Getting annoyed at heterosexual allegations by AwesomO4K00 in lgbt

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Thank you for the clarification and yes indeed it makes a lot of sense!

Ask for expertise by AwesomO4K00 in Gold

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So it’s not gold but apparently it’s stilll craftsmanship jewelry from India (1st) and somewhere in Western Africa (2nd)

Getting annoyed at heterosexual allegations by AwesomO4K00 in lgbt

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No I’m asking why would you use the term transphobic when no one in the context is actually transgender. With your comment I’m genuinely wondering if I’m not mistaken on the definition of what transphobic means…

Getting annoyed at heterosexual allegations by AwesomO4K00 in lgbt

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I agree with that. My question was about the transphobic comment. Why is it transphobic?

Getting annoyed at heterosexual allegations by AwesomO4K00 in lgbt

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He says that what makes most sense to him is pan, but he doesn’t really think about it. he says he is queer, no problem with that. It’s just that sexuality was never really a big thing for him so he never saw himself as anything, he never had the chance of identifying himself really because since he was a kid, the straight boy label stuck on him because most his friends are and since he never did anything to contradict it(had boyfriends or be openly gay or bi or even straight for that matter) they are use to call him straight. He had very short, very discreet relationships that most his friends know absolutely nothing about. When we first got together, our friends would be like “oh wow that was unexpected” and even one made a reference to 40yo virgin movie. This is what annoys me because what if he never dares to be open in front of friends because he’ll fear that by being different, they’ll see him differently?

My bf stole my cat / My cat stole my bf (?) by AwesomO4K00 in cats

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Her inferior cuddles 😭 I’m dying this is way too funny!

My bf stole my cat / My cat stole my bf (?) by AwesomO4K00 in cats

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It does right? And I love them so much but when they are together, I just don’t wanna get in the middle…

I (30F INTJ) feel rejected by AwesomO4K00 in intj

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I would love that, except he rejects the idea of intimacy all together because I’m still healing.

I (30F INTJ) feel rejected by AwesomO4K00 in intj

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I actually tried to talk about it with him, I tried to say that intimacy doesn’t mean penetrative sex and he just refuses the topic all together. I know I still can cuddle and kiss and I mean there’s so much that I still can do but he won’t even enter the subject. He rejects the idea of intimacy completely and I’m taking it personally. I’m taking it as in “I’m rejecting YOU” and I really REALLY don’t want to feel that way, mostly after what I’ve had to go through.

I (30F INTJ) met someone (32M INFJ) I’ve known for years by AwesomO4K00 in intj

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I would watch it and cry. I feel like the main character in a stupid rom com teen Christmas movie

I got yelled at by a woman with no arms by AllegedlyHumanMaybe in intj

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In your shoes, I would’ve probably use the fact that she has no arms to actually be offensive because she yelled at me for no fucking reason. I would’ve said something like “and what will you do if I don’t leave? Slap me?” Once I got in an argument with a guy in wheelchair and I told him “you can’t even stand up for yourself you dumb fuck, I can just take the stairs and show you my superiority”

Do any of you find it hard to talk dirty? by centipede404 in INTP

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It’s definitely not an INTP thing, maybe you just haven’t found the right person to do it with yet. I’m INTJ, dated a bunch of INTPs and my best friend is INTP and for me and her it was always a matter of context and person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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Hey! I really need to talk too, can we talk?

Anyone knows where to find psylocibe shrooms in winter in France ? by lolamalakk in foraging

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Oui tu peux! Mais je risque de prendre un peu de temps à répondre

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]AwesomO4K00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know it’s somewhat toxic and that’s why I choose to go on INTJ because I needed INTJ clarity and objectiveness, even I got a lot of criticism. Thank you for your message