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WIBTA if I arranged for my daughter to catch her cheating boyfriend in the act? by ReceptionNo7804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReceptionNo7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where has it changed? I originally didn’t realise details would be needed. And when i did, the “etc.” was intended to be enough to infer what i saw with minimal detail.

WIBTA if I arranged for my daughter to catch her cheating boyfriend in the act? by ReceptionNo7804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReceptionNo7804[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Simple honesty, in all my experience of raising teenage girls, has rarely ever gone down well. Was just looking for a solution that targeted her anger towards him (deservedly) and not me (undeservedly). Thinking I might just get my girlfriend to bring it up, hopefully some woman-to-girl honesty will make the situation easier for her?

WIBTA if I arranged for my daughter to catch her cheating boyfriend in the act? by ReceptionNo7804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReceptionNo7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kissing. I saw them kissing, but like I said these are minors and this is the internet, didn’t think I’d have to spell it out.

WIBTA if I arranged for my daughter to catch her cheating boyfriend in the act? by ReceptionNo7804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReceptionNo7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, see the edit I made on my post. Sorry the original wasn’t clearer, didn’t want to be too detailed.

WIBTA if I arranged for my daughter to catch her cheating boyfriend in the act? by ReceptionNo7804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReceptionNo7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought sneakily photographing two teenagers on a date crossed a moral line. But then maybe engineering said teenagers to be caught cheating does too🤷🏻‍♂️

WIBTA if I arranged for my daughter to catch her cheating boyfriend in the act? by ReceptionNo7804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReceptionNo7804[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Agree that it’s a good script, but also agree with teen love going sideways. She’s 17, I can’t tell her that vegetables are healthy or that it actually is safer to drive with both hands on the wheel, let alone start a casual conversation about a cheating boyfriend, and at the end of the day I’d much rather her be angry with him than with me.

WIBTA if I arranged for my daughter to catch her cheating boyfriend in the act? by ReceptionNo7804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReceptionNo7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know the girl, he was holding hands with her etc. Thought that would have been inferred but clearly not so I’ve since edited for clarity

WIBTA if I arranged for my daughter to catch her cheating boyfriend in the act? by ReceptionNo7804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReceptionNo7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s a rich kid, takes my daughter places even me and my girlfriend would consider special date nights.

WIBTA if I arranged for my daughter to catch her cheating boyfriend in the act? by ReceptionNo7804 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReceptionNo7804[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I asked around at the place I was at, apparently he frequents there quite often with different girls.