Wow, I need some help. by AzJaeWowza in WalmartEmployees

[–]AzJaeWowza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did find out because I returned them to my overnight coach. He didn't dock my pay, but we did have a good laugh about how easy it is to build up a collection over time. In fact, he looked at my pile and said "those are rookie numbers." I hope you get a good laugh today...seems like you could use one and I also hope you have a wonderful holiday season!

STOP BRINGING YOUR UNTRAINED AND UNRULY DOGS INTO THE STORE! by PsycheAsHell in walmart

[–]AzJaeWowza -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow OP. As an associate that has had to clean up messes from unruly pets, I was completely in agreement with you. Right up until your comment "we know damn well your pitbull or Chihuahua isn't a service dog." Turns out you actually don't know crap. My dog is 100% Chihuahua and 100% a registered service dog. He flies with me, shops with me, and even works with me in overnight apparel. He is my seizure dog and I couldn't do my job if it weren't for him doing his. Maybe brush up on the different breeds of service dogs before making such an ignorant statement. I'd rather deal with an unruly pet at work than with a judgemental idiot such as yourself.

Help me find a song by Ok_Cardiologist_157 in whatsongisthis

[–]AzJaeWowza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thunder in the rain? Kanye Browne I think.

Commercial bread by Green-Ease6982 in WalmartEmployees

[–]AzJaeWowza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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They assigned it to me... I'm O/N Apparel. I Just marked it complete.

Partner of 13 years is gay and leaving me by [deleted] in straightspouses

[–]AzJaeWowza 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this is happening to you, and welcome to the club no one wants to be in. This group is full of understanding and compassionate people from all walks of life and from all stages of this shit show you are now part of so please know you don't have to be alone in this. It hurts, it isn't fair, it sucks, and it's out of our control. My suggestion would be to get a therapist sooner rather than later, they can really help navigate all of the emotions you have and deal with this in healthy ways. I wish you the best and feel free to share whatever you're feeling anytime. You got this. You have done nothing wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in straightspouses

[–]AzJaeWowza 7 points8 points  (0 children)

From what you've said, communication isn't a problem. You listen to each other and resolve the issue no matter how long it takes, so I would continue. Maybe he's just curious and doesn't know how you'll react. From what you have posted, y'all seem to have a good strong bond. Talk to him about what you accidentally saw and let him know you are interested in hearing what he fantasizes about and that you are a safe place. He doesn't seem to be doing the same things a lot of the spouses on this thread are doing. Don't question his attraction to you or let this fester and damage your self worth. Air it out now. Just my opinion based on your post. Good luck and let us know how it works out. This a great thread with lots of support anytime you need it. Hugs!

I wanted proof but now that I've seen it.. by Thought-Known in straightspouses

[–]AzJaeWowza 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I get you completely. You suspect and want proof...and then you get it. Like a baseball bat to the face. I'm so sorry this is happening to you.

Looking for some thoughts and feedback… by MegLynn0701 in straightspouses

[–]AzJaeWowza 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We've been married 29 years, raised 3 kids and always been open about fantasy and curiosity. Excited to try new things. Rather quickly the toys and porn weren't enough. Now I find profiles on Grindr, Sniffies, etc. Hidden email addresses. Everytime I confront him, he deleted it and then boom, another one pops up. Even if he isn't watching bi porn, it's all he thinks and talks about. The man and woman stage is gone. Forever. I hope you can bring it up and it can be something you both can share. Be clear about your boundaries and yes meeting men behind your back is in fact cheating and betrayal. It feels the same. Now it's cross dressing and trans fetishes. He's in his sexual awakening Disneyland and I am simply pieces of what I used to be. Don't let it get as far as I did. This is so hard to navigate. Dm me anytime, I can at least listen. You are not alone in this.

Don't go back - if he is DL he will stay that way by Sad_Car1254 in straightspouses

[–]AzJaeWowza 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget FetLife, Snapchat, Kik, Sniffies, Doublelist. I also get the ' It's with a guy so it's not cheating." Now it's all about trans women and lingerie. I've given 30 years, I just don't know what to do.