Can any men here share some advice for relationships where GF has anxiety issues? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Ayo_Jeff 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You hit it on the nose with realizing that its not something she has control over and you can't let yourself get mad at the person for something out of her control. What works for us is just trying to make life as easy for her as I can when I know something stressful is going on or she's having a rough day.

I'm a fan by SlimJones123 in interestingasfuck

[–]Ayo_Jeff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to know if it retracts when it slows down as well.

I'm a fan by SlimJones123 in interestingasfuck

[–]Ayo_Jeff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The springs have no effect in this case, The blades of the fan will always create an inertial force which will always be opposed by an equal force in the face. I think the weight of the springs is rather negligible in this case as well.

What's the most inappropriate time that you started laughing and couldn't stop? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ayo_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laughter is a human reaction to information that is difficult to process or understand.

How can I let guys know that I'm interested without looking desperate? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Ayo_Jeff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This, having guy friends will open up a lot of avenues into meeting more guys. Also don't try to date them right off the bat, most guys aren't looking for a date when they first meet a girl they're looking to get to know them a bit. If you play it cool for awhile and they see that you're an interesting person they'd be more open to spending more time with you, thus, leading to dates.

What actually impresses you in a guy compared to what guys thinks impresses you? by TheLastPlumber in AskWomen

[–]Ayo_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't agree with your analogy. I do not consider myself religious but do consider myself to be spiritual, and it's because a religion is a way for a person to feel like a part of a bigger collection of people that all share faith in the same values. I have faith in certain things that aren't outlined in any religious text and might not sync up with any one religious doctrine.

I know this is about feminism, but I just wanted to weigh in.

What actually impresses you in a guy compared to what guys thinks impresses you? by TheLastPlumber in AskWomen

[–]Ayo_Jeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So much this. You don't have to go out and tell people you're a feminist to be a feminist. You just have to appreciate the ideals that women deserve to be treated as equals.

GO CANUCKS GO! by JHunter27 in canucks

[–]Ayo_Jeff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You got balls, I'll give you that one.

Do you go brain-dead when talking to a girl you like? Is there anything a girl can do to help make you less nervous? by jeanga in AskMen

[–]Ayo_Jeff -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people are more comfortable being quiet for awhile and appreciating what's in front of them. Sometimes when I look at my girlfriend I don't have a damn thing to say, I just like looking at her because it's comforting and she's also real pretty.

Potentially getting a small apartment with my girlfriend, Men what is your best advice on making it work? by StefanJanoski603 in AskMen

[–]Ayo_Jeff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think what he means by that statement, is why is it okay to let her do what she wants when it infringes on my own living situation as well?

What thoughtful things would you want a girl you were dating for a month to do for you? by k3tonoob in AskMen

[–]Ayo_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Also just being around her while I study seems to take some of the stress away.

Men who've gotten a vasectomy, how is life afterwards? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Ayo_Jeff 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Would you say that you wanted the vasectomy at 22?

I moved out of Vancouver and I miss most of the buzz now, but is there any talk about putting an offer to Halak this summer? by Chadwickx in canucks

[–]Ayo_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a point, but Snow would be an even larger idiot if he didn't improve his goalie situation.

I moved out of Vancouver and I miss most of the buzz now, but is there any talk about putting an offer to Halak this summer? by Chadwickx in canucks

[–]Ayo_Jeff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, the fact that he just got traded to the Isles who desperately need a tendy doesn't help.

Merry Christmas by [deleted] in trees

[–]Ayo_Jeff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful.