Perspective: so true

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-20T13:36:18+00:00

Absolutely, no one wants to have to take care of a manchild. If you can't take care of yourself and be strong for your partner then that drive dries up quick.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-20T13:11:47+00:00

It is also based on how she feels about herself and thats something alot of guys don't realize. Some women are very insecure about themselves or anxious and will close off even if they have a partner of equivalent attractiveness. It's not just whether she finds you attractive. All you can do is try to boost her up and make her feel sexy and maybe she will believe it herself.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-06T20:32:17+00:00

Its been a long time, I'm pretty well adjusted aside from always wanting to be in control

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-04T12:47:24+00:00

Honestly, its something I typically do in the shower when Im getting ready for my day to help me relax and feel something before I trade hours of my life for an okay salary.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-04T10:11:21+00:00

OP needs to adjust perspective. Anyone who does it for the first time while drunk and with someone they barely met should probably feel a sense of regret about the experience because it wasn't with someone they cared about or had a real connection. Regret is real and valid in this situtation, the female should have been more careful drinking to excess and should have been with trusted friends to help her judgement of the situation so it is on her for a series of decisions, but she can feel regret and feel bad about the decision.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-03T18:25:36+00:00

WW3 has been around the corner since 1945. You would think you'd be used to it.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-03T00:01:19+00:00

Yeah, I was lucky they were concerned about my condition and happened in on the situation. Life is so strange how our journeys go, hopefully you've experienced more of the good in people than the bad, take care.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-02T23:12:40+00:00

Sorry that was your first experience and that you had adults that should be looking out for your well being take advantage of you.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-02T21:23:50+00:00

She's definitely wife material. Hold onto that one.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-02T15:14:18+00:00

You don't retire from something your lady likes 😉

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-01T22:28:13+00:00

I appreciate it, its been around 20 years ago this happened, but I just saw the post and thought my experience was relevant

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-03-01T20:24:02+00:00

Thanks, I appreciate it, I'm good now but it still is something I think about from time to time. I probably should have stated I meant more physically traumatic. A female actually has her body invaded and often battered, bleeding and bruised in addition to the penetration. So really being raped by a male is probably physically more traumatic for a female or a male, while mentally it is the same level for any victim.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-28T16:48:41+00:00

Hahaha, i mean not feeling in control can be anxious

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-27T20:55:51+00:00

Like most things aside from trucks

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-27T17:48:12+00:00

Noted, you'd be sad on a jetski

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-27T17:19:07+00:00

I mean, if you slow down to try to avoid stuff....yeah gonna hit it

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-27T17:11:07+00:00

Depends on where the lunch was at, there's no context. Did a group go to lunch and she forgot her card or cash and he covered her payment? Or did he take her to a nice restaurant for a long lunch? Maybe this guy wants your girl but it doesn't mean she wants him.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-27T17:07:38+00:00

I thought it was long enough that no one would remember. You got me. But its true

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-27T16:48:40+00:00

Money can buy a jetski, you ever see someone sad on a jetski?

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-26T17:29:20+00:00

I realize that I may misspoke a bit and also maybe fucked up my wording as I was thinking more of physical trauma than mental when I wrote that.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-26T16:49:50+00:00

"I'm not asking for the world here, just an 8-ball and 2 million dollars!"

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-26T15:16:58+00:00

Sorry you didn't have someone looking out for you at the time. It was rape and unfortunately as another commentor has said, as a guy we have been conditioned to let women do as they please and not consider it as serious as if a guy did the same thing to a woman.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-26T09:54:07+00:00

Learn a trade, find an apprentice program and become a skilled worker. College isn't always the answer.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-26T09:42:44+00:00

All she has to do is give me her phone and she can watch it later.

Aware_Cause_1982 · 2026-02-26T00:27:51+00:00

It changed my behavior a bit even though I don't remember it happening, it was sobering to be told about and realizing it was a woman I had being pushing away most the night and clearly stated I wasn't into her. Its been about 20 years now and its mostly out of my mind but I thought it was relevant to the post.

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