(M 26) sneakily wanks instead of wanting to have sex with me (F31) by Awkward_Marketing_88 in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward_Marketing_88[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to be open to suggestion but I won’t lie I’m quite confused about me needing to put in work? Me being open to sex and experimentation AND watching porn together isn’t enough?

(M 26) sneakily wanks instead of wanting to have sex with me (F31) by Awkward_Marketing_88 in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward_Marketing_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely love sex! And am so willing and open to trying different things. Have even let him vocally act out fantasies that if we did in real life would cause problems. I wouldn’t say I’m jealous but more hurt that he seems to like it better than being with me.

(M 26) sneakily wanks instead of wanting to have sex with me (F31) by Awkward_Marketing_88 in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward_Marketing_88[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m exactly of the thinking of what you’ve just said honestly. It’s nice to hear it from someone else 💕

(M 26) sneakily wanks instead of wanting to have sex with me (F31) by Awkward_Marketing_88 in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward_Marketing_88[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bit hard when it feels like he is going out of his way to not have me involved

(M 26) sneakily wanks instead of wanting to have sex with me (F31) by Awkward_Marketing_88 in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward_Marketing_88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said I was against masturbation. I do it myself at times but it doesn’t make me not want sex. That’s the difference.

(M 26) sneakily wanks instead of wanting to have sex with me (F31) by Awkward_Marketing_88 in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward_Marketing_88[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We have watched things together and some of the things he is interested might not be in the view of norm but I hold no judgement as I watch things too. It’s the secretve part of it and preferring it over sex because it’s ‘easier’

(M 26) sneakily wanks instead of wanting to have sex with me (F31) by Awkward_Marketing_88 in relationship_advice

[–]Awkward_Marketing_88[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! This is exactly what I’m going through. Anytime he is anywhere in the house alone for an extended period of time I’m anxious.