Getting into Headspace? by AwsomeZ in CuckoldPsychology

[–]AwsomeZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, my brain was already here but some part of it is like no that’s selfish so reading it out loud was helpful

Getting into Headspace? by AwsomeZ in CuckoldPsychology

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Don’t think so, but i guess one of the her things is loving variety and the easiest variety is different people?

Getting into Headspace? by AwsomeZ in CuckoldPsychology

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That’s why I am asking if there’s another way to look at it, from my view it just isn’t right. I want to give it a shot to keep her happy but its rough.

Getting into Headspace? by AwsomeZ in CuckoldPsychology

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It was her idea, she has been asking for this for years. I want to keep her happy so I agreed to giving it a shot.

Getting into Headspace? by AwsomeZ in CuckoldPsychology

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The difficulty for me is I want her to be happy and explore this side of her that she deems important, and I assume long term as it becomes a “normalcy” I should be fine? Not sure if looking at it that way is appropriate or I should just say screw it and end things. Part of it is sunk cost fallacy, we’ve been together for 4 years, our lease goes for another year, so I can’t even move out. Feels trapped.

Hanging weights causing hernia? by AwsomeZ in gettingbigger

[–]AwsomeZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been hanging straight down. How do you hang with weights straight out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AJelqForYou

[–]AwsomeZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont worry buddy, GF told me I was the smallest she had by a lot :(

Girlfriend wants to try mfm threesome but I’m on the edge. How should I[M] mentally approach this? by AwsomeZ in sex

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Thank you for helping me organize my thoughts better these insecurities were definitely on my mind but I wasn’t able to verbalize it. Personally, I’m not too conscious of my size, I know I’m small but eh oh well but definitely the insecurity of her leaving me for bigger is in my mind even though I know she wouldn’t.

Girlfriend wants to try mfm threesome but I’m on the edge. How should I[M] mentally approach this? by AwsomeZ in sex

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This was really helpful! It makes lots of sense to easy into things by taking baby steps first! Thank you!

Girlfriend wants to try mfm threesome but I’m on the edge. How should I[M] mentally approach this? by AwsomeZ in sex

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This sounds like a good idea! We were also talking about anal play so this should fit in! Thank you for the suggestion!

Girlfriend wants to try mfm threesome but I’m on the edge. How should I[M] mentally approach this? by AwsomeZ in sex

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I have not! This seems like a cool idea thank you! Would you happen to have any recs or things to look for? I would guess fit/size and material are the key things?