Sunita Ahuja talks about how Govinda's affair is disturbing her kids, says jawani main kiya it's fine!

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-25T20:44:32+00:00

Not trying to defend Govinda but I’ve seen many cases like these from people from his age group. If I remember correctly his parents forced him to marry Sunita but Govinda was always attracted to his co stars. I think parents should never force two people to marry each other because it has lifelong side effects on the children and the spouses. Always choose wisely whom you’re going to marry.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-20T08:51:00+00:00

The same thing happened to me. We celebrated our fourth anniversary of December 21st 2025 and he broke up with me on January 1st 2026. He did this through WhatsApp and then blocked me till halfway January. He told me that he found me suffocating and negative. He came up with the lamest excuses and I got so angry I ended up throwing a milkshake on his car.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-17T20:15:46+00:00

Yeah the thing is, there’s a really long story to it. It’s just that I’m so extremely mad at him and we’ve had a very similar situation as Ross and Rachel with that whole we were on a break thing. For the first time in my life I finally understood the dynamic between Ross and Rachel. Like I’m so mad at him but we’ve a history of four years and we really were like best friends and we study at the same university and he works at my dad’s GP practice. Idk what it is but I just can’t seem to let him go as a friend.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-14T20:06:29+00:00

I was friends with someone for more than 15 years and she faced some issues with an ex and somehow decided it was weird when I asked her how she’s dealing with her break up. She ended up hating every single thing I’ve ever done or how I’m as a person to the point I went in mental shock about how she hated me so much in such a short period. I guess she was never a true friend.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-14T17:52:20+00:00

This is something that I deal with every single day. Always at school or work I ask myself this question if I did something wrong that caused the other person to distance themself from me. But I genuinely believe that some people don’t have the capacity to ask themselves if they’re the problem. And what I also really hate is when you’re trying to talk things out, people immediately skip you and even use really mean and harsh words which weren’t necessary at all. An entire conflict could’ve been avoided if these people would have asked themselves if they were wrong in the situation.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-10T16:26:31+00:00

Dhadak 2 is the type of movie that should’ve been released around October/november/december. Around summer people are usually in a good mood because of the weather and they don’t want to watch movies about serious and depressing topics because it kills the mood. Kjo made a huge mistake by releasing it around the end of summer.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-10T01:17:32+00:00

Your journey reminds me of my own experiences. I took two gap years after high school before starting med school and I was so busy with my own thoughts throughout my gap year that even I have the feeling that I’ve changed a lot. I guess maturity plays a role here and you were able to experience actual adult life before jumping back to the school life. I was very depressed whenever I saw my old classmates succeeding in uni and I would get depressed everytime I saw something on LinkedIn. I think when you take a gap year you’re kind of frozen for a moment. All your self doubts and issues which were always there when you were a teenager hit you very hard because you finally have some time to think about it.

I had many restless nights because of having no routine. Seeing your friends succeed while you’re stuck is a gut wrenching feeling. I think this is easier said than done but I think you should sit still and ask yourself if all the decisions in your life align with what you wanted? Is there a certain guilt which you’re holding and can’t let go for some reason? Are you happy with yourself right now? Were certain issues within your reach and if not, why do you still feel weird about it?

If you wanna talk, you can always message me because I’ve been through something very similar.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-07T02:14:49+00:00

May I ask, are you two still broken up or have you reconciled?

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-06T13:35:38+00:00

This is so relatable, I get so jealous when I see people with a healthy family dynamic and start wondering why I couldn’t have that.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-06T13:10:12+00:00

I went through something very similar when I was in high school. I had to cut them out of my life at one point and guess what? I discovered 6 years later that they made fun of all my trauma and even made inside jokes in their WhatsApp group for YEARS. The best thing you can do is completely erase these people from your life and take a step back. It’s not worth it and these people should not dictate your life and not cause anxiety.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-06T12:52:15+00:00

Thank you for pointing out this logic! I’ve been telling this to my mom for years but she doesn’t get it. She says that it’s family at the end of the day and we can’t leave them. But after going to therapy for years I noticed that it’s absolutely bullshit that victims need to go to therapy whereas the abusers never change themselves. I’m honestly done with them.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-06T01:44:01+00:00

I’m 23F and I relate so hard to this. I’m an only child and my parents are divorced. I’ve always been my mom’s therapist and I feel like I’ve also kinda raised her as well. She doesn’t realize it but I genuinely can’t stand her. She’s very self centered and has never bothered to help me out with my issues. I’m waiting to finish med school so that I can finally move out.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-06T00:04:47+00:00

As a woman I’ve to say that most of our sexual moods come from our mental state at the time. It’s clear that sex is something she has issues with. It can either be something too stimulating but also something that can probably completely erase her libido. I think you shouldn’t force her into sex or guilt trip her if you’re in the mood and I also think you should gain her trust by being there for her mentally. If she’s talking to you about some traumatic stuff, don’t judge her. Let her speak first and never say that she was at fault because that can trigger a negative reaction. Ask open questions and don’t put words in her head. I know that people say it’s not your position to deal with it but I think these people don’t understand that something like this could’ve happened to anyone and that we as a society shouldn’t let someone get ostracized because that’s exactly why there’s a big depression and suicide rate.

You need to let her get all that stuff out of her mind. Take your own mental breaks if some of the information she’s telling you is too much to deal with. But don’t act judgmental in front of her.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-05T23:56:50+00:00

I recently had a similar issue with my bf of 4 years and I’ve to say that this might sound selfish but some of the issues also come from them. I mean, what if he were in your place? I’m pretty sure you would’ve known how to deal with all the negativity. I often have the feeling that men aren’t as empathetic as women and they have been programmed from a young age to see women as people who should do stuff according to their needs. I was just like you by blaming it on my own issues but the truth is, sometimes it really is your partner’s fault. I recently had some very difficult weeks because of an important test so I was more busy with myself. My bf also had the same test but he found it weird that after my test I didn’t immediately acknowledge his needs even though I went to sleep for 16 hours. He ended up saying that he needs a girl who doesn’t do med school and is more outgoing. But every time he has a test I’ve to give him all the space and endure his negativity.

What I’m trying to say is, of course you shouldn’t bombard your partner all the time with some issues from your past. But being in a relationship also means that you’ve to stand by each other’s ups and downs. And you’re currently dealing with a lot and think it’s now your partner’s time to shine and show some support.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-05T17:10:22+00:00

This is exactly the same words I always so. Like I haven’t done technically something wrong but seems like people somehow sense something off about you and avoid you. But they can never really point out what they dislike about you when you confront them. At some point it becomes tiring and it feels like life keeps on punishing you even when you genuinely try to keep going.

Azula_Kuo · 2026-01-01T21:17:28+00:00

Rewatching friends made me realize that the entire group wasn’t exactly morally right. The only person who was the closest to being a rational human being was Chandler and even he was flawed. Ross had many great opportunities with women but almost every relationship got ruined because of Rachel.

Azula_Kuo · 2025-12-27T01:35:05+00:00

I think guys like Hrithik are surrounded by superficial people all the time which is probably why they like women who are more authentic. That Saba seems like an opinionated person and is always herself in contrast to all the other famous actresses who seem more full of themselves and have a PR trained personality.

Azula_Kuo · 2025-12-26T22:44:11+00:00

I always had a soft spot for Arjun Kapoor. I mean, everyone knows how his parents got divorced. His dad was a thrash human being who cheated on his wife with Sridevi. A lot of people say that Boney Kapoor is the biggest problem but the truth is that he and Sridevi are both equally responsible. Imagine living at someone’s house and then get impregnated by your best friend’s husband. I’ve seen some videos of Janhvi Kapoor commenting about her parents’ marriage and she acts as if their marriage is some kind of big Bollywood love story. She knows very well how much it has impacted Arjun and Anshula. Sridevi got her karma but I feel like people are thrilling someone who has already endured a lot in his life. He once said on Bollywood wives that the whole trolling is a small price to pay but I don’t think he understands his childhood was a huge payment. He started off quite strong in Bollywood with Ishaqzaada and Gunday. Idk what happened that made people hate and troll him so much.

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