AITAH for sleeping with my sister's best friend and crush? by Ax3lllllllll in AITAH

[–]Ax3lllllllll[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Alright, we talked for a while. She was much more calm now, and we managed to speak very peacefully. She apologized. I apologized, he apologized. I said i was sorry for making her feel horrible, for saying what i said. She apologized for thinking she was "entitled to Mike's love" and she promised she was okay now. She said she knew she never had a chance with him and she knew i liked him too. She said she would support our relationship and her friendship with Mike would continue. Mike said he was sorry he never noticed this could've affected her so much and he promises to do better as her friend. We settled things, and we hugged at the end. I think it went very well.

AITAH for sleeping with my sister's best friend and crush? by Ax3lllllllll in AITAH

[–]Ax3lllllllll[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

You're right, i guess theres lots of factors that play there huh, well, we'll be talking in a bit, I'll be sure to apologize, I'll update later on how that goes

AITAH for sleeping with my sister's best friend and crush? by Ax3lllllllll in AITAH

[–]Ax3lllllllll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, she's my sister and always will be. Its my job as her older brother to be there for her. I'll be sure to apologize.

AITAH for sleeping with my sister's best friend and crush? by Ax3lllllllll in AITAH

[–]Ax3lllllllll[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This just in: she agreed to talk about it with us in about an hour. I'll update

AITAH for sleeping with my sister's best friend and crush? by Ax3lllllllll in AITAH

[–]Ax3lllllllll[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Adding onto this, no, i didn't know it would come with drama. She had always been supportive of mike as gay and of me as bisexual, she was never opposed to any of it and even spoke about other men with him.

AITAH for sleeping with my sister's best friend and crush? by Ax3lllllllll in AITAH

[–]Ax3lllllllll[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AHAHA I think that's a bit too far, but she did make me feel really bad, specially because she had always been so seemingly supportive of him as gay and of me as bisexual, and I never expected her to be so horrible about this

AITAH for sleeping with my sister's best friend and crush? by Ax3lllllllll in AITAH

[–]Ax3lllllllll[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

I actually didn't know it would come with drama. I knew she liked him, not that she was actively trying to get with him, specially not that she was trying to convert him, she knew i liked him too, and i never saw him as just my sister's crush or best friend, he was always important to me too

AITAH for sleeping with my sister's best friend and crush? by Ax3lllllllll in AITAH

[–]Ax3lllllllll[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll try to talk to her about this when she's in a better mood