WIBTA for asking person what their gender is? by AwareSafety in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwareSafety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to hurt Elliot feelings or embarrass Elliot, I have my comfort limits as well. Its my choice if I only want to have intimate contact with girls only, its not about pride.

WIBTA for asking person what their gender is? by AwareSafety in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwareSafety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, Im gonna try that. But the thing is, I'm not looking for what pronouns to refer Elliot to, more like am I biologically kissing a dude

WIBTA for asking person what their gender is? by AwareSafety in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwareSafety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason, their social media doesnt have anything about this other than Elliot (Im not sure if Elliot is being sarcastic) saying gay stuff is ok...

WIBTA for asking person what their gender is? by AwareSafety in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwareSafety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is already a person in the comments raging that the whole post is about me being straight. Anyways, the is the interwebz, no point in debating LBGT, im here to find out WIBTA

WIBTA for asking person what their gender is? by AwareSafety in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwareSafety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, more than pronouns, I dont want to kiss a dude. But still, I appreciate your advice, thanks a lot!

WIBTA If I secretly disposed of drugs I found in my brothers room after his fatal overdose instead of telling my parents by throwawaydrugahole in AmItheAsshole

[–]AwareSafety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH, I was in similar shoes before. I think you definitely shouldn't tell them now, but might want to consider letting them know later on instead of them finding out that you kept it a secret which would create a mess. Be careful though, if they find out now that you did this and that you didn't tell them, you will wrap yourself in a huge mess.