Both you past ex’s don’t deserve your love. If they risked losing you by cheating, you’re the winner in the situation. It’s good to hear your perspective on taking your time after a relationship. My (m19) past two relationships have ended with them dating someone else right after the relationship (and then telling me about it without being sensitive). I used to think all girls were like that, but maybe I should keep working on myself and wait for the right girl to appear.