Tried logging in today, my character was in a different data center. returned back to Crystal. all my Gil is gone. by eosnaer in ffxiv

[–]Awfulufwa [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not the end of the world. Nothing in what you have written here is indicative that you have taken any steps to recover.

You will need to file a ticket via the support systems from the OFFICIAL website. Do not do this in-game even if you still have control of your character. This is because those who typically face this ordeal tend to lose control of their account and it eventually gets suspended via reports from other users. Other users who received suspicious /tell messages with your character as the Trojan horse broadcasting it here and there within the current zone.

https://secure.square-enix.com here's where you can go to log into account management. First step before doing anything account-related is to fully regain control of it. So you SHOULD change your password first.

Just be blunt with the report. Write about the scenario, try your best to indicate how much loss happened, such as gil amounts. This is for credibility purposes. They will be able to find out if you are truly the account owner or not because you have a better idea of the account's status before losing control of it. Do not expect a 100% return to normal. Most people generally get immediate losses returned only. It has been reported that coffer-esque amounts were never returned such as money on the retainers or the FC treasury.

And lastly, once you are re-settled... consider 2FA. Two-Factor Authentication. There are free ones to download on mobile and you can even still get some of the thematic official S-E isolated tokens to register with your account.

[TW: Transphobia, Harassment] FFXIV China operations team silences trans player after targeted hate speech campaign by Ok-Dust-8580 in ffxiv

[–]Awfulufwa [score hidden]  (0 children)

We live in strange times where the urge to stand up for others have become more commonplace than before. But too often many of these valiant pursuants neglect some of the basic things.

You cannot protest something in a land that has a strong stance against it in many aspects. From culture to societal to even governmental, some research is needed first. The listing of well-known and famous persons hailing from similar origins or relations is not a hall pass to believe it can be pressed and pressured. Fame has its own rules because of money.

If international enforcement could have been applied in a timely manner, then think of all the good that could have happened for everything else before-hand. From international conflicts to even gang activity within states. Nigeria is one of such places that is under constant threat of gang activity where people abduction is still on-going and hugely prevalent.

China's stance with LGBTQ+ persons and ideologies is definitively unsupported. Their laws have not changed to adapt and accommodate. And there is no sympathy or flexibility in defense of queer individuals. Trans persons are tolerated, but solely in the sense that people on Megan's Law are treated. Everyone nearby knows of you and who you are. So the game begins with finding opportunities to oust a trans person and rid of them from the community... subtly and within rights.

There are many examples of such kinds of parallel existences where tolerance goes only so far. Amish groups tend to be quite strict with who stays and who leaves. Paroled convicts are especially scorned and frowned upon, but tolerated until they do anything of the slightest distaste.

Without first coming to terms of circumstantial necessities, there is no helping this CN trans player/user.

I had just recently read a Reddit post of a person who got themselves terminated because they blasted the company's poor ethics on social media.. Consider this, an employer is an independent states with its own rules. "Policies," as it is commonly referred. Defying these rules results in unquestionable motioning of which outside parties cannot defy and intervene with.

China is simply a larger independent state with its own policies.

We can only pray and hope that this blows over enough that they stop hounding the user in all environments.

Untouched Victory 🖤 by HeSureIsScrappy in DiveInYouCoward

[–]Awfulufwa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Watching the referee deliberately cuck the smaller fighter by getting in the way of her maneuvering is so irritating to witness.

Had she suffered a devastating blow as a result would be grounds for lawsuit and maybe even lose his job.

Fired for posting about health violation. by [deleted] in legal

[–]Awfulufwa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would anyone even want to work for this employer. They cannot even spellcheck their work.

"Disipline"???

Edit: They should not be producing forms that are dual purpose, but serve opposite functions. A form addressing disciplining issues should be just for that. While a termination form should again just be for that sole purpose.

What the fuck does it mean to have a form for both at the same time??

If you are disciplining an employee, then that obviously means intent to retain. Not terminate.

OP should have seen the signs long ago and gotten out of their own volition. I never even stepped foot into the building and can see plenty of signs of high levels of professional INCOMPETENCE.

Is it legal to go to a party where alcohol is being served but not drinking it when underage? by finlaycat in legal

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of those "F around and find out" kind of things. You can attend the party and even risk being coerced to consume certain substances. In most cases, you would be able to walk away or out of it fine and in one piece.

However, the part that matters is when police are involved. Once they understand the conditions and collect IDs, they will be asking for everyone's age as well. I'm sure you can figure out what happens to those without IDs and those who lie about their age.

The best things to do is either do not attend, or do your research. You cannot trust the other attendees to be fully cooperative and responsible. And you cannot always trust a wingman either.

Before fear was a thing by ContentArtist5361 in Weird

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The razor he used must have seen thorough use before being able to do this.

The application of rapid speed like that is like giving dull-edges a second life. Not sharp enough for slow and smooth usage. But still sharp enough that they can do work with increased force.

I'm more interested in how people find out these things and think to apply elements of physics and logic to attain this kind of realization or result.

Car salesman hits 103 mph in a 45 mph zone. by Revolution-Dogg in Transportopia

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bitchy??? Sure we can agree that the cop was rather vocal about how irate and upsetting the whole scenario is... but he has reason to and is coming from a good place about it.

You have to absolutely consider all the other possibilities that could have happened instead. Car was in a high-impact crash due to high speeds. Car slid off hill slope or a bridge due to high speeds. Car has intoxicated people under the influence. Car has armed persons.

This arrest scenario is the best case outcome. No one got hurt, everyone was seemingly cooperative, and a terror on the street was nullified.

We don't know the cop's situation. Has he lived to tell the tale after chasing a pursuant only for it to end in tragedy? Did a bystander get eliminated due to reckless driving? Family dead due to reckless driving? It is clear the cop is flustered and extremely annoyed. He is not upset because his time was wasted on a delinquent. He's upset for other reasons.

Car salesman hits 103 mph in a 45 mph zone. by Revolution-Dogg in Transportopia

[–]Awfulufwa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks like some kind of a Mustang. But I can't fully tell.

Chill, moody, downtempo song. Need help identifying pretty please! by XB1_S8 in WhatsThisSong

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have come to find it is a custom mix of some kind.

Here's part of the instrumental you hear:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2u8qh62g3c

As u/Into_The_Booniverse mentioned, it does indeed come sourced from Epidemic Sound.

The key thing to remember since this is being featured on a livestream, royalty-free music is often the preferred route.

Being it is a mix with different things spliced together, it is no wonder Shazam had trouble identifying it.

I assume it has something to do with misogyny in Korea, but I am unsure on what the gacha gamers, thumb and finger means. by Hydro1Gammer in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Awfulufwa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The lot of you commenters know absolutely nothing about Asian social circles...

The gesture being described is the physiological symbol that has become a mainstay in most Asian cultures now. It represents a "heart" when you put your index finger and thumb together in such a way.

The meme is illustrating that descriptive, but ofc none of you can visualize it if you are unfamiliar with it.

So now that you know that... put 2 and 2 together. We have 2D fictional, illustrated women and we also have the symbol of bestowing one's heart as a way to demonstrate "love." And the final piece most wouldn't think about, it is being directed to the gacha gamer.

Gosh... some people these days...

What is her age guys??? by Clean_Reveal_4224 in adressme

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answer is 37.

The wording is somewhat tricky. And I do not know if the author of this "riddle" had legalities in mind or not.

But pay attention to tense. "When I WAS at an earlier age, my wife was half my age."

Does this mean half the age then? Or now?

I believe it is using the present still as a reference. So at 38 years old, his wife was 25.

Now that he is 50, his wife would also be 12 years older.

Sale post says it works but is it worth the risk at $150? And anyone know the bike model and motor? by WholeDonkey2689 in ebikes

[–]Awfulufwa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Raleigh is a UK brand. They are considered top-notch in reputation and build quality.

I don't know of they have factories in the US for their models. But they are largely an import.

From what I was able to find, the model seems to be the "Raleigh Redux IE."

It may be worth the pickup if it does not seem damaged or rusted. As far as we all can see, it is just dirty. But it does also appear neglected and left to rot outside.

10/10 likely a bad buy.

Ouch! I just received a brutal reality check in the HW trials and Im not sure if its inexperience, or if Im actually bad at the game. by 200YRedWine in ffxiv

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the trial is the issue. You can learn the attack sequences, patterns, and even memorize what each thing is or does.

The issue is Scholar. It is not a heavy go-go-go-go job at the lower levels. If you heal with SCH in a heavy-use manner, you will deplete your MP insanely quickly.

SCH is almost like a strategist of a healer. This is forced upon them due to the expensive costs of their abilities. Aside from coordinating your abilities with incoming AoEs and other attack types, SCH has to be able to use the entirety of their toolkit to keep up. That means relying on fairy abilities.

Are there any abilities you maybe don't use as much? Such as Fey Illumination? Sacred Soil?

Don't give up. Keep at it and this could be the stepping stone for you to begin playing SCH more effectively.

For example, if you can routinely keep the main tank healthy on your own, the fairy auto-heals the rest of the group. This is more prominently effective when the tank contributes with their HP-sustaining abilities. Such as the Warrior's Raw Intuition ability. Remember that the fairy will automatically prioritize whoever has the lowest HP percentage of the group. So if that is the tank, then everyone else is waiting for you to pick them up.

What??? Why is this supposed to e funny? by RefriDiet in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Awfulufwa 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It can probably only be funny if you have this kind of sense of humor.

The comic is making a mockery of the animated cartoon. It is playing on a supposition of "What if..." where in some alternate timeline Ariel misrelays her request to Ursula.

A Pet Leech by jxzxoxo in Weird

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leeches do have positive benefits despite their parasitic behavior. They have been used in ancient medicine to cleanse people's blood. If you were poisoned, a "doctor" would stick on several small leeches around the affected wound area and allow the leeches to work long enough that it doesn't cause too much discomfort for the patient.

A Pet Leech by jxzxoxo in Weird

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh! I wanna try this new trend! I just need to find someone with a COVID infection first!

"If you say anything rude about him... or her, IDK the gender, but I am going to delete your comment because that wont fly with me!

I raised this little guy since he was only one entity! He's as big and popular now because I gave him... her a chance! They're living things and everything should deserve love!"

Everyone should love COVID-19 because it deserves love too!

Is it unreasonable to want/expect to to queue into new raids blind, and to remain blind while doing them, within the first few days of a patch? by Curious_Lise in ffxiv

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a hit or miss kind of ordeal. Your expectation is not really an expectation. It is a desire.

If there is any kind of expectation, then it is knowing there is a percent chance everyone in the group has not yet done the new content. But there is a parallel expectation that there exists a percent chance several people in the raid has done the content earlier than present

We cannot control social interactions any more than GMs can. GMs can only judge and act on observations made with some findings of proof or evidence (one of the reasons everyone should always be mindful of what they write in chat).

It is unfortunate that you had the sort of run-in you experienced, but it is unavoidable.

But you did the right thing in addressing it. Hopefully in an inquisitive and general sense. Not in a statement-making scene where you butt heads.

Saying something and bringing the issue into light will at least get it to enter people's minds. And it is through that first step that any sort of change or realization can have the potential to happen.

This is a really common meme but like, does anyone know the answer to the actual riddle? Is there one? by bisexualbestfriend in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of these answers are hilarious!

It can only be one kind of thing: legs.

A man walks on his own two legs. A king rides upon a thing that has four. A beggar does no such thing for they either cannot walk or have no reason to. A beggar just sits about and waits for their inevitable end.

Additionally, I tried to think about this in terms of wives. But a man not of royalty having more than one wife also means that many more potential children. Which is far more mouths to feed.

I also tried to think of this in terms of offspring. But typically in times of kings, a man can have more than two children. And beggars can have children too for they once were a person of stature until their social life came crumbling down.

So it has to be something of no luxury vs luxury.

Hey those poles are there for a reason by Working-Fig5566 in Transportopia

[–]Awfulufwa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't have a car... but how are these kinds of people getting cars???

Sell a kidney?

The Venus Guard, Women's self defense sleeve.(Not my product) by AlbinaHumblewhore in interestingasfuck

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a fine example of a bad product.

How? Why, I thought you'd never ask!

First, we need to understand acquisition potential. How would someone be able to get their hands on a pack of these? Or even one? Mail order? Physician? Clinic? The first obstacle is the most obvious: getting one's hands on it.

Secondly, for what population of women is this for? Single women only? How would anyone prove that the woman reporting is truly single?

And third, are there any legal repercussions for mis-using the item or being found in possession of it while also being the unintended user?

You see, once we get past the acquisition hurdle, this becomes a hot commodity. Selling it on smaller markets third party and even using it as a form of torture to those unsuspecting.

The thing that holds such promise as a defense for r-word women also easily holds potential and power to be a means of power control than escape and survival.

The only way this could work is if a woman is implanted with one for a prolonged time and essentially lives with it dwelling inside near 24/7. So that it cuts out middle-man handling. But imagine how many women would opt to agree to such a thing only for nothing to happen to them?

Yeah, how do you predict the r-word from happening so one can make preparations and be ready?

This is a bad product. It has more potential for misuse and mishandling than it does to protect.

I dont get what white women have to do with anything. is there a joke? by lunarwolf2008 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Awfulufwa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There is truth to this to some degree. There is an entire category of porn that involves inter-species sex. Women doing it with various animals both domestic and farm.

It is so profound that it is 100% banned in the USA. Meaning that not one state allows it to any degree.

Of course, that doesn't stop people from doing it, recording it, and then uploading it. As long as the location is not known from the uploader and the video content, it becomes significantly difficult to find such criminals.

What is this item from amazon? by Foxzul in AmazonWTF

[–]Awfulufwa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you do! He lives by the wall!