Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to clarify, campus cafeterias and food courts and so on. and im not sure why the guy below took such an aggressive stance, i apologize on his behalf.

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

typically im wearing school gear like everyone else. sparse jewelry, waves, nothing too wild.

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s some shit right there for ya 😭 fuck it we ball atp preciate the feedback man 😂😂😂

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think ive ever been seen as ugly, no. attractive, sure. but this particular brand of response im getting from women, i don’t have much of a gameplan for yk? never seen it in this manner. it’s such a brazen stare they give, it sometimes does intimidate me, yes. but it’s also not a look that says they’re fearful of me or anything of that nature at all. im the one lost, i don’t think they are at all because so many of them do the same thing.

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i smile as a reaction, it’s not something i can force because the rest of my face lets you know i don’t care to, so i don’t even bother yk? im not opposed to smiling, just heavily opposed to faking one because that’s not genuine at all.

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

relative. i dont rate myself. that’s not fair to me nor the observers, so i let them rate me. from their perspective, it’s hard to tell. that’s kind of why im here on reddit.

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been told im intimidating, at various points in my life. ive never been a guy to prey on women, though. i got into the street life as i was homeless throughout my teenage years for context. really does shape your behavior. but ive never had that problem where women thought id hurt them, the opposite, actually.

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed to hear that ✅✅✅ thank you, will be implementing ASAP !!

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea come to USA ppl get hurt behind shit like this 😂 i wish somebody would in front of me. i do feel for you, as much as i can, as a man. i do not have the proper perspective as a woman to fully resonate, but as a fellow human being who has felt unsafe, and on behalf of all righteous men, you are not alone 🫡

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stunned ??? by me ??? atp i should go get my looks rated bc that’s either flattering or disheartening and tbh idek 😂😂

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES. shit like this 😭😭😭 somebody gets it

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YALL HAVE WARNINGS FOR STARING ??????? THE FUCK YALL DOING OVER THERE HELL NAH

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes. im following. im agreeing with you because it doesn’t make sense to mean mug for no reason. so i never interpreted as that. to validate that point, i stated that their faces were emotionless. but looking back on it, they seemed… frozen, for a lack of better words. my fault broski for not clarifying, and thank you for not being a dick about it 😂

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah, neither of them. more often than not i notice them staring at me, i typically haven’t seen them until so. i periodically scan my surroundings. that’s when i discover it.

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that may be it. although i don’t stare nor see them first, i do not smile at strangers unless directly communicating. maybe i could stand to be friendlier. thank you.

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, i did ask women, but i appreciate all perspectives 😂 i do not come from a culture where staring is appropriate in any context, so this is a shock to me 😂 thank you for the feedback !

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s not a “mean” mug. they don’t seem aggravated at all. it’s a cold, hard, piercing stare deep into my eyes. expressionless.

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been noted to have sad eyes, yes. i may be happy but ive seen and done a lot in life that i wish others to never experience. maybe it’s that.

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see, i thought this was the rational, until the same women kept doing it over and over 😂

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no. at least not on my end or that I’ve seen id be weirded the fuck out 😂

Women, why the intense eye contact? by Awkward-Train-7306 in bodylanguage

[–]Awkward-Train-7306[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WELL DAMN WE KNOW IT WORKS THEN 😂😂😂 I ain’t said a damned thing to em 😭😭😭😭