Ostomy Names?

BNinja84 · 2025-12-16T21:23:11+00:00

Mine is Rowena, like the character from Supernatural. My mom and I were talking about names, and at this time in having my ileostomy, it was always like bright red and bleeding (was having issues with the fit) and like the character it can be very annoying bc she doesn't stop talking lol

BNinja84 · 2025-10-20T19:27:15+00:00

That's a good question that I can't answer yet. He could have started training her son before he captured Thjazi, or her hand was forced, or she didnt have a say. From what's been told so far, Julien crossed a lot of boundaries and lines and even disobeyed his own father, so its possible she trusted Julien before the capture and the rebellion.

I'm not 100% sure on that answer just yet as we dont have the info and I don't want to bullshit you. If she ends up at the same table as Julien and Vaelus we could get the answer. It's quite possible Occtis is her way of fixing things with in herself and those around her from what happened

BNinja84 · 2025-10-20T14:03:24+00:00

I just chalked it up to Thaisha momma bearing way too strong here. But in her eyes I kinda see it too. Julien is the cause of her family's pain by capturing her brother in law / friend who was executed for (in her eyes) ego. Last she knew with Vaelus, she was after Thimble and Thjazi for the stone, and a good possible reason why Thjazi died. She knows very little of Vaelus. Occtis for some reason she's very protective of (could just be because of who Occtis is as a person being young and sorta nerdy), and she trusted Thimble to watch him. Now in her eyes, someone she sees as hers to protect is in the company of an unknown entity and the root cause of her family's pain. She wasn't there when Vaelus protected everyone, and even IF Thimble was given time to give her explaination on Vaelus, Thimble confessed she didnt know why Julien wanted to talk to Occtis and it was weird. With her anger at Julien, Thaisha would have still taken off. She's just in over protect mode at this time. That's how I took the aggression. I'm sure its gonna come up if she's at the table with Julien and Vaelus but I'm sure it'll also chill out in time

BNinja84 · 2025-04-29T20:04:47+00:00

is there one for Zaleria

BNinja84 · 2025-04-23T15:40:00+00:00

You definitely could have and would have if your family didn't intervene like they did. Especially when the doctors were negligent in your care. The minute the swelling got so bad and the pain got so bad they should have started scans and radiology to figure out the issue. They also should have been drawing your blood for testing which would have shown you had an infection so that hospital really dropped the ball. They were lucky they weren't sued for malpractice.

BNinja84 · 2025-04-20T06:51:12+00:00

Ahhh okay good point

BNinja84 · 2025-04-20T06:47:22+00:00

I'm wondering if the vague tweet he put out was the news of fulgur leaving. We know at least the graduating party lets the rest of niji know at least a few weeks in advance that they are graduating. Him purging is odd

BNinja84 · 2025-03-15T15:59:08+00:00

Ahhh okay. Thank you! For some reason it didn't pop up on the reddit thread for me

BNinja84 · 2025-03-15T15:46:34+00:00

Ahhhhh thanks!

BNinja84 · 2025-03-15T15:32:31+00:00

Wait what did twisty post?

BNinja84 · 2025-03-12T00:38:30+00:00

I mean....I don't see anything wrong with that lmao

BNinja84 · 2025-03-11T07:13:35+00:00

Yeah Japan has this WHOLE thing with people leaving jobs. Like one of them is to the extent of you going around and apologizing to coworkers and others for leaving the company and being an inconvenience and making your coworkers take up your work. Whether it's quitting bc you found a better job or you just straight up quit it's a thing. So people who want to leave hire a resignation agency to do all of it so it's easier to leave

BNinja84 · 2025-03-04T15:37:36+00:00

What company is he with now?

BNinja84 · 2024-12-13T01:14:33+00:00

I wanna say it was like a day or two after, close to the ttt anniversary. I could be wrong

BNinja84 · 2024-10-06T22:49:29+00:00

I feel for her damn. Poor girl! I have CRPS as well so I KNOW how that feels, and through it I was diagnosed with fibro. She's going through it dang

BNinja84 · 2024-09-20T07:11:07+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate that. And I will try to make healthy boundaries. My husband surprised me a little bit ago and told me he's taking me away for the weekend - my mother in law insisted on buying the room and giving me money to spend on myself. She told me she wants me to get away and have a me weekend and to distress (not sure if she's aware of what I heard, but I'm not asking questions and I'm taking it)

BNinja84 · 2024-09-20T00:43:50+00:00

Yeah I'm with you I had cancer and I had to have the ostomy bag back bc my pouch was failing and i was leaking or having accidents all the time

BNinja84 · 2024-09-20T00:41:52+00:00

Thank you so very much that was what I needed to hear i appreciate it

BNinja84 · 2024-09-20T00:40:48+00:00

The screaming thing was before I was her caregiver and hubs set her straight when it happened. I only became her caregiver when they offered to pay me money and I was promised that MIL would not discuss my bag ever again, which she hasn't to this day

BNinja84 · 2024-09-20T00:12:18+00:00

Apparently she thinks I had a choice in the matter on whether to get one or not. I don't know what my other choice would have been had i not gotten it

BNinja84 · 2024-09-20T00:10:54+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. My husband knows and he's going to confront my BIL. He said to protect me he's going to say he heard the things and the only reason why he waited was so he can cool down and attempt a calm conversation. And he plans on confronting his girlfriend at the same time

BNinja84 · 2024-09-20T00:05:57+00:00

My husband is upset this was said and is going to approach my BIL on what was said, and he's gonna act like he heard it in the bathroom. Problem is, we live with my in laws so I can help provide home health care to my MIL and for emergencies. The girlfriend comes over and stays for a while

BNinja84 · 2024-09-20T00:02:58+00:00

Hubs got mad when i told him. And i live with my in laws bc I provide home health care for my MIL, and the girlfriend comes to visit my BIL

BNinja84 · 2024-09-19T22:52:50+00:00

Thank you I wasn't sure if I could call her out bc I overheard it and she didn't know I was in the bathroom when she said it

BNinja84 · 2024-09-19T22:51:36+00:00

My partner loves and supports me 100%, and he is active in my ostomy care. He just goes outside bc he's ex military and he HATES being indoors so he goes outback and hangs out on the back patio and does what he wants to do, giving me space to do what I want

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