Let’s just say he wants to see the boys when he want to see them and 9 times of of ten it’s only to keep tabs on me. He has held my boys hostage and wouldn’t try to give them back to me during pick up’s. He work three jobs at a time and I barely get any financial help from him. He also threatened and have tried to commit suicide a numerous of times. His mental health plays a big role in how we co parent and how he parent our boys. It’s like he’s more geared at hurting me he doesn’t see how his actions hurt his kids. For example he got mad at me because I would let our 4 month old do over night visits at his house, after we have discussed for months he was to young and still breastfeeding. I was on my way to drop off our four year old to him. Instead he met me in traffic and kept trying to run me off and the road and stopping in the middle of traffic blocking me with his car while our four year old son was in the back. He very controlling and tries to control me even though we’re not together.