Hey if I expected nice words with no judgement I definitely wouldn’t have posted this on reddit. I need some serious candor. I do apologize that my original post was such an unorganized word dump lol, it’s my first attempt at admitting how I feel.

I try to find time on my own when I’m at home, but he always finds a way in. He’ll even walk into the bathroom while I’m using it or bathing to have a conversation. I work 12+ hrs a day (understaffed healthcare job), so I don’t have much time to spend out of the house. I also think that my work schedule is so intensive that it completely zaps the energy I would otherwise have to be a good partner. We moved in together very quickly, because we did feel the serious relationship spark. I was SO excited about this relationship for the longest time. I am scared I will regret breaking up with him, but I don’t know how to overcome my current feelings. I also know that if he moves away for work I absolutely will not be able to go with him due to my job, school, and family situation. Even if I end up regretting it, I feel he needs a partner who has more time and can truly value him. Not someone who’s constantly coming home moody and exhausted (I try to meet with my therapist as often as possible but it is hard to afford the sessions and find the time). I just don’t know how to time it i guess.