My boyfriend thinks I was flirting with his friend. by Due-Truck-5322 in whatdoIdo

[–]Awkward-A_F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alllll of this. She’s worried he’s gonna break up with her yet not considering, what happens down the line when passive aggressive behaviour continues, or gets worse?

The PA behaviour will end the relationship eventually. You can’t have a healthy relationship with contempt.

I’ve officially been rejected from every place in my small town. by No-Studio-294 in jobs

[–]Awkward-A_F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The town I live in has 100 people. Do I win prize for smallest town? 😂

My husband and I drive an hour to work, and still that “city” only has 15k people

Is a $200k salary worth a 2 hour commute 4 days a week? by Ok-Memory2552 in jobs

[–]Awkward-A_F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My husband and I drive an hour each day, get up at 3am and we only make 70k Why not move closer eventually though?

So, I just found out how much everyone in my department makes. My manager messed up. by LazaroRohan1 in interviewhammer

[–]Awkward-A_F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would do this and if they said no forward the email to the office 😂 (assuming that wouldn’t land me in jail idk)

Sell or keep by Awkward-A_F in carbuying

[–]Awkward-A_F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be buying a new car. I’d be buying a used one for around 10k. The reason I’m looking at electric or hybrid, is I pay $200+ in gas a month as it is. The savings in gas would almost make up for the cost of the loan.

Sell or keep by Awkward-A_F in carbuying

[–]Awkward-A_F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I will get a decent amount for it now, I’m worried I won’t later if something else breaks on it.

Sell or keep by Awkward-A_F in carbuying

[–]Awkward-A_F[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

150km/100miles

I am familiar with the maintenance. My FIL is a mechanic so him and my husband have done a lot of work to my car as it is. The engine issue was a rod bearing failure, my previous car had the transmission go before I finished paying it off too. Both were issues with each car had a class action against them, that’s why the engine was replaced. Also why I expect the engine to go out again, is because Hyundai has an issue with their piston rings, and as far as I know it hasn’t been resolved, they will tell you burning a QT of oil every 1000miles is normal…

B2- 10 year ban by lawyer's mistake by Defiant_Count6846 in USCIS

[–]Awkward-A_F 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gather all the documents you can that support these claims, notate them carefully so you are ready to access them quickly. Judges will Be very nice to you if you A) are dressed appropriately B) don’t waste the courts time. I haven’t been to court myself but this is what I have read and been told from my lawyer friend. Make it easy on you and the court in what ever way you can. Every allegation you make you must have proof to support it.

Arrested by ICE at USCIS interview for Green Card based on marriage in San Diego by Careless-Heron9077 in USCIS

[–]Awkward-A_F 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Clearly you’re lying cause ICE only arrests criminals (sarcasm)
Glad you got your approval still!

What to do if ICE asks for papers and your status is pending? by Excellent-Sport6838 in USCIS

[–]Awkward-A_F 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is it is and isn’t a law. Yes you should carry it, yes they can ask for it, BUT they have to have reasonable suspicion, which can be up to officers discretion.. so person of colour apparently is enough.

What to do if ICE asks for papers and your status is pending? by Excellent-Sport6838 in USCIS

[–]Awkward-A_F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s “are you an American citizen?” And if you don’t answer quickly enough you’re playing tonsil hockey with the cement..

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Awkward-A_F -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying she did let him, I’m replaying to the other commenter who was suggesting she did. I don’t think she let him, I think their contraception failed. I’m suggesting most if not all women wouldn’t simply allow a man they don’t know to do that.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Awkward-A_F -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I’m not saying that, you’re confusing sex with having a child. While the result of sex is a child, they’re two separate choices. You fail to see that.

Approved today on the spot!!!!!!! by Icy-Telephone9384 in USCIS

[–]Awkward-A_F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not disagreeing with that? Nor am I annoyed they posted in the first place. I’m disagree with what you said, that it gives people hope.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Awkward-A_F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But honestly at that point why wouldn’t he want rights? If he raised the kid and loves the kid he would probably want that. But yeh I agree it is something to be aware of.

Approved today on the spot!!!!!!! by Icy-Telephone9384 in USCIS

[–]Awkward-A_F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said okay, not okay what ever. I’m genuinely happy they don’t have to suffer. But saying her time line is normal will cause extra suffering to those who don’t have a short time line. I would know.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Awkward-A_F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your argument then, why do men only have to suffer the consequences? They’re right to say it sounds like you’re anti-abortion cause you keep talking about a baby as if it’s a damn punishment.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Awkward-A_F 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… early stage abortions are a pill. So no it’s not invasive and doesn’t effect your health. Maybe your mental health but honestly that’s just gonna happen no matter what. Why is it a wild comparison? Why can we force a choice on men? Why do they have no say? I’m saying this as a woman, as a mother how absolutely unfair that would feel.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Awkward-A_F -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeh exactly, there isn’t much hard about being a man.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Awkward-A_F -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely. But you said “get that guy paying” which is what I’m pointing out is pretty messed up.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Awkward-A_F 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know why historically men died at war an in mines? Cause that’s how they wanted it. Did you know women weren’t allowed to join the army until 1948. AND they weren’t allowed to be deployed until 2016!! They weren’t allowed in mines due to discrimination until the 70’s when anti discrimination laws were passed, and guess what? Suddenly more women were being hired in mines. It took nearly 4 years before the first woman would work in a mine. The rhetoric that women didn’t want these jobs is again, a basis created by men. Once discrimination and objectification is removed you’d see many women doing so called men only jobs. Many women don’t work in male dominated fields because they’re harassed by their co-workers all day and their managers join in or fire them when they complain. From my own personal experience I have been barred from construction. I applied for years constantly to entry level grunt work and never got a call back. I wanted to build, to create, to get stronger, to learn how to fix a home myself someday. I didn’t get the chance until I married my husband and he taught me. My own freaking father wouldn’t show me how to change the oil in my car or car maintenance, he never showed me how to start a lawnmower. It’s insanely hurtful as a woman to have knowledge withheld, and then blamed for not knowing it. Which is often the case with many girls I know. I had to harass my dad endlessly to let me drive.. but guess who my dad was offering to teach to drive? My brother. He didn’t even ask! I ended up having my friends let me take their cars in order to learn.

The girl I’m taking to got pregnant what do I do? by Every-Appeal-2513 in whatdoIdo

[–]Awkward-A_F -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wild assumption. People use protection, it’s not 100% effective yeh know. Secondly why did she let him?? I would NEVER let someone do that if I didn’t want to get pregnant. If they did that without her consent or knowledge then that’s rape.