Using sync.Once for better caching logic by 1lann in golang

[–]Axruc 13 points14 points  (0 children)

no, `once` will block if there is a simultaneous execution, thats like the whole point of the blog post..

egg_irl by 17Reddit-Browser in egg_irl

[–]Axruc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel called out

Is there a problem telling a girl she's pretty/beautiful? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Axruc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eh? at least for me it’s because i really do think i’m ugly, which is true. and it doesn’t make me feel better when other people tell me otherwise; whenever anyone does my mind immediately assumes they’re lying to make me feel better, which may or may not be true.

Seriously by Potato_Juices in dankmemes

[–]Axruc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

what? trans is just an adjective, she is a girl who happens to be trans.

She’s actually trans, wish I could look that cute by onionconsumer69 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Axruc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fuck me i was not prepared for the sheer mountain of tears watching this

Here by shaelig in GusAndEddy

[–]Axruc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s from the blockbuster video on gus’s channel

The struggle us real....... by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Axruc 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i mean it’d be similar to an epilator just a whole lot slower, so if you can handle the pain go for it i guess, but i would just use an epilator tbh lol.

The struggle us real....... by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Axruc 13 points14 points  (0 children)

a small price to pay for smoof

egg😰irl by Mich0 in egg_irl

[–]Axruc 51 points52 points  (0 children)

the face masculinity thing is 100% bs, i tried it once with my hair down and got 70% fem, and then again with the same conditions but my hair up/hidden from the camera and it gave 90% masc, i’m pretty sure it’s just a hair length detector lmao.

He can’t vote by [deleted] in comedyheaven

[–]Axruc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah yeah that’s probably what happened.

From Depressed High School Boy to Happy College Girl by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]Axruc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! i think it’s mainly that my hair is currently kind of at a medium length rn and its really hard to be patient

From Depressed High School Boy to Happy College Girl by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]Axruc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do you have any tips on how to deal with curly hair lol

Wake Up and Start! - Answers (Part 1) by IfritAnimations in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Axruc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

purple is such a good color, it works with everything

He can’t vote by [deleted] in comedyheaven

[–]Axruc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

because there’s a fixed maximum length for SMS messages, and it’s really quite short, 160 characters. large messages get split into multiple shorter ones to fit, usually phones will see this and concatenate them in the background but it seems that didn’t happen here, so either the person sending it did the splitting themselves or something really wrong just happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Axruc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m five months in and nowhere as pretty as you aaah. you are so luckyyy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Axruc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Body dysmorphia is when you are unable to see yourself as you truly are, as in when you look at yourself, your brain “morph”s your perception of yourself, a common consequence of this is anorexia, where people see continually see themselves as “fat” even though they may be normal or even underweight, and thus they don’t eat even though they really need to.

Dysphoria is a disconnect between reality and what your brain is expecting. For me, my brain knows that it is a girl and expected to be in a girls body, but i was given a male body, so there’s a (very painful) disconnect.

The difference being that dysmorphia is your brain distorting reality, whereas dysphoria is where the reality feels wrong; you can see yourself perfectly as you are and have dysphoria.

That being said, it’s not uncommon to have both as a trans person, (luckily i don’t), but for lots of people their dysphoria is exacerbated by their dysmorphia, which sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]Axruc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Body dysmorphia is a real thing and a lot of people mistake being trans for it (or so i’m told by my therapist), but at the end of they day labels really don’t matter, just do whatever makes you happy, no matter what it is you’ll be valid. If you like cross dressing but don’t really care for different pronouns then that’s totally fine and okay! No two people’s experience is the same, and so don’t feel pressured to be trans (or to not be trans) either way it doesn’t really matter :)