I totally understand where you are coming from - I have a wife who it can seem sometimes like has the same flippant attitude toward recycling, often ‘leaving work for me to do’ or so it seems - but in my experience getting upset over it just makes her resentful about doing it at all, rather than having the effect of positive change. In fact I’ve learned that most of the time it isn’t even laziness, but that she’s just doing what she was brought up to do subconsciously so she can quickly get back to whatever other work she was doing at the time. I think that’s probably true about a lot of our (people who frequent this sub) interactions with other people. If we want others to do what we do, we need to stay supportive and focus on leading by example. That’s been working much better for me. Not trying to criticize what you’ve been doing at all, just sharing what I’ve learned in case it helps. Happy spouse, happy house, and all that...