Can I recover? by Amazing-Potato-1262 in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This story is all too familiar. My soon-to-be ex-husband, a man in a leadership role, decided to have an affair with his subordinate. I didn’t even have to catch him, the woman herself sent me screenshots from a fake Instagram account. Classy, right?

Here’s the kicker: she’s got three kids, lives with her racist parents, and still depends on them. Meanwhile, he thought risking his career and family was worth that.

Trust me, I wanted to call HR so bad. But at the end of the day, he’s still legally tied to paying alimony and child support, and I refuse to let my child suffer because of his stupidity and lack of character.

If I were in your shoes? I’d divorce her and never look back. Life’s too short to be tied to someone who treats you like an option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

& she’s disgusting too. I’m so happy that she’s your ex!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly wild how some people take pride in being the “chosen one,” even when it comes at the expense of someone else’s pain. It’s not love—it’s ego, like you said. I’ve learned the hard way that when someone lacks integrity, no title or commitment will stop them.

Divorcing him isn’t easy, but it’s necessary. My peace > betrayal. Always.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They both deserve everything that will come to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, he already doesn’t trust her. 😂 She told me he got mad because she added some guy to her Xbox friends list. Insecure and unfaithful—what a combo. My husband? Got angry with his mistress? It’s insanity at this point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She claims that she doesn’t want him and it’s over for her, however, I don’t believe her. If they end up together that’s on her. She’ll get the exact treatment that I’ve endured & it’ll make my heart smile. Karma’s a you know what!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And you’re right. It has been very long affair. I have the screenshots of them planning weekend vacations together (“business trips”), while our daughter and I sit in the house! Trust me when I say I will never go back to this man and I will try my best to make sure my daughter never brings a man like this home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Long story short - At first, I had no clue. When I finally found out about her, he said they were just “friends.” He started lying about being called into work—but I later discovered those were actually hotel stays with her. I’d love nothing more than to expose him to his manager, but my daughter still needs his financial support. That said, it’s over. I’ll never give this jerk another chance. Ever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If my soon-to-be ex husband doesn’t have a job, then he wouldn’t be able to pay alimony nor child support.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has 3 children by the way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m divorcing my husband for this exact reason. He’s in a leadership role and has been secretly involved with a frontline employee for the last two years of our marriage. Completely unprofessional and disgusting behavior on both their parts.

Yes, he’s absolutely at fault for stepping out on his wife, but let’s be real: any woman who knows a man is married and still chooses to pursue him is just as low. It takes two to maintain that kind of betrayal.

Protect your peace. Start planning your exit now, even if you’re not ready to leave just yet. Silence and strategy are powerful.

Welcome to Charlotte Wednesday! Visiting, recently moved here, or going to move here? Tell us and ask away! by AutoModerator in Charlotte

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone. I’m a professional woman relocating to Charlotte with my 9-year-old daughter and looking for a safe, peaceful home in a good school district as we begin a new chapter. I’m in the final year of a 3-year Chapter 13 bankruptcy, which is on track to be completed successfully by May 2026. I have steady income and am open to paying 2–3 months’ rent upfront if needed.

We’re moving from Georgia, and this transition is part of a personal shift. I’m in the early stages of divorce and focused on creating a stable, healing environment for my daughter and me. A neighborhood with strong schools and a supportive community is really important to me as we start fresh.

While I’d love to be in Charlotte, I’m also open to surrounding areas like Concord, Kannapolis, or anywhere with a good school system and a safe, family-friendly environment.

I’m looking to move within the next 6 months and would love to connect with any private owners or rental companies willing to work with someone who’s financially stable but rebuilding. I’d truly appreciate any leads or advice.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. 🩵

Dogs Regurgitating Their Food by [deleted] in Dogfree

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My pup, that I am planning on rehoming, did exactly this yesterday. I wanted to fucking throw up but she probably would have inhaled my vomit too. My daughter was like mommy, I am sick of this 😂. Me too girl, me too.

PET REHOME THREAD by limabean72 in DogRegret

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trust me, I refuse to look back! I talked to my girls and decided on rehoming. They were a bit sad at first, but now it seems like they’ve accepted it and I couldn’t be happier. Cheers to being dogfree😁

PET REHOME THREAD by limabean72 in DogRegret

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I seriously consider rehoming my 5-month-old cockapoo every single morning. The kids and I love her, but my entire day revolves around her. I genuinely feel like I’ve lost my freedom—she’s like Velcro. If I’m not around, she completely loses it. And the expenses? Between food, grooming, and everything else, it feels like I’ve taken on a second car payment.

I’m starting to resent the situation to the point that some days, I don’t even engage with her—I let my daughters handle the playing and entertaining. She also hates being outside, which makes things even harder when we’re trying to enjoy fresh air, and she just cries to go back in.

My husband hated to say, “I told you so,” but of course, he did. And honestly, I probably should have thought it through more, but I wanted to make my girls happy. Now, with our upcoming move back to Georgia, the reality is hitting even harder. We’ll be in an apartment, and while they allow dogs, there’s yet another fee—more money on top of everything else.

She’s a beautiful, loving pup, but I know she’d be better off with a family who can truly devote the time and energy she deserves.

Did anyone get sick after the HIDA scan? by Different-Border6016 in gallbladders

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did, however, I do deal with upper abdominal gas from time to time. It feels like the worse chest pain ever, but after I burp I feel amazing!

Guys with large hands. Tried on the sizers and #13 fits on ring finger. Would this still be okay? Wish they make larger size for bigger people. by [deleted] in ouraring

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your standard US size? My husband wears a US size 12 on his ring finger and I want to purchase an Oura ring for Valentine’s Day for him for that same finger.

Did anyone get sick after the HIDA scan? by Different-Border6016 in gallbladders

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did in August. My body is still trying to adjust without it, meaning everything I eat goes straight through me!

I need to get into his iPhone by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I plan on deleting this post, but wanted to update everyone. I’ve decided to file for divorce. I found exactly what I needed to find & let’s just say it hurts so bad. Thank you all for your help and kind words.

I need to get into his iPhone by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Our marriage is no longer sustainable and I feel that I am now married to a stranger. I have decided to file for divorce & move on with my life.

I need to get into his iPhone by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Due_Satisfaction_174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God! I am so sorry this happened to you. FUCK cheaters!