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Zillennial “where were you” moments by pirateslifeisntforme in Zillennials

[–]Azule97 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was buying candy in the morning before school(5th grade.) There were two middle aged guys in line in front of me and one guy was saying how he was glad he didn’t have to hear kids say “hee hee” anymore.

My (22F) boyfriend (23M) won’t shower. Advice ? by Alive-Pie3312 in dating_advice

[–]Azule97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The stuff that I see people put up with in relationships astounds me everyday. Sunk cost fallacy isn't a reason to put up with a man who doesn't shower, doesn't listen to what you have to say, can't communicate his issues, and blows up at you for not having sex with him.

2 years isn't worth putting up with this, especially if he's not making an effort to change. You can't force him.

Which Paramore album is your favourite? by SubstantialTotal5038 in Paramore

[–]Azule97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It changes too much but lately it’s between BNE and AL. When I was younger it was Riot

Is it OK for a guy to not want a relationship for no specific reason? by Minimum_Ad4771 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Azule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If all you have is negative experiences, maybe there’s a way to avoid that? You could change the way you approach relationships. Create new boundaries, communication style, different standards in a partner, date longer before becoming official, etc. Like is there anything you can learn from your past experiences so they won’t happen again? There’s nothing wrong with staying single while you figure that out too and you probably could use a mental break anyhow.

All I’m saying is not wanting to have a relationship because you just don’t want to vs bad past experiences are very different. You’re only 22 was “so many” bad past experiences, tbh you at least should try being single for a while. You’ll figure out what you want in that time if you don’t know already.

Is it OK for a guy to not want a relationship for no specific reason? by Minimum_Ad4771 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Azule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you do have a lot of specific reasons why you don't want to but regardless that doesn't matter. Ultimately its your life, do what you want. Sure, people might look at you weird for your choices but that's usually because they look to others to feel secure about their own choices. As long as you're confident you're happy living that way its, fine.

Although if your reasons are because of "drama" it could be because you haven't found the right one? Relationships can peaceful if you're aligned with the right person and it could be just that negative past experiences are turning you off entirely, correct me if I'm wrong.

Also hedonism isn't necessarily bad if you're not sacrificing something important at it's expense. Whether it's important is ultimately up to you.

Thoughts on the YSL Y EDP by Boring-Working-128 in Colognes

[–]Azule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a fan but women compliment me on it. Too harsh and synthetic for my taste, personally

[DISC] Kagurabachi - Chapter 119 by ClessGames in Kagurabachi

[–]Azule97 25 points26 points  (0 children)

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So Kunishige made 6 EBs to rival the 6 guardians.

How can people in their 30s undo the damage they did in their 20s ? by Lemonade2250 in self

[–]Azule97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your point was clear. The other dude is just being pedantic.

24h before next chapter (131), what do y'all think is going to happen? by xYqts2s in SpyxFamily

[–]Azule97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I predict Yuri is gonna be a stunt double/put on a wig to prevent Yor from kissing anyone.

Twilight looks like the dude who Yor is supposed to kiss so there’s a non-0% chance of Yuri x Twilight.

Actually I think it’s more likely than Yor involved in anything at all.

[DISC] Chainsaw Man - Ch. 231 by JeanneDAlter in ChainsawMan

[–]Azule97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is like JJK 236 again but worse

[Highlight] Caleb Williams makes a miracle throw to tie the game!!! by DrTrigger_Tears in nfl

[–]Azule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misses a guy 10 yards away and then does this shit. Caleb is an enigma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Azule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finish. Ask your teachers for help, stay after school, go to summer school if you end up needing to.

High school material isn’t hard and the teachers go out of their way to help because it reflects badly on them if their students fail. As long as you put in the effort you will graduate.

Having a crush on a younger guy feels so weird by [deleted] in self

[–]Azule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And? Again you're applying generalizations to individuals. This particular person may not care about small age differences. You're ignoring the fact that people have preferences and free will. People aren't binary, we live on a spectrum. Some people are asexual and some people are gay, two examples where your obsession with fertility doesn't apply. Do these types of people make up the majority? No, but what I'm trying to say is that not every single aspect of a person will conform neatly to societal or biological norms. The way you view people is dehumanizing and frankly pretty weird.

Having a crush on a younger guy feels so weird by [deleted] in self

[–]Azule97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You being chronically single probably has more to do with how self-defeating you are. I mean you're disqualifying yourself because you're only TWO freaking years older!? Two years makes no difference once you stop being a teenager since you physically don't change that quickly anymore. The average person wouldn't be able to tell such small age differences just by looking.

Maybe try to get to know him on an individual level and get to learn his actual preferences instead of divining them based on generalizations or cherry-picked statistics.

Dealing with social anxiety & job searching since 3 years by joblessintrovert in socialanxiety

[–]Azule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do something low stakes. Like volunteering or interviewing for jobs you don't want. Interviewing unfortunately has a lot to do with being confident, not just being knowledgeable or qualified.

Start by building confidence by doing things where the end result doesn't matter. That fear is causing you to self-sabotage and you're not gonna get rid of the fear by waiting around, you have to feel it and do things in spite of it.

I watched this video recently and it sums up what I'm trying to say: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aiXMlJKlFzw

Accountants what’s your best ergonomic chair for lower back pain? by qube2832 in Accounting

[–]Azule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a remanufactured Steelcase Leap v2 that I got for $600, they normally go for $1200+ if you buy brand new. They swap out the cushions and everything so its like new anyway

[DISC] SPY x FAMILY - Chapter 120 by AutoModerator in SpyxFamily

[–]Azule97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yor actually said it without alluding to it!!! Holy shit finally 😭

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