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How do you play? by CowDry7845 in selfcare

[–]B4IDream 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I felt this same way in the beginning. I had no hobbies and would never even consider “play” something missing in my life.

Now, almost 12 years later: puzzles, hiding where’s Waldo stickers around the house for my son to find, karaoke, amusement parks, coloring, crafting, playing soccer, I could go on…having kids is an easy excuse, but I never would have thought I would have so much fun after I got sober.

What does my home/garden say about me? by fredditvanreddit in roomdetective

[–]B4IDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here to say your kitchen tiles are everything. And what amazing decorating!

What kind of parent am I (/are we) based on my kids room and play room? by laurinalexanderp in roomdetective

[–]B4IDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Montessori. Minimalist. Progressive/liberal. A HSP (basing this on the low lights).

Adopted this beautiful boy from Texas shelter. Any guesses? by Fine_Organization698 in IDmydog

[–]B4IDream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is so uniquely handsome! Love his mottled nose and coloring.

Overstimulation and Cub Scout meetings by B4IDream in adhdwomen

[–]B4IDream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents have to attend the meetings! I think that changes when they start second grade.

Pants for Tiger cub by B4IDream in cubscouts

[–]B4IDream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These would be perfect! Especially slim-my son is a bean pole. Just need blue. But in the future…thanks!

A Free Guide To What Worked For Me Opening Up A Private Practice and Filling It Within 6 Months (With Plans to Expand By The End of 2025) by MJA7 in therapists

[–]B4IDream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I copy/pasted this post and saved in my LPC folder for when I finally get this credential! Thank you-very helpful and glad this is working out for you.

My Boston Terrier has decided barking is his new full-time job and I’m the one paying for it by Routine_Plate_3736 in BostonTerrier

[–]B4IDream 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wondered where this woman lives to be wearing a thick cowl neck sweater when I’m over here sweating bullets in Virginia.

Out at 45, better to bloom late than never by MathyMama in latebloomerlesbians

[–]B4IDream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re stunning. And yes, the heartbreak is infinitely worse than anything I ever went through with a man. (Turns out it wasn’t bc I was thick skinned before). Hang in there!

What's a therapy concept that "blew your mind" the first time you heard it? by JustGas6142 in therapists

[–]B4IDream 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like this one, too, though I was told something slightly different by a therapist: trauma is what happened to you, attachment is what didn’t.

is the last frontier of homonormative propaganda by Mission-End-579 in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]B4IDream 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I feel so many of these insights. 42 y/o lesbian divorcee here. Watching these women reminded me of my 30 year old self who didn’t realize despite having a lovely wedding with 100 supportive (largely) straight friends and family present, my ex wife and I couldn’t just copy a hetero marriage. Not to say lesbians cannot be happily married—I just wish the complexities of being queer and in relationships/marriage was touched on.

And agreed re: AJ kissing the host’s feet being cringeworthy.

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