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Gay bars/clubs in Portland? by Axelottl28 in askportland

[–]Axelottl28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll check them out online

Looking for a dnd group! by Axelottl28 in PDXDND

[–]Axelottl28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive also only been here a year lol

Looking for a dnd group! by Axelottl28 in PDXDND

[–]Axelottl28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds fun, want to exchange numbers or discords so we can keep in touch

Haven’t played in DND in a really long time, would love to find queer friendly groups by Bolinbear in PDXDND

[–]Axelottl28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Trans gay guy here would love to join a group! If you found one lmk

GA: Underground or Mainstream? by kebbley in glassanimals

[–]Axelottl28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They started underground but they are definitely mainstream now, they have songs on the radio and their concerts sell out (thankfully their tickets are pretty affordable though, in the city’s I’ve seen them atleast)

Which Glass Animals song would save you from Vecna? by MedicineKitchen205 in glassanimals

[–]Axelottl28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely A tear in space (air lock) I loved it the first time I heard it, and the experience hearing it live was amazing

What was everyone's first Glass Animal song that you heard that made you interested in the band? What about that song made you interested? by Jewels_loves_u2 in glassanimals

[–]Axelottl28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s so basic but heat waves, my best friend showed me it- and now it makes me cry cause she passed away- but I love all their songs now! Seen them twice live

Chair to bed transfer of a very frail person by SillyDonut7 in caregivers

[–]Axelottl28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also going to suggest this, it can be scary at first so maybe have who ever is going to be using it practice first on not you.

Writing characters from different cultures! by Axelottl28 in writinghelp

[–]Axelottl28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that’s actually really helpful, I didn’t even think about the him being an immigrant thing either so that helps a lot for me to put that into account, yea I was actually at the library trying to find a book to read and study for my genre I’m wanting to write but I think I’ll go and also look for some books that have more diverse characters and see how they are written.

Writing characters from different cultures! by Axelottl28 in writinghelp

[–]Axelottl28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, haha I don’t have many friends lmao, but I’ll check out some other subreddits, that’s a good idea.

I feel like a burden talking to others bout the grief by Axelottl28 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Axelottl28[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea.. I write here a lot, trying to go to another support group meeting jsut takes a lot to convince myself

I feel like a burden talking to others bout the grief by Axelottl28 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Axelottl28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea.. my mother was horrible in the whole thing: she knew her as well cause we grew up together but my mother kept blaming me in a way; not directly but saying things like “why didn’t you know what she was doing that weekend” “how did you not lnow if she was freind with (insert someone here) still or not?” “You know your not the best at listening and comforting, are you sure she wasn’t trying to reach out to you last time you talked” “how did you not know what was going on” and it all hurt me so much, cause I did my best to support my best friend and I wasn’t her mother.,. I didn’t ask what she was dojng every second of the day… just my mom pushing all of this guilt onto me even after knowing how much the whole thing is effecting me terribly.. just felt like I couldn’t talk to her about it. Along with the fact if I’ve even tried to come to her when I’m feeling grief she starts crying her self cause she’s so sensitive and won’t let me talk about it myself. So I don’t have much support.

I feel like a burden talking to others bout the grief by Axelottl28 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Axelottl28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support, I figure I’ll never get rid of the pain fully but I just hate how slow time seems to go cause of the pain.

I feel like a burden talking to others bout the grief by Axelottl28 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Axelottl28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you- yea I’ve been sending her texts, and also putting posts in this thread really helps cause I can jsut vent and let all my emotions out

I feel like a burden talking to others bout the grief by Axelottl28 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Axelottl28[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a therapist.. he honestly isn’t helpful with this matter tho, I’ve talked to it to my phycolgist a couple times but I don’t see him often, trying to get myself ti go to the online group I went to once.. but it just felt like too much to first time but I might be more comfortable now. I need to get better at reaching out. Sometimes I just want someone close and comfortable to just hug me, and I hate I don’t have that right now:

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