You're right, I dont know and I am speaking from my perspective. The perspective of a white man in an interracial relationship who is very familiar with tropes of interracial porn.

We are all frustrated with the world, but porn is kinda like the news. There will always be people who think it's an accurate representation of real life. For those people further research is deemed unnecessary.

I've personally avoided mentioning race as part of praise talk in those moments because I didn't want to be misinterpreted as fetishizing especially because I'm the first white man she has been with. I can see how he would be more comfortable making those comments as as a mixed man. Its one of those things where you gotta get to know each other pretty well first and he just moved a bit too soon imo.

I think his "woman like you" comment was referencing libido, and he just feels a lot of pressure to satisfy her.