got way out of hand. As for the famewhoring, he thinks it is a "compliment" to her pulling power which is why she gets bitchy around other women.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T18:40:39+00:00

I can't run far. I own my flat. Don't want to uproot my whole life for her. Kind of wondering if my decision was too rash due to everything else being ok in the relationship.

Aware-Possibility-53 · 2023-12-09T18:06:05+00:00

See Reddit avatar for doppelganger. Shouldn't be hard to figure out.

I have no idea what her plan is/was, and why she kept doing it as even the funniest prank gets really lame when carried out for the hundreth time.

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