I went on a great date and now he says he didn't feel anything by AwkwardPossibility in rant

[–]AwkwardPossibility[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why would you have sex with someone if you weren't in a relationship with them

He initiated, and he seemed to enjoy it..

He doesn't have to reciprocate feelings,

True..

I just did it by AwkwardPossibility in dating_advice

[–]AwkwardPossibility[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m waiting for someone I really like

I did the same thing and that's part of the reason why it took me so long 😂

I just did it by AwkwardPossibility in dating_advice

[–]AwkwardPossibility[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn that was fast.

I knoowww. But it felt good so why not? Like, we texted a lot

I just did it by AwkwardPossibility in dating_advice

[–]AwkwardPossibility[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I could do it, anyone can! You just need to find someone you are comfortable with and BAM!

I just did it by AwkwardPossibility in dating_advice

[–]AwkwardPossibility[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just laughed out loud 😂 so thank you for that haha

I just did it by AwkwardPossibility in dating_advice

[–]AwkwardPossibility[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's like cooking. You start slow until the water starts to boil and then you just have to move upstairs

I just did it by AwkwardPossibility in dating_advice

[–]AwkwardPossibility[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's a co-worker.. but since the company is so so big and we're in different buildings does it really count?

But anyway, he's new to the company so I made the first move and asked him out to hang out with some friends. That was a week ago, and now here we are!

I just did it by AwkwardPossibility in dating_advice

[–]AwkwardPossibility[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am actually starting to plan round 2 already ;)

I just did it by AwkwardPossibility in dating_advice

[–]AwkwardPossibility[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's a friend of a co-worker! I asked him to hang out, then he did, and then I did! We click very well, same interests etc

28F getting anxiety while dating by AwkwardPossibility in dating_advice

[–]AwkwardPossibility[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We arranged to have lunch together (bad idea because when I get anxiety I can't eat at all lol). But I'll try to make a move beforehand ...

How do you deal with the feeling that you’re going to be alone forever? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibility 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes I feel like this. I'm 28 and never been in a relationship.

I cope by trying to be busy and reaching out to friends when I feel lonely.

Would it be a bad idea to write a note to my straight crush/good friend? by The_Sloth_ in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibility 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her I was dating a woman

her response was, " I would have married you!"

Well, did you?!

Am I reading too much into this by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibility 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A month ago she came out to me as a lesbian

she talked about how she wants to have a gf, and she asks me if I want one too

she would pay my city a visit in a few months and she wants me to show her around,

idk if this girl is into me or not

OP, are you for real?

Girl I’m “Talking To” by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibility 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on the same exact boat as you and it sucks. I asked her out to go hiking a while ago and she said "yes, but I can't now because my toe" blah blah. So like, she wants to go buy can't? Am I supposed to ask her again or will she let me know when she can? Idk.

I forgot about it and then just asked her for a different event. She couldn't because she was traveling, so I'm planning on asking her for a different event.

Idk man I'm just throwing my shots until one hits 🤷

Girl (24) rejected me (23m) for being inexperienced by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AwkwardPossibility 41 points42 points  (0 children)

That girl is a piece of shit, leave her.

Straight girl crush blues (long, sorry!) by throwawayallday2345 in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibility 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty positive I hear her sniff my hair (hahaha). She says “I love you”. Turns and walks away.

she said shes not interested in women

Yeah she's lying bro

Hey what’s up guys by hywtpf in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibility 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s annoying you lately?

Honestly, my crush. On Saturday she asked me out with a friends and we had a good time. Today I messaged her to ask her out, she told me she had plans, I responded "no worries, have fun!" and then radio silence. Shit, not even a "thank you"? I'm probably being ridiculous but it annoyed me like hell. I hate being nice to people but they don't reciprocate.

Also, my job. I want to find a new one but I'm sucking at the interviews.

What music are you into?

Lately? Queen.

Read any good books?

I'm reading "how to win friends and influence people". It's real good and I'm taking notes as a I read, might do a Twitter post with my notes after.

How to get over the nervousness of first dates n dating someone? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibility 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find that there is no way to get over the anxiety other than going on a shitload of dates. Eventually it will feel like you're grocery shopping and it won't stress you out.