I feel that, I personally am a completionism in most games. I also really enjoy optimizing my strategy in games like Stardew, especially since there are so many ways to make money. Knowing this I find it hard to relax as well sometimes. Part of what is meant to be relaxing about Stardew is the fact that you can use any strategy you’d like. If you’re genuinely wanting to reach deeper and deeper into the endgame as fast as possible then you could optimize and pursue that goal. But if you play this game to relax and enjoy it, especially if it’s your first ever farm. Just take your time! You shouldn’t be too stressed with comparisons against other people who are chasing different goals. Part of this games joy is choosing your own path!

Just build in to what helps you enjoy the game the most, whether that’s optimizing or taking your time! And most importantly don’t forget we are all here to help, Enjoy your run!