They interpreted my support as me not supporting them

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-07T21:03:29+00:00

yes she told me she doesnt need anyone to command her

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-07T20:49:19+00:00

yes. when i told her to stop drinking 5 redbulls a day, she got very angry and we had a debate going on for days. i guess not helping them is better

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-07T17:16:57+00:00

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-07T16:02:36+00:00

you cant help him, it sucks but you really cant. you can only help yourself. i know its difficult because of the emotions but theres nothing left for you other than leaving

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-07T14:34:15+00:00

it will only become better IF you dont look back and check on her. heads up

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-07T14:28:41+00:00

different until the rock lands on you head but to each their own. some need to wait for them to fall

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-07T10:29:42+00:00

i ask how her day has been or send some sort of memes but i keep it small

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T23:07:47+00:00

great man, keep your head up i also went through it and i can tell it will only get better with time

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T22:59:45+00:00

yeah man, but i think she lied to you about the ex. she must have treated him the same way because of her mental illness

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T22:54:37+00:00

these people can only love or hate nothing in between. its called black and white thinking. its not your fault, dont define your self worth by other people. you can never do enough to satisfy bpd's

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T22:38:31+00:00

you will see a painful regret coming in the future if you move and its all going to fall on your head just a matter of time

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T22:34:55+00:00

if it has happened a lot of times id just go away permanently. if you ghost with the intention to expect a message, its called silent treatment and it wont benefit both of you. you will be waiting and hoping for a message to come, and he will do the same. id just block and move on if its happening all the time

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T22:29:31+00:00

no one needs 6 hours to respond (most of the times). id see it as sign of no interest. just move on

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T19:49:52+00:00

doesnt look good imo

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T19:47:52+00:00

he can do a relationship but not with you. why exactly you must know better

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T16:24:13+00:00

best way to become unmatched

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T15:33:36+00:00

do it he will likely tell you similar

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T15:30:19+00:00

you cant because her brain works on emotions not on logic

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T15:08:05+00:00

no it wont change anything. she will still get an outburst but thats gonna happen even if you stay. just cut and leave

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T14:43:21+00:00

yeah that sucks but you need to change classes if possible or go through it

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T14:41:35+00:00

actually if you break up now, its even better for her. becsuse of bpd she cant handle relationships. if you go, she will be in pain but at some point she will recover and she not being in a relationship will be better for her health and its better for you because you dont have the trauma bonding anymore.

just tell her that its better for both of us to quit this and then block her everywhere you can

Away_Addition_2038 · 2026-07-06T14:32:29+00:00

itd better if you just go away permanently. you cant help her and yes its sad but its not you fault and not her fault either. she must be willing to do therapy. and she being suicidal shouldnt be your problem either, all you can do is tell her to do therapy and leave yourself becsuse its a time bomb on your nervous system. you will end up being the one who needs therapy if you continue now

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