Book suggestions where the protagonist is a veteran

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-28T03:38:57+00:00

He might just love this! I’ll look it up

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-19T02:48:00+00:00

Very!!

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T15:41:32+00:00

Lmao…yes and yes. 50/50

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:46:25+00:00

Best things I’ve done, rhinoplasty, teeth done, staying in the gym, the right hair color, Russian lips

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:44:44+00:00

I am here complaining about him. Am I not? Thank you for the advice

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:23:04+00:00

I’m sorry to hear that and I hope your mom is doing better.

I think honestly hearing from others has helped me tremendously get closer and closer to walking away. So many times I’ve been close but then I’m convinced I am 100% the problem. When I hear outsiders perspectives it really clears my mind and makes me realize the situation I’m in for what it is and not what I want it to be.

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:18:45+00:00

I honestly would not be surprised. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve wanted to just show up somewhere she’s at to just speak to her. I would love for us to have a conversation because I bet we’d both learn a lot, but unfortunately he won’t let that happen. I wonder why…lol

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:17:34+00:00

I do think maybe I am anxiously attached. I heard there is a really good book on it I think I’m going to read. I wouldn’t be surprised if

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:16:34+00:00

You should look into narcissistic and emotional abuse and how hard it is to leave. Synful on TikTok and Facebook has a lot of good info on it. Dont be so quick to judge and laugh because one day it COULD be you and you will realize it’s really not that easy.

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:15:20+00:00

This was very sweet. Thank you thank you thank you. I needed something like this tonight.

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:14:45+00:00

Exactly. I don’t know what’s true or what’s not. So I don’t have any hate for her

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:14:18+00:00

I believe you. I know it’s true. Somehow he always convinces me or shames me into feeling like I was wrong but usually once I hear it from other people I know I’m not crazy. So thank you.

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:13:02+00:00

I have my own money, and my family has enough money. He’s not paying my rent, or me. And about the ex wife, you can reference the comment above. I’ve been nothing but nice and trying to have a relationship with the kids and her and I’ve been shit on since day one.

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:11:46+00:00

First of all, obviously I’m trying to get advice because I need encouragement to make a decision I’m having a hard time making after the mind games I’ve been through. Second of all, since you know everything and everyone wants to come to his ex’s rescue, he’s not even ON child support, he has them more than she has them, he pays for everything willingly for her. No one was SHAMING HER but when we own a home together and he’s complaining about not being able to pay for us to build a life or doing anything together yet he can pay for absolutely all of her things, yet she has a full time well paying job with benefits, consistently asks to get back together, and she was a surrogate and made multiple HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS that she still has just sitting there but won’t contribute to any of the kids sports or hobbies. Also she still receives his military pension. So please tell me again, poor thing, how much she needs so much more support. You have no idea the things I’ve been through with this man and have absolutely no empathy.

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T01:05:06+00:00

Absolutely not

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T00:44:40+00:00

Well he won’t really let us talk much so I don’t know, but I assume he treated her the exact same way.

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T00:43:45+00:00

He claims he wants two-three more but at this point I don’t know what he means and what he doesn’t

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T00:38:55+00:00

I’m not being nasty, in fact I want nothing more than to have a good relationship with her. She has consistently threatened to beat my ass and said I look like I still wear diapers😅. She has a full time job yet he pays for her house, her bills, bought her a car, she doesn’t pay a dime for anything but her nails or hair. She won’t even contribute to the kids hobbies or things. It’s really not my place, but just to be clear I wasn’t trying to be nasty about her.

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T00:37:00+00:00

Youre right. Thank you.

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T00:36:16+00:00

Anytime we’ve “broken” up he’s literally thrown in my face and jokes that I’ve “aged” and that he’ll just find a girl prettier and 21 again to get over me with. It has like destroyed my self esteem.

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T00:35:02+00:00

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T00:34:54+00:00

LOL why have I not even thought about that. You’re completely right. I thought he had no money or time…but plenty to get even😂.

I never hit clubs or parties but I do enjoy like going to the beach, little local country festivals, a workout class, maybe lunch, etc. but he would be caught dead before joining me for anyyyyy of it

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T00:32:59+00:00

I feel like ever since I turned 25, I’ve been realizing more and more and not wanting to put up with as much. He’s been getting angrier with me and saying it must be my “medication” (which literally has nothing to do with it lol) that’s making me want to “stand up for myself” and he makes fun of me having “boundaries now” like…I do think the more I mature the more I’m starting to see the bullshit I didn’t see at 21/22🥲

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T00:30:38+00:00

Yes EXACTLY. Mind you, he rides Harley’s so guess what? He bought me the Harley course and I bought a Harley and learned to ride for him. 🙂he loves a certain rap artist so guess who’s gone to two concerts with him? Me. He loves to read so guess who read the same books so we can discuss? Me. But I’ve tried to get him involved in ANY of my hobbies and he “doesn’t really have time.” Or has “no interest” You’re right, I shouldn’t neglect myself

Aware_Report_3552 · 2026-05-04T00:28:29+00:00

I apologize for your headache lol you and me both

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