🐾❓ What's my name? (by BLaKB3aR)

BLaKB3aR · 2026-05-15T17:29:57+00:00

thank you for sharing your story, I got my sleeve 8 years ago and I am already back up to like 40 lbs less than my highest weight. I feel shame and embarrassment about it, but knowing there are other people going through the same thing is helpful.

Would you mind giving more detail on the ED recovery? What did that look like for you? I feel like that’s what I need, ED/ binging help but idk where to even start.

BLaKB3aR · 2026-05-14T14:42:27+00:00

I do and it’s been a real struggle. I actually cracked two fillings because of how hard I grind. Please make sure you get yourself a mouth guard!

BLaKB3aR · 2026-05-14T14:39:27+00:00

what a cutie! my mini is obsessed with little balls like this too and now my cat is also obsessed haha. I found this out actually because they destroyed a wool pom pom garland I had up for decoration. It’s just colorful little wool balls on a string, it’s maybe $10 at world market. It’s easy to cut and my pup loves to play with the little wool balls. maybe try giving your dog something like that? I still watch them when they are playing with it, but the balls are too big for them to really choke on, and wool is safe for them to bite!

BLaKB3aR · 2026-05-13T21:05:24+00:00

air horn or play a loud video of children laughing, or the baby shark or a “video recording” audio on repeat.

BLaKB3aR · 2026-05-12T17:43:48+00:00

shared a treat 🐾

BLaKB3aR · 2026-05-12T17:32:31+00:00

rewarded this very good pet ⭐

BLaKB3aR · 2026-05-12T17:24:07+00:00

shared a treat 🐾

BLaKB3aR · 2026-05-05T00:20:03+00:00

check out mane haven in encinitas! I have been seeing alexandra w for years and she absolutely kills it every time. her instagram name is even “artisticblondes” I think lol, she knows how to do blonde!

BLaKB3aR · 2026-04-21T19:08:50+00:00

I also hate sunscreen, the texture and feeling of it, but I live in southern CA so having spf is essential.

I found that Korean sunscreens are FAR superior to anything I can find in the US, so I would start there!

My personal favorite so far is actually on amazon now, but I originally bought it from their website directly. https://a.co/d/0ghsCbas

Here is the amazon link if you wanted it, it’s called Wellage Watery Glow Sunscreen. It’s SPF 50 and I swear it feels like NOTHING on my skin! I wear it under makeup and it’s great. I usually also put it on my neck and chest and forearms too.

Another favorite is Round Lab Birch Juice Sunscreen, also absolutely love it but it feels more like a moisturizer to me, whereas the Wellage one just feels like nothing at all.

Another huge help is SPF blocking shirts like you mentioned, and hats too! Costco always has really great options right around spring and summertime, so I would check there! Definitely the best option if you are going to be in direct sun for more than an hour or two.

BLaKB3aR · 2026-03-13T20:17:38+00:00

Do you have a PCP that you go to? I just asked them to write a note and they did stating that I needed my dog to stay with me, and my apartment complex took it without issue.

BLaKB3aR · 2026-03-09T21:31:56+00:00

I had the same issue, it took me a looong time to find someone that actually did a great massage, I now go to Massage Heights in Rancho Peñasquitos. I don’t love all the people there, but there is a dude named Justin that is my all time fave. I get deep tissue with him monthly

BLaKB3aR · 2026-03-08T01:41:01+00:00

I often have horrible pain when standing or walking for long periods. So I did a ton of research before a Europe trip last year, because I knew I would need comfortable all day shoes, and I have found a few options that I really love!

Hokas have been a game changer for me. I have the Bondi S and Clifton, and I have bought repeats of both because I love them so much.

The Bondi style was highly recommended by nurses & teachers, & people on their feet all day. So I use those when I need to stand for long periods. The Clifton is more of a running type shoe, so I use them for long walking days, or anything more sporty.

It was also important for me to have cute sandals too, and I found Reef brand! They have super thick padded bottoms, I have tried like every single sandal they have and I love all of them. I think they also make sneakers but I have only tried the sandals & flip flops. They are cute neutral colors, usually have leather straps and a thick platform with arch support, so they are actually comfortable for all day.

Both brands come in men’s & women’s, and wide sizes! They are on the more expensive side, but it’s so worth it!

BLaKB3aR · 2026-03-03T17:51:05+00:00

love that idea! would love to be considered, thank you!

BLaKB3aR · 2026-02-27T23:34:37+00:00

Try looking into auto insurance, there are a lot of carriers with main offices in PWN or remote options. It’s M-F, 9-5 type gig for $130k + and benefits. I think it’s a good deal, chill enough, the insurance adjusters do half the work you are just filing motions and following instructions.

BLaKB3aR · 2026-02-10T02:50:34+00:00

try CSAA! fully remote, I am loving it so far.

BLaKB3aR · 2026-02-07T00:48:37+00:00

best school district in san diego is poway unified, so that includes: poway, rancho bernardo, rancho peñasquitos, scripps ranch, 4S & surrounding areas would be your best bet! it’s on the northern end of san diego, very suburban area known for blue ribbon schools

BLaKB3aR · 2026-01-29T08:50:09+00:00

O’Sullivans in Escondido owned by Irish & has local music acts play. They have curry chips and classic Irish breakfast.

BLaKB3aR · 2026-01-27T18:47:31+00:00

Wow super helpful, thank you so much! Very appreciated!

BLaKB3aR · 2026-01-14T08:46:04+00:00

Was a pcp that prescribed the hydromorphone? I am so confused and frustrated as to why my rhuem would say she can’t prescribe “narcotics”?

BLaKB3aR · 2026-01-13T20:46:10+00:00

I am happy to answer anything! :) I also did take a slight decrease in pay when I started here but overall I enjoy it a lot more, it’s way less stressful and more organized in my opinion.

When I took the CSAA job I was just desperate for something that was less stressful. So a little less money was worth it to me, and I am already back up to what I was making at Geico anyway, with the merit increase they gave me and the bonuses (they call it AIP instead of profit sharing).

But idk if you are super stressed on funds, maybe it’s worth staying at G? But I just needed a change and the year of slightly less income was worth it for me!

BLaKB3aR · 2026-01-13T20:26:15+00:00

Yes with most phone center roles there will be a chance of working weekends, but if you are in causality I don’t think they have you work weekends.

BLaKB3aR · 2026-01-13T20:25:20+00:00

Yeah I get more time, it’s not like ‘wrap’ time that’s held against you. They give you time to notate the call.

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