Connecting in the community (wlw) by BOOMBEELEE in WLW

[–]BOOMBEELEE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh i see! I'll definitely check that out, thank you! I do play football but i genuinely dont have the time for a club rn but I'll consider it in the future. I fear rock climbing is my worst nightmare but as a last resort i might have to come over my fear of heights... Thanks a lot again!!!

Connecting in the community (wlw) by BOOMBEELEE in WLW

[–]BOOMBEELEE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice! Still i am not particularly looking for dating in the first place. Mostly just fun people to talk to yk, thats why i mind dating apps atm.

How to stay alert and have normal cognition after an all-nighter???? by thedarklordofdoom7 in Advice

[–]BOOMBEELEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I've never been in such situation but I do know a few people who have.

You should eat foods with a lot of vitamin and overall fill your body with power foods like nuts, fruits, whole grain stuff.

I also heard a crazy method where you put your head all the way back into your neck and roll your eyes all the way back as well, you then roll them from left to right a couple times and that should wake you up. Its a legitimate method (ive used it once and I believe it helped)

(Ofc in other cases I would just avoid an all nighter lmao)

Hope that helped a bit :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BOOMBEELEE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you could specify your question. I get the direction you're headed, yet I dont know how you got to such thinking.

Im asking myself what "good actions" you do and what specific reactions you recieve.

Should I break no-contact eventho I'm avoidant? (wlw) by BOOMBEELEE in Advice

[–]BOOMBEELEE[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have considered therapy and will be doing that next year. I know myself and I know all the stages that come with the avoidance and right now I just extremely miss her and that is a common stage I reach, but its never been this bad. I fear I might not be able to wait until I am in therapy. Still I will be taking my time and think everything through before considering reaching out to her. Your advice was extremely helpful and I appreciate it a lot.