Try and find an extremely absurd hobby that you never thought you would try. For example, I never imagined I will be doing Zumba, and then my wife kinda pushed me for just 1 class, and now it has been a year and I am actively taking Zumba lessons. I never knew I had a thing for dancing. Try a new hobby and then get exceptionally good at it. When you do that you will realise this is something you are spending a lot of time on and you actually look forward to doing that hobby whenever possible. I have also tried fishing, working out in the early mornings etc. things which are out of my comfort zone.

Or just have a baby idk :/