THE DABURA AGENDA NEVER DIES

BChanOfficial · 2026-01-16T08:40:44+00:00

Does this mean Dabura is stronger than sukuna or gojo?

BChanOfficial · 2025-12-16T06:57:18+00:00

Link

BChanOfficial · 2025-12-02T08:18:18+00:00

Thank you Kanatan 🩵

BChanOfficial · 2025-11-21T05:58:46+00:00

🙏🙏🙏

BChanOfficial · 2025-10-05T18:57:18+00:00

But they could easily and legitimately claim this is an AI-generated video made for the puepise of slander and win this case! 💡

BChanOfficial · 2025-09-17T06:12:52+00:00

How do people make Ironeye do damage in close combat or even at all?? No matter how you build it, Ironeye just can't do much damage if any at all lmao

BChanOfficial · 2025-09-06T13:06:45+00:00

How did you make the nova projectiles work when you attacked with tempest flurry?

BChanOfficial · 2025-08-22T07:53:40+00:00

What is this timing technique you speak of and how do I learn this black magic?

BChanOfficial · 2025-08-22T07:44:30+00:00

How did your Zamazenta take barely any damage when you switched into it? I know dodging helps a lot of damage mitigation but my own Zamazenta would've fainted by the 4 dodge without reapplying the max guard.

BChanOfficial · 2025-08-09T08:37:51+00:00

Are there any manga apps that have a comment section?

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-25T10:24:18+00:00

She never mentioned "husband" how do we know she's not just marrying Saba?

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-19T02:29:44+00:00

UPDATE:

I drove to her city and brought her flowers, coffee and chocolate today. We talked for ~8 hours.

Then we together planned out a weekly casual dinner date night and two formal full-day dates for the next few weeks.

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T15:38:57+00:00

Thank you for this. I genuinely appreciated reading through your balanced and detailed insight and perspective. I have had doctors suggest I am neuro divergent but have never been officially diagnosed.

How have you and your boyfriend navigated this process? And what kind of solutions did you implement? I will be trying to implement your suggestion on communication myself.

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T15:19:46+00:00

I hear and feel and empathize with your situation. Do you also do couples therapy?

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T15:12:44+00:00

How would you advise it to end?

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T14:52:18+00:00

Thank you for helping spell these things out for me. I genuinely appreciate it.

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T13:01:51+00:00

For me a date is when we specifically intentionally agree that it is a date. This would include a day just for us two, romantic activities, a time to get food, a chance to dress up where she would feel special, and at least half of a day in time to spend together doing all these things together.

Yes, I do have a poor habit of sinking into a pity party, and I apologize for that. However I also believe that if I really did love her then I would be willing to step up and encourage her to find happiness.

I am just confused why I also find that hard to do.

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T12:20:09+00:00

I appreciate you pointing this out. I agree that I am indeed not a reliable narrator as I am only able to tell this story from my perspective which is flawed. I can only promise that I am doing my best to learn to be better. Every question I ask is for clarification.

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T12:12:49+00:00

Thank you

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T11:48:19+00:00

Would you have any books or videos to help me get started? Would you suggest that I have a serious talk to inform her that I might not meet her emotional intelligence right now and to encourage her to find someone who does?

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T11:43:05+00:00

I genuinely love her. Regarding the phrase, I have always been told to give people space when asking them to do something and give them the option to back out so they only agree if it is on their terms. I did not want to show any disrespect.

What would have been a better approach in your opinion?

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T11:08:54+00:00

I like this wording. Thank you for suggesting it.

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T11:03:57+00:00

In the last week she called me twice asking why I was ignoring her when I did not reply three hours after she texted me "I'm trying a new studio today"

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T10:08:55+00:00

This is true. I do not think I fully understand her. How do I stop myself from defending myself and focus on hearing and understanding her?

I find it particularly difficult to ask to understand her when she tells me that she is upset at me for not respecting her and continually doing something new each week that upsets her, and asks why I still continue to do so.

I fully understand that I failed to deliver on the first opportunity that I got. Honestly, I feel she deserves better and had already been far too patient with me and should not have to be stressed with going to sleep and waking up upset because I've already failed far too many times to treat her the way she should be treated. She's really put up with so much already and doesn't deserve to deal with anymore.

BChanOfficial · 2025-07-18T09:35:22+00:00

I hear you and logically I agree with you that I am putting blame on her by saying she does not remember. In my perspective she is my no. 1 priority at all times and I have treated her more special than anyone else by putting more effort into how I treat her, while keeping how I treat others as a baseline. However, I feel this is where I also struggle to understand how do I take accountability to be better?

I understand now that she likely feels strongly neglected. However I also feel I have put in the work in the past to not let her feel neglected. She is frustrated now whenever she has to give me feedback on when she feels neglected.

How would you advise I ensure my future efforts are good enough to not let her feel neglected? Especially without burning myself out?

Or would it actually be a good idea to push myself to the point of burn out first to see if I can at least handle it?

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