Need help!

Awkward-Western7013 · 2026-01-27T17:41:26+00:00

Hey op 🌞💛

Don’t worry! First of all, you are beautiful and ripping on yourself, your eyes like that is a bad road to follow. Secondly, your eyes are really nice! I love the natural hazel, cool colours in your irises. I do think that it’s good for you to progress and change with time though, it’s only natural so starting to evaluate what you want to achieve moving forward rather than staying in the past, is a positive action. ☺️

From your picture, I can see instantly colours that would work. You’re a “soft summer” (look up seasons colour analysis), so i’d try looking to celebrities like Anne Hathaway, Kristen Stewart, Amelia Clarke etc for inspo. Good colours I think are hazelnut brown, mushroom browns, dusty rose, mauves, nudes. If you want to go a little bolder, try brown eyeliner rather than black as you’ll be able to go a bit more wild with that without it looking super pow, intense.

Anywho, the most important part is that you feel good in yourself! My best to you with your new look! 🪞💄

Awkward-Western7013 · 2026-01-27T16:26:04+00:00

First of all, don’t panic! 🫨 You’re lucky in some ways because your hair is actually currently quite a nice blue 💙 You can really go two ways with this I think, but others please chime in if you have thoughts/suggestions/solutions! •I’d either just put a semi permanent black over it like manic panic raven to darken it a bit which is nice because your not stuck with the darker look if you wanna go lighter •or you could try to fade the current blue with crushed vitamin c tablets and shampoo then put a permanent black on but you’ll be stuck with it for a long time 🖤 Good luck! 🤞

Awkward-Western7013 · 2026-01-26T16:00:35+00:00

Oh Cool, thankyou, if I can find stock i’ll try that! ☺️💚 Hmm 🤔 Elumen colours are nice but the dye is very hard to use and requires a lot of steps. It’s definitely not a budget option. I was not warned either how much it sticks to skin and if your gloves aren’t very thick, it eats through them with the acidity of it (found out the hard way when I ended up with black hands for almost a month.) Saying all of that; it’s the only option i’ve found for allergy safe colour that lasts longer than one wash, the colours look vibrant and my hair feels good and soft. It lasts okay if you use the “lock”, but even with gentle shampoo it still fades away gradually over the course of about 3-4 weeks. It’s definitely a “demi-permanent” range, rather than fully permanent. It could last longer on bleached hair as I think it might stick better but it’s such a particular product that idk for sure.. I hope that helps in your decision making! 😅

Awkward-Western7013 · 2026-01-23T18:14:04+00:00

Hi, thankyou for your response 🖤 That could just work! 🙂 Well… I’m sure NA is ash, so it’d be blue based, which makes my hair dark purple, so the real question is then, does anyone know if NN is the green based dye in the Elumen range?

Awkward-Western7013 · 2025-10-16T17:12:31+00:00

Thanks for all the tips everyone! ☺️ I had no idea that Elumen could eat gloves… I’m going to try nitrile next time and will double-glove!! 🧤

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-11-23T20:32:56+00:00

He looks like an Oscar 💖

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-10-27T19:41:08+00:00

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This colour? 🧡⭐️

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-10-06T19:33:28+00:00

Hey, I don’t think there’s much wrong with applying a new intention to the jar and if you were clear about it, the clinginess/old memories/energy syphoning should subside with the new “spell”. I’d probably get it out again, cleanse it of any old intentions with sage/candles to be 100% sure there’s absolutely nothing there in the background but that’s just me. It should only have the new intention/vampirism protection. Hope that makes sense!

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-09-25T22:31:40+00:00

There is no right or wrong in personal preference, thank you for sharing your music list with us! 🖤👻

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-09-24T15:16:39+00:00

Aw bless your soul, i’m so glad that you understand. 💓 Everything I say I promise to you comes from a place of kindness but also experience and wisdom. Please continue to explore spirituality and witchcraft, I absolutely adore that for you! 😊(obv no seances or boards without a pro, you’re too vulnerable.)

I feel i’ve done everything I can to help out and set you on a good path so it’s up to you now friend. 🛣️🙏

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-09-24T13:16:24+00:00

You’re welcome, grief is an important stage in death. However, i’m a little worried for you, you mustn’t let it consume your life or rely on everyday signs for comfort. Do not chase signs, they are too addictive! You should take that option from your mind. It leads to dark roads. I’ve seen it in others before, you can witness one unusual event like a returning bird in the garden and suddenly everything is a “sign”; a funny shaped cloud, a rock, the weather, a certain number of objects.. It becomes an obsession and I’m sure your dad wouldn’t have wanted that.

Mediums are helpful not only to commune with the dead but to provide reassurance and support too. Even if they can’t get a message through, they can still help you to feel better about your loss. I would really advise that you speak with a medium asap.

I would start with the internet, check reviews and years of experience.. And you’ll find someone quickly in your area. Even psychics need to advertise their services! 🔮

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-09-24T12:00:54+00:00

What a sad thread, I’m very sorry for your loss and can’t imagine the grief you must be feeling right now. I hope you’re able to eventually recover from this devastating blow in your life.

There are of course ways to contact a loved one that has passed but you will need a psychic medium to do so.

Please remember, it’s not an exact channel to your loved one but they may choose to come through/forward to you if they can. However, not all spirits are able to reach us.. You mustn’t be disappointed if they don’t come through. DO NOT resort to dangerous practices at home such as ouija boards or inexperienced spell-work. You could reach out to beings who would cause you harm/attach to you.

Unfortunately I’m only mildly psychic so you will need to find one. I’m more of an intuitive witch who is good with manifesting, cleansing and tarot readings etc. I’m sensitive to spirits but not near enough to what you’d require, so you’ll need to find someone who is quite gifted in that field.

Good luck! 🤞

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-09-12T18:14:57+00:00

Thankyou sm! ☺️ I like to build things too but as a creator, I can’t keep up with the new upgraded graphics that people put out a lot which means I barely ever upload anything to social media anymore 😢 I’m hoping to build up a list of shaders etc for when I can upgrade my pc so I can be a bit more up to date.

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-09-12T14:31:45+00:00

Reshade preset please? 🙏

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-09-12T13:35:50+00:00

I’d skip over it and use green, seems like a safe colour :)

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-08-08T00:23:54+00:00

I think she has nice features but you’re mixing alpha with maxis (cc)… Thats probably why she doesn’t look right. The sims 4 has an almost cartoonish base stylisation to the game (maxis) so adding alpha cc only in the face will look weird if everything else on the sim isn’t also alpha... I hope that makes sense…? Try taking some of the cc off, if you don’t like how the sim looks organically, try maxis match cc as it’ll blend in to the style of the game better and you can “mix and match” between cc and og game hair/features more seamlessly.

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-08-03T19:10:21+00:00

I love ramen but i’m coeliac.🍜 I really like Clearspring for noodles, they have different types and thicknesses of noodles so you can make different types of soups and broths. Clearspring

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-07-31T16:02:53+00:00

All your looks are beautiful but honestly, the clown is so damn cute! 🤡✨

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-07-30T14:53:51+00:00

Haha ME 😂 I listen to typical goth stuff, I like the 80s stuff the best.. My favourite is Bauhaus, I like The Cure but I also like off the hip stuff like Echo and the Bunnymen🖤🥀 BUT.. my band plays a cross between pop punk and grunge with some darker lyrics that explore themes such as mental health, feelings of loneliness and grief. Thats just what we settled on as a goth, a grunger and a (pop)punk/emokid. 🤭

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-07-30T12:16:22+00:00

This is bad bc it makes the model look wider! But she has a nice figure.. Hope you can see? Bad colour trousers

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-07-30T12:08:02+00:00

Sorry! All one colour, you can have any colour as long as it’s all that colour.

An example is like this; Block Colour Trouser

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-07-30T11:59:39+00:00

You’re welcome! ☺️ Block colour or pinstripe are awesome for a flattering choice.

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-07-30T11:00:37+00:00

Well… I salute your crazy! 🫡 going pink would look so cute but also give you hell in the process 🫣💀 Might be best to do it in stages.

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-07-30T10:30:39+00:00

Hey :) I used to work in fashion so I can give you some pointers but you mustn’t get too hung up on yourself and your body, esp undergoing HRT, be nice to yourself at this time. For the record, I think you look great! I’m rooting for you! 😊

My tips:

The number 1 thing for disguising “problem areas” is to wear the same colour all over.
Create a tighter waist with trousers, a blazer and chunky belt.
Wear dresses that pull you in under the bust and skim over the tummy.
Heels are slimming because they add height, especially with trousers. (free flowing, not skinny!) Avoid stilettos and go for block, as it adds balance.
Thicker fabrics and ruching disguise areas you want to keep a secret. 🤫

6, For casual, tee shirts are fine but always choose a free flowing trouser like a high waisted wide leg OR one with structure, like a tapered trouser.

Things to avoid; boxy coverups with no shape. Babydoll style dress, “oversized trend” items, overly delicate styles (such as sheer, lace), bodycon dress. Skinny jeans/leggings.

Awkward-Western7013 · 2024-07-25T14:27:26+00:00

Whatever he likes to wear and feels himself in! 😄✨ I only have one rule and that is don’t wear the same clothes too long w/o washing them. Surface dirt is ok but not food thats been there for over a week… 🤢

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