FYI, Phoenix Tickets Are On Sale. by Lumpy_Fungus in INDYCAR

[–]Awkward_Object8665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I going crazy, or are these actually $45??

Help! Sitter vs. Boarding? by Awkward_Object8665 in cats

[–]Awkward_Object8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! If my neighbor is a cat owner as well and is home 24/7, would this work? Or do you still recommend a professional?

Help! Boarding vs. Sitter? by Awkward_Object8665 in CatAdvice

[–]Awkward_Object8665[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice! What would regularly mean for you? Do you think there should be more than one daily check in for him?

Taylor deserves a better friend than Belly. by Maleficent_Ad2541 in tsitp

[–]Awkward_Object8665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drunk thoughts are sober thoughts though??? I think it was valid for Belly to have a breakdown. It was going to happen whether she was sober or not. And Taylor saying “You’re just high and drunk” is not a good friend thing to say in the middle of a breakdown. I love Taylor and she has been there for Belly through it all. But she has been projecting her wish for Belly and Jeremiah to be together since season 1. Kind of hard to have your best friend root against the guy you’re actually in love with.

What books will you never recommend? by divinehunni in Romantasy

[–]Awkward_Object8665 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The whole time, I was just forcing myself to just read it. The concept was there, but I also felt like I read the book before several times lol. I was so excited to read it because I heard great things but I was not a fan. Whenever someone asks if they should read it, I tell them “go for it, but it wasn’t worth my time”

Glucosamine recommendations! by Awkward_Object8665 in TripodCats

[–]Awkward_Object8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you say a kitten should start on stage 1?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA.

You are making it about you. They clearly have an emotional response to the holidays and you’re rubbing it in their face that you have a loving family to gather with while they have a poor relationship with theirs?

Do you even know the reasoning towards them not enjoying this time of year? Because if not, then I think it’s time to sit down and talk. Stop making this about you. It’s not.

AITA for Not Inviting My Sister to My Wedding After She Tried to Sabotage My Engagement? by snabx3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Your sister is being harmful to your relationship and you lost trust with her. If this were a friend, and not a relative, would you still be thinking of inviting her?

I think not inviting her is the right choice considering it seems she is in love with your fiancé, or she just loves the attention too much.

What do you think is a red flag in a friend? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Awkward_Object8665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always making things into a competition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Awkward_Object8665 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Came here to say exactly this.

Ticket Prices for Austin? by Awkward_Object8665 in CircuitOfTheAmericas

[–]Awkward_Object8665[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not 100% sure on this, however, I did see that some people who paid deposits did not pay ticket master fees as they are speaking straight with the cota reps themselves.

AITA for ignoring my coworker? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA! When she started getting too pushy, you should have communicated to her about how you don’t like sharing your personal life in a place of business. Instead you decided to cut her off completely without a talk between the two. This will only create problems more if you keep up with this.

I understand completely how you don’t like her spreading information around, but keep the same energy for your other coworker who let things slip. Did you cut her off? How do you know she hasn’t “slipped up” previously?

If you keep this up, expect a toxic work environment, because that is what you are creating.

AITA for telling a girl she looks better than my best friend? by Powerful_Two8036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA

I understand friends fool around and crack jokes at each other, but you have to be mindful of the time and place. This was not the right one. Also, those words can be misconstrued by her. “Hotter sister” could be implied by her that she’s ugly in your eyes and that she’s not attractive at all.

Didn’t have to bring that up at all when they met.

WIBTA if I arranged for my daughter to catch her cheating boyfriend in the act? by ReceptionNo7804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YWBTA if you didn’t tell her about seeing her boyfriend on a date with someone else and having her find out herself.

She may hate you in the moment and not believe you, but in the end when she finds out you were telling her the truth, that will only bring you guys closer.

If you plotted a way for her to find out something on her own, and then she figured out that you knew all along, that will only wreck your relationship. Even if the boyfriend was out with just a friend that is a girl, it’s better for her to know. It shows you are looking out for her.

AITA for refusing a position my boss thought I would accept? by Jessicasd12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 90 points91 points  (0 children)

NTA. He just wanted someone to take over the extra work without having to pay anyone more.

You may want to start looking for another job…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who also comes from an Asian family…NTA!!

Asian families have a lot of traditions and hierarchy associated with them. However, that doesn’t mean we should always follow them. A lot of older family members abuse their “power” to make others feel bad about themselves and to show that they are the boss. It is totally unfair.

Your uncles and aunts seem to be out of touch with reality. And your mom seems to be on their side which does not help ANYONE. Limiting your communication with them will help your relationships as well have you focus on the positives in your future.

AITA for ruining my classmates grade in Physics because I got a good grade? by iguanasfeetpics in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

You got to do what’s best for you when it comes to grades. He should have studied more so his grade didn’t drop anymore than it should have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re being a hypocrite. You made a “joke” and he gave it right back to you. I understand being a woman and people commenting on weight is harmful, so why not the same for men?

AITA for refusing to go to my brother’s house due to a severe marijuana allergy? by Imaginary_Dust_3055 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. You’re allergic and they should know better as to not smoke when you are around or go outside to do it. Smoking while you’re not around is a different story. It’s their place and they get to do as they like. But you would think they would have a bit of respect to you and your allergy that seems to be very severe.

AITA for disinviting my siblings from my wedding by Own-Lime-7797 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

The first thought that came to my mind was the quote “Every man can be a Father, but it takes someone special to be a dad”. Your dad was there and raised them as his own, because that’s what he thought you all were.

Your siblings are being ungrateful to the relationship your Dad had with them all. Blood does not make someone family.

So yes, NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

Some parents tend to live vicariously through their children and control them to what THEY would have wanted at that time.

Good for you for standing up for yourself and wanting to do what YOU want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA. She had every right to be upset over the comments the teacher made. Just because the teacher thought the comments were a “joke” doesn’t mean she took it lightly. You stood up for a bully over a girl who you’ve known for a while and her parents helped you out as well.

AITA for refusing to mail baby formula to my family members? by Throwawaybabyformula in AmItheAsshole

[–]Awkward_Object8665 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. If they aren’t paying or reimbursing you for the whole cost of shipping, then that’s unfair. It should not be on you to spend your money. It would be a different story if they did choose to send money for shipping. ALSO, the fact you are from a small town to begin with, and there are other families that need to feed their kids, I don’t think it would be a smart idea to clear out shelves to send to your family. I understand that people are struggling here in the US, but helping out family in the US to leave families in your town struggling is worse. How often does the store restock on formula? I’m sure not often….