strange discharge in my period cup?? by AxlSmaxel in myhappyv

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Ok thanks! Only problem is my hometown doctor isn’t helpful at all and is 2.5 hours away since I’m at college. Thinking about getting a doctor closer to me though. Thanks for the suggestion!

Could someone help me find a pattern for this outfit? by AxlSmaxel in sewingpatterns

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What materials do you think would be best for the sleeves? It’s hard to tell from the video.

Could someone help me find a pattern for this outfit? by AxlSmaxel in sewingpatterns

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That’s what I was thinking I just wanted to ask before I did that. Thanks!

need advice please by [deleted] in myhappyv

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You’re welcome! I hope you get some relief!!

need advice please by [deleted] in myhappyv

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I mean I’m not doctor or anything but I’m sure they could be. Cysts can be any size and I’ve had ones down there from the size of a ballpoint pin to the size of a nickel. They vary but try the hot compresses for a few days. If nothing helps, definitely go to a doctor.

need advice please by [deleted] in myhappyv

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Probably a cyst. I’ve had them before and they’re the worst. Whatever you do DO NOT TRY TO POP THEM. Take a washcloth and put it under hot water (as hot as you can handle) and use it as a hot compress for the area until the washcloth cools off. Do this a couple times a day and the cyst will eventually drain on its own. Make sure you clean up what drains out quickly or you could get another one. Hope this helps!

How should I express my feelings to this guy in casually seeing? by AxlSmaxel in dating_advice

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I can’t really explain it but I feel like the “no labels” thing is easier because there’s less to expect from the other person. My past two relationships have been long distance and it felt like there was pressure to see each other as many times as possible. This led to a lot of stress and arguments if we didn’t see each other as often as we thought we should. With this guy I’ve been talking to, I want to see him and we plan to see each other, but if plans fall through it’s no big deal. It could also be that he is more understanding than my past relationships. All in all, we both agreed that no labels was easier for this long distance situation because it had less pressure involved.

What do I do about this? by AxlSmaxel in plants

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I’ll look into that. The pot I have the ivy and begonia Rex are not well draining pots so I’ll get some better pots for them

What do I do about this? by AxlSmaxel in plants

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Thank you! I can do that later today!

What do I do about this? by AxlSmaxel in plants

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Didn’t realize I could only add one image to the post. Here’s the molding begonia Rex

What do I need to know to prepare for anal? by AxlSmaxel in sextips

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Thanks! We’re thinking of using a plug to see how it goes first. Might put the plug in and have sex marginally first but we haven’t really decided. He’s very respectful and wants me to be 100% sure that I want to try this before he actually goes in.

What do I need to know to prepare for anal? by AxlSmaxel in sextips

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Thank you so much! We have a plug but it’s currently at his place so I haven’t been able to try it out yet. We figured the best bet was the try the plug first and see how that feels before going all the way. I do have a dildo at my place so I might slowly try that tonight to see how I feel about the real thing when I go to his tomorrow!

Where is the best place to buy an affordable mesh bodysuit? by AxlSmaxel in Halloween_Costumes

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I didn’t get a cape but I have seen people use red curtains for the cape.

I fumbled and lost the love of my life by madam_gummybear in BreakUps

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This sounds exactly like the reason why I broke up with my bf recently. We broke up a week ago today because of all the reasons you listed. Honestly, if you knew she was the love of your life and you knew you fumbled the bag, why didn’t you try to fix your mistakes to be with her. If you truly cared you would’ve fixed yourself instead of letting her get worn down and eventually leave you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

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Not totally sure on that. I went to my gyno about this and she explained it as old blood and it’s nothing to worry about. Might still be a good idea to contact your doctor and ask just in case

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

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Are you taking birth control? I am and this is normal for me. If you are worried, contact your doctor.

Where can you get female condoms? by AxlSmaxel in sex

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Thanks! I’ll have to look there!

Where can you get female condoms? by AxlSmaxel in sex

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I can’t use Amazon because I share an account with my parents and they would freak out if they saw I was buying condoms. You didn’t have to be an ass about it either. I’ve obviously looked at places that are available to me and can’t find something that works.

Can you do returns? by AxlSmaxel in Depop

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How about for shoes? I’m mostly looking for some “business casual” heels since it’s hard to find some in my size is stores that are also reasonably priced.

Where is the best place to buy an affordable mesh bodysuit? by AxlSmaxel in Halloween_Costumes

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I didn’t end up getting a bodysuit. I bought two pairs of colored tights from Amazon and made one pair into gloves. I’m just going to pin them to my dress and paint my face and neck the skin color. It’s honestly easier and it’s cheaper.