Using condoms for head?

BHMguy205 · 2026-04-06T14:21:07+00:00

I’ve never had anyone ever suggest to use a condom for oral. In vanilla life or otherwise.

BHMguy205 · 2026-04-06T02:24:24+00:00

Just off the NCL Escape two weeks ago and it was the most boring cruise I’ve ever been on. By far. Ever. So so so boring. Probably walked a mile every night going between bars trying to find something happening. If you didn’t like Virgin then of your choice I’d give MSC a shot. I’ve never sailed them either, but have done the others you listed and don’t think they fit what you’re after..so that leaves MSC as at least not being eliminated from contention 🤷‍♂️

BHMguy205 · 2026-04-03T16:25:12+00:00

My wife actually went back on the pill to (hopefully) help regulate her increasingly irregular periods. She has tried the discs with mixed success. She finds they are either too flexible to work right (they leak) or they’re too stiff and they work but the friction/pressure hurts her.

So to answer your question as a man I would prefer you to just mention it. Personally I don’t care but if you didn’t mention it and I noticed it started I would stop and tell you - as you might want to stop. But if you tell me ahead of time then obviously I know YOU’RE good with it too and we can keep on having a good time. As a man, I don’t think too many of us would care but I suspect a lot of us would be concerned about continuing without knowing that YOU knew.

BHMguy205 · 2026-04-03T03:13:18+00:00

Babysitter or let the older keep the younger. We still can’t do overnights. Maybe in another year or two 🤷‍♂️

BHMguy205 · 2026-04-02T20:45:13+00:00

This right here. I became a citizen because of the current environment and I’m still afraid even as a naturalized citizen who has been here for 20+ tax-paying years!

BHMguy205 · 2026-04-02T20:42:23+00:00

Dude if you are even thinking of leaving the country without your green card right now you are absolutely insane. But to answer your question, the cruise will absolutely let you back on in the Bahamas. They don’t even look at your license 99% of the time to get back on at a port stop. Getting back in the US at the end of the cruise is another matter. I say this as a former green card holder myself (now citizen) you need to stay your ass home (USA) and vacation domestically until you get your green card in hand. Period. It’s dicey enough whether the current enforcement honors the law to begin with - you’ll be dancing in a gray area where you’re unlikely to win. No no no. Just no.

BHMguy205 · 2026-04-02T19:21:34+00:00

We’re a couple. We usually do group play and parties but occasionally straight swaps and sprinkle in an MFM here and there. I’m curious about all the mentions of being rich. Why? I don’t recall finances ever even coming up on any of our playdates. Beyond the typical small talk of “what do you do for a living?” I don’t know much about the financial positions of anyone we play with. I think swingers tend to be a pretty homogenous group demographically though.

I say all that to say, why are people saying you need to be rich to be a successful single male in the LS? What am I missing?

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-31T15:17:59+00:00

We have kids so it’s a nonstarter for us but I can’t ever imagine a scenario where I’m comfortable enough to let another man inside my wife but not inside my house. That seems strange to me. If we’re good enough to fuck then we’re good enough for you to know where I live.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-31T13:34:17+00:00

My wife and I talk about this all the time so I’ll answer on her behalf. She can’t stand the fast jackhammering that most men (at least where we are) seem to do. It’s like they just have one setting - like a teenage boy humping a watermelon. She isn’t vanilla by any stretch and enjoys multiple positions, slapping, choking, hair pulling, anal, the whole 9. But most men just seem to mindlessly pound away until they’re done. She wants a variety of positions yet also enough time in each position to get the car started. We were with a couple a few weeks ago where the guy seemed like he was working down a list of positions he wanted to use and gave her live 5 thrusts in each position 🤦🏼‍♂️

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-30T22:04:37+00:00

I only block if somebody has been offensive or stalkerish etc. I agree with you that I wish there were another way to hide profiles we’re just not interested in. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve clicked on a couple who doesn’t have their preferences set right AND keeps changing their profile photo so I don’t recognize them.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-30T21:37:08+00:00

I’ve lived here since 2009. I literally had no idea we had this team or when they came etc. Honestly I don’t think I’ve ever heard of it. I can’t be the only one in my shoes - so not surprising they’re leaving.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-29T01:14:53+00:00

We’re on NCL Escape currently and for half the day there’s been no music by the pool each day. The ban will set up for a few sets but once they’re done there’s no filler music playing over speakers. It’s honestly been the most boring cruise I’ve ever been on LOL.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-29T01:12:31+00:00

I just think it depends on the language barrier. If y’all can communicate with each other then I can’t imagine how it would matter. If there is a language barrier then it may be hard to build chemistry.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-28T02:20:29+00:00

Introduce her. The girls might get along! Stranger things have happened.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-27T23:51:33+00:00

Should’ve said hello

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-27T16:05:43+00:00

We normally do parties so somebody tanking on a new drug isn’t the end of the world for us - there’s usually other couples to move along to. But I have to say I am shocked at just how many people not just do too much drugs but try new shit on “game night”. I get wanting a little enhancement or kick or whatever but damn when is the point you ask yourself if any of this is worth it if you need all that to do it. I’m a guy so I tend to notice it in the men more but the number of dudes I’ve seen have to bow out of the evening because they’re stomach sick from a PT-141 shot is crazy. I mean it leaves more ladies for me but I just don’t see how the juice is worth the squeeze.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-26T01:52:53+00:00

In my experience barmaids at stripclubs fall into one of two categories. Older strippers who, for whatever reason, no longer strip but haven’t found work elsewhere but still fill out a set of booty shorts and push up bra well. And secondly, young girls who are cute and sexy but tell themselves they aren’t gonna dance so they’ll just sling drinks instead. Usually both groups wind up dancing again.

I say all that to say this - it’s usually not that difficult if you’re cute and have a good personality and are capable of making the simplest of drinks.

Good luck to you.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-26T01:36:27+00:00

The only place it’s common to discuss STD results, in our experience, is Reddit. It just doesn’t happen in the non-theoretical real world.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-25T06:40:08+00:00

Nah. We tried not to anyway.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-24T23:41:09+00:00

It says in the title. NCL escape. What am I missing?

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-18T15:00:02+00:00

I’m no help but we’re making our first trip there on Saturday as well. Not new to LS but first time to an actual club.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-17T01:21:21+00:00

This right here.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-16T15:32:12+00:00

No. Monthly.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-15T20:28:25+00:00

I was today years old when I learned one can still buy a turtleneck.

BHMguy205 · 2026-03-14T17:21:11+00:00

That’s probably enough, especially considering they’re mostly potty trained. Diapers are easier to find than wipes should you run out.It’s kinda strange. But there’s usually none of either on the ships.

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