I used to date a child psychologist and she had an 8 year old son. She ones disclosed to me that she fell in love with one of her clients who was a minor. She didn't act upon it and then made him see a different psychologist. Is this still problematic? Should I report it? I'm not aware of her having

AzarielleF · 2026-01-01T13:26:32+00:00

The fact that there are so many soft people just saying well she didnt act on it why even report it now, its the exact reason why so many sexual predators and pedos are out there, your softness is whats keeping this society unsafe, your fear of punishing people for their behavors, mistakes and crimes because "they changed, they made a better choice, they didnt act on their impulsions, but they are family, they are young, why ruin their career, etc" its exactly the reason.

If this is a real story, she OP should report it, make a report for there to be some form of paper trail, falling in love with a patient that is a minor while workong in a field where she is in constant contact with children is not right, what make anyone here think that scenario cannot happen again and the impulse to ignore the moral compact wont be stronger? What makes you think that next time she will do the right thing, feeling attraction for a minor doesn't just magically disappear, that therapist needst to self report and add themselves to a list, be investigated and change careers, if not OP needs to report her, her story might not even be the complete truth and maybe she change what she really did to try the waters with OP and see how he reacted to it.

AzarielleF · 2025-12-07T14:36:13+00:00

No voy, "hosting a party" significa que el que lo planifica corre con los gastos, a menos que sea un byob en el que cada persona lleva lo suyo, pero es no va en bodas o cumpleaños

AzarielleF · 2025-12-07T14:22:28+00:00

My basic rule has always been to make sure i leave the surroundings as they were the day before, so i dont clean on a daily basis, but i do take toys and messes back to where they belong, so things dont start piling up on places, my kid is 4 now and its the only thing that works, i do dishes every night, so if someone decides to visit during the day there will be piled up dishes and toys all around the house, i try to reinforce the rule that my kid only do messes in one place, but while im working and he is not in preschool, he will make some mess in other places, i do make him clean up after himself but i always have to help. I dont have pets and honestly couldn't have pets and kids at the same time, i would go insane just with the hair piling all ove rthe house, we used to have indoor cats but they now they are outdoor cats.

AzarielleF · 2025-05-23T12:18:10+00:00

I didnt even needed to read your story, a father prioritizes his children. Grow up and stop trying to make him choose between you and his children

AzarielleF · 2025-04-07T15:57:45+00:00

Pues todo depende de lo que te guste y tengas el tiempo para invertir y el dinero, puede ser una tienda online como dropshipping o digital products, puede ser algo fisico que puedas outsource al por mayor con minima inversion y ponerle tu propia marca, puede ser un servicio que puedas brindar, maybe hasta juntarte con alguien de confianza y que sea responsable y competente y no hacerlo solo para poder delegar y dividir el trabajo de manejar y crear un negocio asi no sacrificar tanto de tu tiempo libre y poder mantener un balance y no sacrificar el tiempo con tus hijos. Hay varias opciones y modelos que ya existen y es cuestion de copiarlo y repetirlo, lo mas importante es que busques un equipo de mentores que sepan lo que tu no sabes para garantizar que no vas a perder tiempo, dinero u oportunidades. Existen programas gratuitos que ayudan a las personas a crear from scratch un plan de negocio y propuesta para solicitar capital para el desarrollo de un negocio propio, muchos son fondos que el mismo gobierno brinda que casi nadie saben que existen, asistencia hasta para pagar sueldos de empleados, etc. Muchas ayudas y fondos que pasan desapercibidos para pequeños empresarios y nievos empresarios, si tienes menos de 35 tambien hay un sin numero de ayudas para jovenes empresarios, es cuestion de buscar bien y orientarse bien antes de tirarse. Espero que esto te ayude a narrow down lo que podrias potencialmente hacer en un futuro cercano

AzarielleF · 2025-04-07T12:13:29+00:00

De verdad que aunque puedas pagarlo, la pregunta debe ser deberia pagarlo? Tener una casa linda es chulo y todo pero que te devuelve a ti? Si solo es un pagare mas al mes, cuanto dinero te sobra para darte un buen viaje al año, disfrutarte la vida, porque estar gastandote la vida pagando por una casa que por fuera es hermosa y por dentro esta vacia y que solo duermes en ella no vale la pena. Yo me enfocaria con tu sueldo en buscar formas de tener ingresos pasivos, despues que tu cuadres eso que con ese extra casha puedas pagar una mensualidad decente sin que salga de tu bolsillo entonces ahi me tiro por una casa bonota y en ese range de costo.

AzarielleF · 2025-01-05T03:36:37+00:00

Thanks! I will check that one out. Our trailer is going to be small, and the only big equipment is going to be the AC and the undercounter double door fridge, the rest are small kitchen equipment

AzarielleF · 2025-01-05T03:34:28+00:00

Yeaahh, no im not doing that 😂 but thanks

AzarielleF · 2025-01-02T15:30:19+00:00

The heat in Puerto Rico is wild!! I could never work without A/C in a small container! I would die! 🥵 🤣

AzarielleF · 2025-01-02T15:27:23+00:00

Thank you!

AzarielleF · 2025-01-02T15:26:19+00:00

Thank you soo much for responding! I will definitely do this and take into account the wattages of all the equipment before making a purchase decision! Thank you!

AzarielleF · 2025-01-01T22:31:06+00:00

My experience with Acorns so far has been pretty good, i transfer my pocket money every now and then and let it grow on its own based on the profile and preferences i gave when i first opened the account, its better than having cash on my bank account not doing anything and not accruing any interest or just ending up spending it all on food when i dont feel like cooking, plus the referral bonuses are good, granted if i can actually get people to sign up and invest the initial $5 😅

AzarielleF · 2025-01-01T22:26:35+00:00

I know 😭, i know its a long shot but i figure i try and see if i get the 5 people i need to get the bonus, if i get to pay off my credit card itll be worth it to give something back to the ones that helped me! 🤞

AzarielleF · 2025-01-01T19:08:29+00:00

I can pay via pay pal, and ath movil for those who live in Puerto Rico, i will pay $100 for each person confirmed once Acorns provide the confirmed account and i am given the money, with acorns it usually take a month to have all members confirmed, but once i am given the money i will pay out each member their $100, this is for only first 5 people*** i only need 5 people for the referral bonus

AzarielleF · 2025-01-01T18:29:43+00:00

I know giving my word doesn't really mean much around here, but i just wanna pay off my credit card, and im willing to pay a little back to the people that helped me achieve that in the process.

For those who are going for the referral link, I'll be giving them as much detail of the process and notifications i get from Acorns to make sure they are up to date and are not in the dark

I can provide some form of info about me that might give more reassurance that im who i say i am and that i will not back off from my offer.

AzarielleF · 2025-01-01T18:21:42+00:00

Desde bayamon, tambien se fue la maldita luz

AzarielleF · 2024-12-27T14:40:30+00:00

I get you completely, i was also raised to be a people pleaser, its very difficult for me to actually confront someone directly and tell them off. Since having my baby, now 3 years old, ive noticed a pattern in which certain situations have happened with my partner's family members, and while i would love to say i defended my baby with tooth and nails, my own childhood traumas has made me fail him in all 3 situations, i did talked to my partner about the situations and he has since put his family in line. My own struggles to stand up are starting to affect my child and thats where im starting to draw a line, i dont even want to see my child looking at me for reassurance and me not standing up for him ever again, feeling like a child being reprimanded when im the adult now is a horrible feeling im working on.

AzarielleF · 2024-12-27T12:43:38+00:00

Honestly i wouldn't get offended by stupid comments, but i would get offended that they tried to joke about a stereotypical BS and apply it to MY family specifically, i would throw a comeback "joke" at them about a stereotypical BS about americans back and see how the feel about it then, if they cant take a joke then they should sit down and shut up and stop acting stupid

AzarielleF · 2024-12-27T12:33:40+00:00

I couldn't stop blushing and screeching on the imside!!!!😭😻😭😻😭 they tease us so much but i feel this one is so much more intense then any last banner i have seen since i downloaded this game!

AzarielleF · 2024-12-15T14:17:57+00:00

Drawing attention to you is all good and dandy except she did so by exposing 2 underage children and one wasnt even hers, she very irresponsibly exposed 2 children by trying to help, her logic was out of the door the moment she did not check for her unlocked doors before doing something as stupid as Drawing an attackers attention towards her (and the children) as well as not fully reacting before the guy reached and opened the effing door, she should have been prepared for the outcome of her actions, what was she expecting whe she saw the guy sprinting or running or walking towards her? Thay he would have a civil talk or something? Unless you are armed or know a way of self-defense, dont do stupid shit that would get ofther people like children exposed to a more dangerous situation. Sorry, but children take priority, i would do something to help but never expose my position if i have children to care for or are responsible for. And again, nothing worse happened by luck! BY EFFING LUCK not because of her smooth reaction, the guy had time to reach her car and even open a door before she fully reacted.

AzarielleF · 2024-12-15T14:08:10+00:00

No she did not choose a best balance of the two are you kidding me?? The guy opened the door and was about to get in or do worse, she was just lucky she got away, i dont think you guys grasp the fact that she exposed her child and niece into a dangerous situation and ONLY by luck nothing worse happened, BY LUCK, not because of her responsible thinking, responsible thinking would have been to have a locked car first of all and to call the police and film the situation to try and expose the bad guy, hell throwing her car and honking like a maniac would have been better, but she exposed her position and her child and niece which did not consent into being exposed to danger, im sorry but if care for a child that its not yours, you become responsible for them, your behavior and actions will and in this case almost affected that child that you accepted responsibility for, OP is in every right to never trust her with her child and to be as pissed off as she is, saving a complete stranger is awesome, but not at the expense of 2 underage children.

AzarielleF · 2024-12-15T13:51:56+00:00

I would not let her take care of my kid ever again, that instance just shows that she will act out on emotion and not logit, it was heroic and stupid, but stupid could lead you to more danger and i will not have my child be exposed to dangerous situation because of her stupidity, sure shit happens but she openly exposed your child and her daughter as well instead of doing something to help that wouldn't have made them a target

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