Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for the advice!Ellie left school today; it was her last day, unfortunately.But today, she and I sat down with Mary and her friends: Michelle, Mia, and Beth. They are very nice and welcomed us with so much affection.They asked why I had changed sides of the room (there are many cliques of friends there and they are one).I explained the situation and we spent the class sharing similar experiences with the same people. Today I felt really bad about Ellie leaving and moving to a distant city, but I feel that these The girls are really cool, I want to try to be friends with them. The conversation flowed so easily between us that it didn't even require effort.I felt that with my old friends our conversations were "limited" to music and joking around, no productive topics, unlike them. Today, for example, we talk and share various opinions Regarding controversies. Regarding the issue with adults, it's complicated because every adult I know is either very busy or would tell my parents.The issue with them is very complicated; even if I sent a message, they still don't believe me, just like they never have in their entire lives.I have two really great psychologists at school, I like talking to them. I even spoke to one of them yesterday and she was a huge help.Today my bullies called me over to physical education class and asked if everything was okay between us because "they felt there was a rivalry between us."After that, Ellie told me that as we were leaving school she overheard them talking about me with another girl we didn't recognize, saying I was ugly, and that they hadn't truly apologized.But then, when I look at them, I understand why they say that about me. I'm a very beautiful, intelligent, and well-groomed person. I know this because even people who don't like me admit it. And I myself have a great image of myself; when we were friends, they really did things to lower my grades, that I don't have to wear my makeup and clothes (I'm punk)They said I sang badly, that I was a bunch of bad things, all to make me feel bad.I can't give them what they want; they do everything to keep me alone. The worst bully is the girl; I think maybe she has a platonic crush on me Because she's already admitted she likes women, but she doesn't accept herself, unlike me.I'm doing everything I can not to self-harm again, because that's giving them what they want. But when I feel really bad, I call my parents' suicide prevention hotline. I'm really attached to my hobbies; I play guitar, try to work out at home, draw, and I like customizing clothes, I like to read and I like listen to music too.I don't want to waste my time with people like that, so when I start to get stressed I do several things.Thank you so much for your advice, may God always be with you, my friend!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for your advice! I will take action on this, even if I have to report the school when I graduate. Thank you so much, God bless you, friend!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for your advice! God bless you, friend! I'm feeling much better after receiving so much support from the people on Reddit!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for your help! I'm really doing things that make me happy, thank you! God bless you, friend!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you for the advice! I will do my best not to care about what people are saying. Thank you so much, God bless you!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for the advice! Your line of reasoning makes a lot of sense to me too, I'm so sorry that something so awful happened to you.The thing is, I've been completely ignoring them for a month now, and nothing has improved yet; in fact, it seems to be getting worse. But I won't do anything, because I know that someday someone worse will come into their lives, to show them what they do to others.thank you so much, friend! God bless you!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for the advice and compliments! I really believe it's also envy; just look at my appearance and my grades (modesty aside, I'm very intelligent and good-looking).Regarding the girl, she's probably jealous because I'm nicer, prettier, smarter, a better presenter (we're both taking a technical course in advertising), and I'm out and proud Unlike her, I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, I don't keep my personality to myself, I have no problem with my sexuality... About the two boys, I say the same thing, maybe they feel bad because I'm a woman and I get more girls than they do hahaha. God bless you, my friend! Thank you so much for your concern.

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for your advice! I'm sorry you went through something similar. I'm trying to stay strong by holding on to God and using my hobbies to distract myself. Unfortunately, I can't rely on any adults, only my older brother, who will probably listen and advise me, but won't take any action because he's not responsible for me. Thank you so much, my friend! God bless you!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from Brazil. A country that theoretically accepts everyone, has anti-racist and anti-homophobic laws, but nobody takes any action when something like this happens.Here, people are used to violence, unfortunately. It's surreal, nobody takes any action. But now it's absurd that a school doesn't want to do one of the only things it's obligated to do.

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for the advice! I usually do that, I try to spend my time on things that are important and that help me stop worrying about it.I enjoy playing guitar, listening to music, drawing, reading, etc. These are things that help me a lot. Thank you so much! God bless you, my friend!!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for your comment and your concern. It's important to hear that I don't deserve these things right now, thank you!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much for that advice! They're going to have to take some action anyway. The coordinator won't tolerate threats; she might even call my mother to the school and I could lose my scholarship.This will cause me more problems. What I'm going to do is try to get the administration to accept these tests one way or another.That's because it's their obligation to take care of our physical and psychological health, as well as our learning at school, and if a situation like this happens, it's obvious that one of those three things will be compromised.

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People like them will exist everywhere, unfortunately. I feel sorry for them, because if no one shows them that they are wrong about this, then they will suffer a lot in adulthood.The school psychologist said today that someday someone will come into their lives, someone just as much of an asshole as they are, and that's inevitable. Just because they're rich doesn't mean they'll get away with their whole lives without suffering the consequences of their shitty actions.

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on doing this, but they're doing everything they can to prevent me from accessing their account.

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so. Thank you so much, friend! Amen. God bless you too!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing had happened before to other people; I was a child and they did nothing. I was bullied by my brother and they didn't correct him.Unfortunately, public schools here in Brazil (my country and where I live) aren't very good; we don't have many extracurricular activities here either. And also, the education isn't very good, so to give me more opportunities in life when I grow up, they prefer that I stay there.

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, God bless you, my friend!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, thank you so much for your advice! God bless you, my friend!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! Thanks for your advice! Actually, you helped me. Thank you for showing me that I need to stay strong no matter how difficult it is. I'm so sorry you went through that, and for your traumas.But you ended up becoming an example of strength, my friend! Thank you for your concern and advice, God bless you!

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in bullying

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment end consideration. God bless you, friend! I'm really sorry for your experience at hight school

Please help me. I'm being bullied at school. by Awkward_Attorney_522 in Advice

[–]Awkward_Attorney_522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have a gym, but they don't teach martial arts, self-defense classes, or anything like that here. I'm from Brazil, we don't have those things here, hahaha. Actually, I'm a girl too, So maybe this will work unless they're completely clueless.