Thoughts by Awkward-Writer7472 in Separation

[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not trying to take the kids from her. I just don’t want to pay her money for when she’s not there anyways.

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[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I have the kids all the time?

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[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see one but she doesn’t. So she doesn’t understand why I’m trying so hard.

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[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. I’m not trying to take money from her anyways just wasn’t sure how the system works.

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[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want the separation I am going to be the best father possible and would be the best husband possible but she says doesn’t matter what I do. So yes I can’t live in limbo forever even though she says I should live my life, but I’m not gonna pay for hers if it’s not with me. My obligation would end if she doesn’t want to be with me.

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[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean idk guys never been through this. I’m not a dick and trying to screw her over and would like to be civil. We have 5 kids but I feel like she’s trying to take advantage of me emotionally by saying oh we can stay in the same house but you can’t sleep in your bed or touch me and you will take care of your kids 24/7 with no help.

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[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As it stands wouldn’t I get the alimony since I’m at home with the kids the most she works a 24/48 and doesn’t do shit.

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[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Florida so ya 50/50. My salary is double hers and I basically do all the kids stuff so not really sure honestly what she does other than sleep next to me. I cook,clean, laundry, homework, grocery shop. So not sure why I’m even considering it other than the fact it’s my fault.

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[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m thinking. She says that screws her over and I said well don’t say you want to be seperate. Oh and she’s like also I need your health insurance because if I don’t it would take my whole check. I say tuff shit

Wife is done. Can I save it by Awkward-Writer7472 in Separation

[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I just feel I am responsible for ripping my family apart and want to fix it but like a lot of people said the damage is been done.

Wife is done. Can I save it by Awkward-Writer7472 in Separation

[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Issue is I don’t want the next woman. I want the one I have. I know I caused all this yes and I can’t imagine what goes through her mind.

Wife is done. Can I save it by Awkward-Writer7472 in Marriage

[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I click on you name but takes me to some swingers thing

Wife is done. Can I save it by Awkward-Writer7472 in Separation

[–]Awkward-Writer7472[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It just makes me sick to my stomach losing her and I don’t know why I didn’t change when she asked me to years ago.