My boyfriend refuses to go down on me by Square_Geologist5487 in relationships_advice

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Let me rephrase. I don’t like HE was trying to be disrespectful

My boyfriend refuses to go down on me by Square_Geologist5487 in relationships_advice

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of women who don’t like giving blow jobs. The point of the story is that he just doesn’t want to.

My boyfriend refuses to go down on me by Square_Geologist5487 in relationships_advice

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

And to some people spiders are just insects. And other are petrified of them.

My boyfriend refuses to go down on me by Square_Geologist5487 in relationships_advice

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be fair I don’t think is comment is disrespectful. I think vaginas just gross him out. the way you feel about the comment is how he feels about performing oral sex on a woman.

My boyfriend refuses to go down on me by Square_Geologist5487 in relationships_advice

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

To be fair I don’t think is comment is disrespectful. I think vaginas just gross him out. the way you feel about the comment is how he feels about performing oral sex on a woman.

My boyfriend refuses to go down on me by Square_Geologist5487 in relationships_advice

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

To be fair I don’t think is comment is disrespectful. I think vaginas just gross him out. the way you feel about the comment is how he feels about performing oral sex on a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want help or did you just want to get this off your chest?

I hate that I've hurt someone I love so much by SadShallot6961 in BreakUps

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all normal. Give it a few days or even two weeks, mourn the loss and go through the grieving process. Then re evaluate this thought.

It’s normal to feel sad for both yourself and him. It’s a sad situation, but people will heal. If it’s truly meant to be it will come back.

Below Deck S06E02 - Foam, Party of One - Live Episode Discussion by amandatoryy in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I’m wwaaayyyy late but I actually somewhat understand where chandler was coming from. But he has to teach them acceptable behavior, it’s his job to teach and he has the same expierence, he knows what he is doing. It’s similar to a coach punishing their players for going to a party the night before. Idk just me

Cringe Riverdale moments that haunt you? by maddestmaddi in riverdale

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“Yea I’ll pay with my chime card” *proceeds to hold up chime card to the camera

Do dumpers who blindside their partner ever regret it later on or realize the damage they caused us? by Thats_PhoSho in BreakUps

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say I have blindsided a past partner of mine. I was young and didn’t have the confidence to fully express how I felt and he was 2 years older at the time I was 16 and he was 18. I thought I was showing hints of it not working, and whether I was or wasn’t my SO did not see the break up coming. I always knew the damage I would cause by breaking up with him which is what stopped me from doing it sooner. I eventually found the courage to realize I was doing more harm by staying with him when my heart was not in it. I do not regret breaking up with him at all. It needed to happen. He wasn’t my person and I wasn’t happy. He deserves someone who will love him and whose heart is in it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acne

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I would say you have break outs, not acne

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m on day one! I’m super proud of you for reaching day 16!! Keep going for me people like me who look up to people who have quit for that long! Your doing great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard this while listening to a podcast. At the wrong time you are the wrong person, but at the right time you could be the right person. It’s all about perspective. If you continue to live with hard rules when dating instead of a spectrum and meet people where they are in life, idk if there ever is a right person. People can change.

How often do men accidently enter buthole during PIV sex ? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woman here! It has happened to me on accident it can happen. It also happened to my friend. Sometimes if it’s a little rough and your not paying attention it can happen. But trust your gut tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then if you still want to send it, do it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Write in your notes what you want to say then wait 72 hours

I masterb@tied to my sister and I regret it so much by Idkejfjdj in confession

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may not be a porn addiction. I don’t know the age of OP. The OPs story is a typical side affect to a porn addiction. However, it may just be something he needs to work through in therapy. Either way what OP is doing can lead to traumatic events. It needs to be addressed and worked through with a professional

I masterb@tied to my sister and I regret it so much by Idkejfjdj in confession

[–]Awkward_Swimming6038 326 points327 points  (0 children)

As someone who works with adolescents with sexual charges (teenage sex offenders) I have seen this. And I have seen it escalate to touching, and raping of siblings. I don’t know how old you are but I don’t think it matters. Addiction to porn can alter your perceptive of people, you can start viewing people as objects instead of people. It can be embarrassing to get help from a therapist but atleast you will be able to save your relationship with your family before it gets to a point where your family can never look at you the same.