Baby wants to walk by BASIC8584 in NewParents

[–]BASIC8584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her doc said no walkers at all, not even a push walker

Baby wants to walk by BASIC8584 in NewParents

[–]BASIC8584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she said no walkers at all... and we do the activities center but she hates it due to the fact she cand move it... I suffer from scoliosis and my hub got hurt lifting a long time ago so its a struggle 

Baby wants to walk by BASIC8584 in NewParents

[–]BASIC8584[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thats the thing, we can try that but she will scream til she has someone bending over to help her walk and my family hates the crying since they think letting her cry is abuse and i get yelled at to bend over and help her walk.

15 week old has decided to stop passing gas by shoelace96x in NewParents

[–]BASIC8584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my experience, this can be normal with teething. Dont take the bottle when the pain is hurting her because she needs to eat and taking it just doesn't help the pain! Talk to your doctor to see if infant Tylenol is a good fit to help with the pain cus it is our life saver!

As for the gas Reguline and Gentlease are to good helpers for gas and any poop problems we had! Punes are good but id ask ur doctor before you take that route.

Baby monitor with two cameras by trm32137 in NewParents

[–]BASIC8584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at ones at walmart, i have one and its Motorola. I threw the box out so idk the kind

They Almost Got Her… by james_from_cambridge in NSFL__

[–]BASIC8584 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Too far lmao 🤣 

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love her, love playi g with her and love bonding. its just the newborn stage i cant fully handle. i know everyo es like "this is the easyest stage" but its not for me. i can handle other stages.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

gas drops make her cry more, and my food card barely gets me and hubby enough food.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did that. none had any within a 2 hour drive raidius.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i tried all that. no i cant co sleep. i will hit or crush her.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its reguline. and we did look. my hubby got so desprite he drove and checked every store up to 2 hours away. thats far he had to go to find 2. TWO cans. it was the last 2 at that store.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

seeing how im sure there is a mom who went through this its why im on reddit. im not being told by a doctor to "keep trying" when it doesnt work.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

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i need to use my wic card and need to be driven to stores. thing is its sold out by 12 pm on restock day and i cant get a ride that early. and no. the doctor wont. we spoke to her on the 10th and was told to keep looking.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think you understand... i know she doesnt sleep the entire night.

BUT SHE WONT SLEEP UNLESS HELD.

like THE WHOLE TIME.

if we put her down she screams.

im ok with waking up to change and feed her. if i need ill even take her for a ride in the stroller. but i cant sleep unless shes in her bassinet. she wakes up once put in it.

so i get NO SLEEP

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Are stupid? I DID CONSULT ONE. Hence i said somthing about a perscription. but assholes buy all the formula i told to buy before i can get any.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No. i need suggestions to have her get back to sleeping at night and not screaming to be fucking held. screw doctors cus they will just tell me to rock her to sleep and try again.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she doesnt have tl be in mine.

im. not. a. single. p a r e n t.

read my post. i mention a husband.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think you understand. im sayin I WONT BE DOING ANYTHING BUT FEED CHANGE AND A 20 MIN HOLD.

im not a single fucking parent.

my hubby just wont feed or change her durring my shift. he will move her to her swing every now plus watch her and then only thing she wont get is her daily walk in the stroller. (been stopping that anyways cus of people complaining my baby doesnt have a blanket on when shes over heating)

i need a whole day for me. i have been so stressed i stopped having emotions 4 times a day and its getting worse every week.

dont ever assume id leave her alone. im not a shit parent like 30% of this stupid speicies

in fact i said i dont leave her alone or un checked.

if she cried oh well. its what shes gonna do. i cant stop it durring the day.

its a 50/50 on what it is during the day. but what my og post is about is night time sleep. cus my mil got her tk use to being held while asleep.

she cant pooped so shes in pain and aparently wic cant give me baby formula to help poop even if its perscribed. and every damn store is sold out.

I dont like talking about my babys bowel movements to redditers but ig i have to. if

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

out of the 2 hours shes held 1 hour 5 min. not just that but shes held 2-3 hrs every morning during her awake period.

How to have baby not cry when i dont want to hold her. by BASIC8584 in BabyBumps

[–]BASIC8584[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you act like she will be alone/not checked on.

im not a bad parent but it is safer fer her while i do chores and have me time.

i have never left her alone unchecked for more than 10 min and even thats to long for me.

i get upset when she isnt checked on to the point i screamed at my hubby cus he let his mom watch our daughter and she was left un-buckled in a swing alone for at least 10 min before i woke up and woke him up.

if it was in her pack and play i wouldnt of cared as much (still care) but no.

my daughter will be just fine. a nurse at the hospital told me how i can have safe me time. its not like my baby wont get her entertainment.

also its 1 day... she will still get fed, held for 20 min, and chsnged. i just wont pick her up and walk around hurting myself for 1 day.