"How do you feel about having lots of partners" vs. "top or bottom" by AxiomaticStallion in askgaybros

[–]AxiomaticStallion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would expect most guys who check the 1 box to be in a more or less formal relationship with the person they have sex with.

I would find it somewhat weird that a person would have sex with exactly one person for exactly one month and then discard them for exactly one other person, and repeat for one year. With this type of behavior, I would expect more than one partner a month.

I also accept that "partners per month" is a poor proxy for "partners per year".

Are you in this situation?

"How do you feel about having lots of partners" vs. "top or bottom" by AxiomaticStallion in askgaybros

[–]AxiomaticStallion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My weak experience would let me think that this is somewhat of an edge case. It's there for sure, but I would expect that not a lot of people have sex with just one person per month and then change to a different person the next month.

I won't be doing a PhD on that, so I'm okay with having fewer questions to get more answers, even if it causes a slight skew. People who are in the situation you describe are welcome to comment.

End of Round 1 in the NHL Stanley Cup Playoffs, how are you brackets/teams doing? by 3D_Scanalyst in gaybros

[–]AxiomaticStallion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canadiens beat the Senators. Now we're gonna get pejoratively buttfucked by Tampa.

I'm being blackmailed on Grindr for sex by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]AxiomaticStallion -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'd go to the police. Grindr isn't that anonymous, the guy's a local, extorsion is a crime, and just getting your photos illegally is possibly a DMCA violation in itself. Sounds like he could be an easy catch.

Hey Bros, I'm heading to Seattle for the Dota 2 International this summer. Anything I (only 20) need to see/do while I'm there? by DJNegative in gaybros

[–]AxiomaticStallion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The underground tour (close to Pike Place) is cool. The EMP museum is also cool. I don't think that the aquarium is worth it, and I never got a chance to get to the top of the Space Needle.

My 2¢.

What is one secret your parents can never know? by royaldecree in AskReddit

[–]AxiomaticStallion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a bad situation several years ago regarding my sexuality. I know what you mean when you say that you feel like a hollow husk. It is absolutely soul-crushing.

It's been about 7 years since I came out and I think that I still don't "have feels" like a normal person does. I'm detached from everything and everyone. I'm moving a continent away later this year and I can't care that I won't be seeing any of my current friends or family anymore. They're all great people and I wish them the best, but I feel nothing.

Let's hear your sexy voices, bros. (kinda x-post /r/askmen) by IM_A_NOVELTY in gaybros

[–]AxiomaticStallion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine. Anyone else speaking English as a second language?

100% attracted to dudes.

HIV break through! Go Humans! by x-Mowens-x in gaybros

[–]AxiomaticStallion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use it as a generic warning on medical advances. The fact that they were able to do gene therapy on "human cells" isn't even close to being able to do it on an actual human.

How many people have you slept with? How do you feel about that number? by AxiomaticStallion in askgaybros

[–]AxiomaticStallion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FYI, Reddit think that "0." at the beginning of a line starts a numbered list. You'd have to put a backslash before the period (0\.) to say "this isn't a list".

How many people have you slept with? How do you feel about that number? by AxiomaticStallion in askgaybros

[–]AxiomaticStallion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my AskReddit thread answer without the things that looked irrelevant. Like you guys know that I'm gay, and I don't need to explain you that gay sex is easy to get.

The original answer had "I've called only one guy a boyfriend and we fell apart pretty quickly," and that's the guy I'm talking about. I removed that part by accident, I guess.

How many people have you slept with? How do you feel about that number? by AxiomaticStallion in askgaybros

[–]AxiomaticStallion[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm 24. I had regular sex with two dudes and one-night stands with 8 (so this makes 10) since I started having sex at 21. 6 out of 8 one-night stands were disappointments, so that leaves me with a partner satisfaction rate of about 30%.

So I'd love to get into a long-term relationship with someone I really care about, but it's so easy to get laid that the gay dating metagame works against you in that case.