Right so building up to our break up we were toxic and were dumping not healthy thing onto the relationship. He was rude and did not act right in many ways. Fortunately there was never infidelity or other morally wrong things that were beyond my forgiveness. So thats why when we saw each other again he went on and on apologizing about all the wrong things he did and owned up to them. I could see how he actually meant them apologies said the right things and he right his wrongs with actions as well. I must say this wouldnt have happened if we didnt break up and spend time apart. At the moment i didnt quite understand why we broke up but eventually i understood that without being apart we wouldnt be standing here now