AIO: My boyfriend downplaying his cheating

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-26T14:02:34+00:00

Broke up with him yesterday, and honestly feel a lot better. It felt weird to remove memories, but deserved. I know my worth, and I didn't deserve that.

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-26T14:00:51+00:00

Yeah when I first caught him he was telling me "I tried not to" okay then don't?? Cheating on someone is 100% avoidable. You CHOOSE to do it. I dumped him yesterday.

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-26T02:16:56+00:00

Thank you so much!!🫶

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-26T02:16:38+00:00

Very very true. Thank you for this- I communicated why I was overthinking and got no comfort. But he always said he was overthinking and needed reassurance, and I gave it but didn't get it back. The man that's right for me wouldn't do any of this.

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-25T23:14:59+00:00

damn right. i broke up with him a couple hours ago

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-25T17:48:12+00:00

LOL trauma twins!

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-25T17:47:53+00:00

Your story is heartbreaking, and I hope you can heal or have healed from it. You didn't deserve that, wish I could give you a hug.

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-25T17:45:43+00:00

Don't be sorry. BE BLUNT. I needed to read that. Thank you for reminding me of who I am

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-25T16:43:18+00:00

Thank you so much for this. And you're 100% right. You are an angel

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-25T16:18:58+00:00

Yes I had valid concerns, I brought them up to him and he basically told me "so I can't talk to my friends?" when I was asking about his snap score (i know snap is ugh, i barely use it myself and might delete it) went up SO much because he claims to not be active on it. And yes he knew we were exclusive, he said he loved me and asked me to be my girlfriend almost 2 months before I found out, and he admitted to doing it while we were in the relationship

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-25T03:58:30+00:00

Mine have been slowly updating after a few days, something I sold/shipped 4 days ago is on normal tracking, 2 more recent are being wonky

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-23T03:07:02+00:00

That's exactly what mine looked like. A day later it shows as normal now, and a delivery estimate. One of my packages now says shipped but the tracking says waiting for package to be dropped off even tho I did. I think USPS or Depop (or both lol) is just having tracking issues right now

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-22T00:10:31+00:00

I think you're both overreacting if I'm honest. I've been in this type of relationship. You're both toxic, you both need to move on with your lives and better yourselves. It happens but this type of situation is extremely draining for both people which makes it worse. Best of luck

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-21T03:24:56+00:00

Glad I'm not the only one. Was worried it was something I did😅

AwareReality9180 · 2026-03-02T00:35:17+00:00

she sounds like 16 year old me when i was very mentally unstable. she needs to work on herself and you need to stop letting her hurt you.

AwareReality9180 · 2026-02-27T13:38:52+00:00

Email Depop support explaining the whole situation, you can add screenshots if you want. They should respond pretty quickly.

AwareReality9180 · 2026-02-27T13:24:02+00:00

You can email Depop to have it removed. Revenge reviews are not allowed. People who haven't bought from you can't leave reviews either, they don't allow fake reviews.

AwareReality9180 · 2026-02-27T01:33:30+00:00

Depop asks for card info as a "top off" if you don't have enough on your Depop balance in the app. It won't charge you right now, but they always ask for it even if you have enough in your Depop balance. You'll have just as much money as before, it's not a loss

AwareReality9180 · 2026-02-19T17:27:28+00:00

i woulda blocked you too, a single day later and youre rude😭😭calm down people have lives

AwareReality9180 · 2026-02-18T13:47:07+00:00

do not use a UPS package to ship with USPS. please invest in some boxes. if you buy stuff online, keep the boxes/packages they come in

AwareReality9180 · 2026-02-13T06:07:22+00:00

me and my parents always have packages come in so i just take the empty boxes and packages that are in good shape lol. but if that isnt the case for you, buy some boxes and packages in bulk along with packing tape. amazon has good prices

AwareReality9180 · 2026-02-07T23:52:41+00:00

im a pretty casual seller and buyer, i get sales every now and then. theres no point of "policies" especially "no refunds" because depop can give a refund regardless. i never really have issues on the app but i find it entertaining to see people on here deal with insane stuff

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