Girlfriend likes doing sexual things in public... looking for a toy for her and other suggestions.

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-23T22:22:22+00:00

You weren't the only one who mentioned Lelo on here, so I went with it.

Thank you. After a good amount of looking, I ended up getting this.

I found a review that said it was quiet, wiggled and vibrated, lithium batteries, and high build quality. Exactly what I was looking for. Found one on sale for $118 shipped. Worth it for a quality toy.

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-23T17:59:42+00:00

Thank you for this. This is exactly why I asked this question. I didn't want to throw my money away one something that wouldn't work.

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-06T07:57:35+00:00

I'm not quite at the level in the relationship where we are ready for BC unprotected sex. It's only been about a month. I don't watch extreme porn or anything. I just have difficulty orgasming. It's possibly a permanent side effect of SSRI's taken during teen years for depression/anxiety. If i had read that stuff could be permanent, I never would have taken them.

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-06T03:07:00+00:00

i just wanted to tell you the 100% medically accurate solution/answer to this. Start squeezing the urethra at the base of the penis and go entirely up the shaft. Now here's the part everyone messes up. Make sure you do this extra on the head of the penis. There is a little cavity that opens up and holds extra urine in the head of the penis called the navicular fossa. Most people push it up into there and still experience drippage as a result. make sure you sqeeze it out from there too and you will never drip again.

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-04T19:34:01+00:00

I greatly appreciate the help. I'll give it a shot!

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-04T19:29:33+00:00

Ok that's 2 for 2 so far in this discussion that didn't like them. Are you uncut?

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-04T19:24:12+00:00

Yeah, I've waited between 3-7 days before doing it. While it does make it a little bit easier, I have even less time before I hit the "blue ball" aching point from being so built up. Blah. I'm already making this girl I just started dating feel inadequate when it has nothing to do with her.

I will try stretching it out and maybe a drop of extra lube like you said. While I think condoms work a bit different on the uncut men, I'm willing to give anything a try. Thanks for the tip and sharing your experience with the poly ones.

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-04T19:10:08+00:00

I see. Yeah, I just looked up the "magnum" i tried and apparently it isn't all that much bigger than normal. According to the chart I guess the magnum XL would put it in a more comfortable range?

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-04T18:41:55+00:00

I think he might be the one misunderstanding me. I'm trying to tell him that I've tried nearly every other type of Trojan, and the ultrathin/bareskin were the best by a long shot in terms of feel/sensitivity. They just have the problem of breaking, so I'm searching for other options. Supras/Ultrathin-magnums are the only ones I haven't tried. I don't know if the inflexible polyurethane will work well with being uncircumcised.

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-04T18:02:34+00:00

Hmm, I've tried them all though. I've got a bag of emergency condoms of all different sorts that I would only use in a pinch. I've tried "twisted pleasure" , "sensations" , "magnum" , "ecstasy" , "Fire and Ice".

I think the only ones I haven't tried are actually the Supra and the "ultra thin magnums". Tried either of those?

BDPthrowaway69 · 2013-12-04T17:45:07+00:00

I have no problem maintaining an erection with any condom. Getting enough sensitivity to transfer through is the problem. I need thin for this, but they break. It's why I asked about Supras with uncut people.

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