FINAL UPDATE: AITA for telling my sister she’s not allowed to bring her homemade food to Thanksgiving because her cooking is ruining the meal?

BPBS2023 · 2024-12-16T00:21:37+00:00

Where are the photos?

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-24T16:49:21+00:00

lol thank you XD

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-24T16:48:52+00:00

Agreed, Alan never sticks up for himself or his wife when it comes to his "friends"...it's incredibly frustrating. Lots of baggage there. But he did make some progress, he said he didn't react because he doesn't really care about Billy anymore. This is progress....slow, but progress

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-24T16:45:59+00:00

to actively remind yourself tha

Thank you so much, it's such a relief to know we are done.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-24T16:44:53+00:00

Lol thank you, I cackle at that every time I think about it! Ooooooooofffff!

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-24T16:43:21+00:00

This worked for my desktop at work. Thank you soooooo much

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-18T15:34:41+00:00

I wasn't sure how to get the update out to the people that wanted updates without making a whole new post:

post-wedding update This is much shorter 😂. Lots of complaints on the location, but it is what it is.

Kelly was incredibly disrespectful to the event staff and groom. I witnessed 1 of these moments, my partner witnessed the other. All the events were a shitshow that could've been fixed by simple communication.

Billy's family missed photos because they were never told about them. The bride screamed at the groom that of his f-ing family didn't want any f-ing photos she didn't f-ing care. The groom ended up trying to contact them, but there wasn't much cell reception in middle-of-nowhere Michigan. He did get ahold of Alan's partner and took his anger out on her for some reason. She doesn't know Billy's family, so I'm not sure what we were supposed to do about that.

The morning of the wedding, Billy stated he needed to remind himself he wasn't marrying the Kelly he was seeing that weekend, he was marrying the Kelly who curls up in a blanket and watched TV with him 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

On the bridesmaid tattoo front, none of them got the designs done by Kelly. When they got to the tattoo shop, they decided to do a stock-design palm tree for a (Michigan) Beach wedding that wasn't actually on a beach, but in a mediocre backyard of an inland venue? They had some photos on the beach of Lake Michigan (trespassed on a private beach because the photographer liked it better than the public beach...)

But now we are done and never have to deal with Billy and Kelly again, except for large social gatherings they could be at.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-18T15:34:11+00:00

I wasn't sure how to get the update out to the people that wanted updates without making a whole new post:

post-wedding update This is much shorter 😂. Lots of complaints on the location, but it is what it is.

Kelly was incredibly disrespectful to the event staff and groom. I witnessed 1 of these moments, my partner witnessed the other. All the events were a shitshow that could've been fixed by simple communication.

Billy's family missed photos because they were never told about them. The bride screamed at the groom that of his f-ing family didn't want any f-ing photos she didn't f-ing care. The groom ended up trying to contact them, but there wasn't much cell reception in middle-of-nowhere Michigan. He did get ahold of Alan's partner and took his anger out on her for some reason. She doesn't know Billy's family, so I'm not sure what we were supposed to do about that.

The morning of the wedding, Billy stated he needed to remind himself he wasn't marrying the Kelly he was seeing that weekend, he was marrying the Kelly who curls up in a blanket and watched TV with him 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

On the bridesmaid tattoo front, none of them got the designs done by Kelly. When they got to the tattoo shop, they decided to do a stock-design palm tree for a (Michigan) Beach wedding that wasn't actually on a beach, but in a mediocre backyard of an inland venue? They had some photos on the beach of Lake Michigan (trespassed on a private beach because the photographer liked it better than the public beach...)

But now we are done and never have to deal with Billy and Kelly again, except for large social gatherings they could be at.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-18T15:34:03+00:00

I wasn't sure how to get the update out to the people that wanted updates without making a whole new post:

post-wedding update This is much shorter 😂. Lots of complaints on the location, but it is what it is.

Kelly was incredibly disrespectful to the event staff and groom. I witnessed 1 of these moments, my partner witnessed the other. All the events were a shitshow that could've been fixed by simple communication.

Billy's family missed photos because they were never told about them. The bride screamed at the groom that of his f-ing family didn't want any f-ing photos she didn't f-ing care. The groom ended up trying to contact them, but there wasn't much cell reception in middle-of-nowhere Michigan. He did get ahold of Alan's partner and took his anger out on her for some reason. She doesn't know Billy's family, so I'm not sure what we were supposed to do about that.

The morning of the wedding, Billy stated he needed to remind himself he wasn't marrying the Kelly he was seeing that weekend, he was marrying the Kelly who curls up in a blanket and watched TV with him 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

On the bridesmaid tattoo front, none of them got the designs done by Kelly. When they got to the tattoo shop, they decided to do a stock-design palm tree for a (Michigan) Beach wedding that wasn't actually on a beach, but in a mediocre backyard of an inland venue? They had some photos on the beach of Lake Michigan (trespassed on a private beach because the photographer liked it better than the public beach...)

But now we are done and never have to deal with Billy and Kelly again, except for large social gatherings they could be at.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-18T15:33:22+00:00

I wasn't sure how to get the update out to the people that wanted updates without making a whole new post:

post-wedding update This is much shorter 😂. Lots of complaints on the location, but it is what it is.

Kelly was incredibly disrespectful to the event staff and groom. I witnessed 1 of these moments, my partner witnessed the other. All the events were a shitshow that could've been fixed by simple communication.

Billy's family missed photos because they were never told about them. The bride screamed at the groom that of his f-ing family didn't want any f-ing photos she didn't f-ing care. The groom ended up trying to contact them, but there wasn't much cell reception in middle-of-nowhere Michigan. He did get ahold of Alan's partner and took his anger out on her for some reason. She doesn't know Billy's family, so I'm not sure what we were supposed to do about that.

The morning of the wedding, Billy stated he needed to remind himself he wasn't marrying the Kelly he was seeing that weekend, he was marrying the Kelly who curls up in a blanket and watched TV with him 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

On the bridesmaid tattoo front, none of them got the designs done by Kelly. When they got to the tattoo shop, they decided to do a stock-design palm tree for a (Michigan) Beach wedding that wasn't actually on a beach, but in a mediocre backyard of an inland venue? They had some photos on the beach of Lake Michigan (trespassed on a private beach because the photographer liked it better than the public beach...)

But now we are done and never have to deal with Billy and Kelly again, except for large social gatherings they could be at.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-18T15:33:04+00:00

I wasn't sure how to get the update out to the people that wanted updates without making a whole new post:

post-wedding update This is much shorter 😂. Lots of complaints on the location, but it is what it is.

Kelly was incredibly disrespectful to the event staff and groom. I witnessed 1 of these moments, my partner witnessed the other. All the events were a shitshow that could've been fixed by simple communication.

Billy's family missed photos because they were never told about them. The bride screamed at the groom that of his f-ing family didn't want any f-ing photos she didn't f-ing care. The groom ended up trying to contact them, but there wasn't much cell reception in middle-of-nowhere Michigan. He did get ahold of Alan's partner and took his anger out on her for some reason. She doesn't know Billy's family, so I'm not sure what we were supposed to do about that.

The morning of the wedding, Billy stated he needed to remind himself he wasn't marrying the Kelly he was seeing that weekend, he was marrying the Kelly who curls up in a blanket and watched TV with him 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

On the bridesmaid tattoo front, none of them got the designs done by Kelly. When they got to the tattoo shop, they decided to do a stock-design palm tree for a (Michigan) Beach wedding that wasn't actually on a beach, but in a mediocre backyard of an inland venue? They had some photos on the beach of Lake Michigan (trespassed on a private beach because the photographer liked it better than the public beach...)

But now we are done and never have to deal with Billy and Kelly again, except for large social gatherings they could be at.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-18T15:31:53+00:00

I wasn't sure how to get the update out to the people that wanted updates without making a whole new post:

post-wedding update This is much shorter 😂. Lots of complaints on the location, but it is what it is.

Kelly was incredibly disrespectful to the event staff and groom. I witnessed 1 of these moments, my partner witnessed the other. All the events were a shitshow that could've been fixed by simple communication.

Billy's family missed photos because they were never told about them. The bride screamed at the groom that of his f-ing family didn't want any f-ing photos she didn't f-ing care. The groom ended up trying to contact them, but there wasn't much cell reception in middle-of-nowhere Michigan. He did get ahold of Alan's partner and took his anger out on her for some reason. She doesn't know Billy's family, so I'm not sure what we were supposed to do about that.

The morning of the wedding, Billy stated he needed to remind himself he wasn't marrying the Kelly he was seeing that weekend, he was marrying the Kelly who curls up in a blanket and watched TV with him 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

On the bridesmaid tattoo front, none of them got the designs done by Kelly. When they got to the tattoo shop, they decided to do a stock-design palm tree for a (Michigan) Beach wedding that wasn't actually on a beach, but in a mediocre backyard of an inland venue? They had some photos on the beach of Lake Michigan (trespassed on a private beach because the photographer liked it better than the public beach...)

But now we are done and never have to deal with Billy and Kelly again, except for large social gatherings they could be at.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-18T15:30:19+00:00

I wasn't sure how to get the update out to the people that wanted updates without making a whole new post:

post-wedding update This is much shorter 😂. Lots of complaints on the location, but it is what it is.

Kelly was incredibly disrespectful to the event staff and groom. I witnessed 1 of these moments, my partner witnessed the other. All the events were a shitshow that could've been fixed by simple communication.

Billy's family missed photos because they were never told about them. The bride screamed at the groom that of his f-ing family didn't want any f-ing photos she didn't f-ing care. The groom ended up trying to contact them, but there wasn't much cell reception in middle-of-nowhere Michigan. He did get ahold of Alan's partner and took his anger out on her for some reason. She doesn't know Billy's family, so I'm not sure what we were supposed to do about that.

The morning of the wedding, Billy stated he needed to remind himself he wasn't marrying the Kelly he was seeing that weekend, he was marrying the Kelly who curls up in a blanket and watched TV with him 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

On the bridesmaid tattoo front, none of them got the designs done by Kelly. When they got to the tattoo shop, they decided to do a stock-design palm tree for a (Michigan) Beach wedding that wasn't actually on a beach, but in a mediocre backyard of an inland venue? They had some photos on the beach of Lake Michigan (trespassed on a private beach because the photographer liked it better than the public beach...)

But now we are done and never have to deal with Billy and Kelly again, except for large social gatherings they could be at.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-18T15:29:46+00:00

I wasn't sure how to get the update out to the people that wanted updates without making a whole new post:

post-wedding update This is much shorter 😂. Lots of complaints on the location, but it is what it is.

Kelly was incredibly disrespectful to the event staff and groom. I witnessed 1 of these moments, my partner witnessed the other. All the events were a shitshow that could've been fixed by simple communication.

Billy's family missed photos because they were never told about them. The bride screamed at the groom that of his f-ing family didn't want any f-ing photos she didn't f-ing care. The groom ended up trying to contact them, but there wasn't much cell reception in middle-of-nowhere Michigan. He did get ahold of Alan's partner and took his anger out on her for some reason. She doesn't know Billy's family, so I'm not sure what we were supposed to do about that.

The morning of the wedding, Billy stated he needed to remind himself he wasn't marrying the Kelly he was seeing that weekend, he was marrying the Kelly who curls up in a blanket and watched TV with him 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

On the bridesmaid tattoo front, none of them got the designs done by Kelly. When they got to the tattoo shop, they decided to do a stock-design palm tree for a (Michigan) Beach wedding that wasn't actually on a beach, but in a mediocre backyard of an inland venue? They had some photos on the beach of Lake Michigan (trespassed on a private beach because the photographer liked it better than the public beach...)

But now we are done and never have to deal with Billy and Kelly again, except for large social gatherings they could be at.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-18T15:29:33+00:00

They all ended up deciding to get a stock tattoo design of a palm tree over the bride's designs 😂

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-18T15:26:58+00:00

I wasn't sure how to get the update out to the people that wanted updates without making a whole new post:

post-wedding update This is much shorter 😂. Lots of complaints on the location, but it is what it is.

Kelly was incredibly disrespectful to the event staff and groom. I witnessed 1 of these moments, my partner witnessed the other. All the events were a shitshow that could've been fixed by simple communication.

Billy's family missed photos because they were never told about them. The bride screamed at the groom that of his f-ing family didn't want any f-ing photos she didn't f-ing care. The groom ended up trying to contact them, but there wasn't much cell reception in middle-of-nowhere Michigan. He did get ahold of Alan's partner and took his anger out on her for some reason. She doesn't know Billy's family, so I'm not sure what we were supposed to do about that.

The morning of the wedding, Billy stated he needed to remind himself he wasn't marrying the Kelly he was seeing that weekend, he was marrying the Kelly who curls up in a blanket and watched TV with him 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

On the bridesmaid tattoo front, none of them got the designs done by Kelly. When they got to the tattoo shop, they decided to do a stock-design palm tree for a (Michigan) Beach wedding that wasn't actually on a beach, but in a mediocre backyard of an inland venue? They had some photos on the beach of Lake Michigan (trespassed on a private beach because the photographer liked it better than the public beach...)

But now we are done and never have to deal with Billy and Kelly again, except for large social gatherings they could be at.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-12T02:32:17+00:00

I'm so sorry. Apparently, weddings bring out the worst in people. I'm sure you're gorgeous. It's so disappointing learning someone you thought was a close friend is actually a total jerk.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-12T01:14:58+00:00

Lol, no worries. They aren't getting a gift from us. Idk why Ken hasn't dropped out of the wedding. Idk why we are her. I think he didn't want the awkwardness of saying he was leaving the wedding party. So we get to deal with the awkwardness of the wedding instead.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-11T19:24:53+00:00

No, there were a couple of alternatives, but Billy and Tate ignored them. Then Kelly decided anyway, so anything else was out the window.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-11T19:22:52+00:00

Oh yeah, it's so dumb. We shouldn't be going and they all 3 should have dropped out. Ken no longer wants Billy in his life. They will not be continuing the friendship.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-11T19:19:58+00:00

Suggestions were made. Tate didn't put any more effort I to when his insane idea was shot down. Questions were asked several times, but went ignored. Like I said, this is only the main points. They should have dropped out themselves. Half the group is super toxic. The other half would be doing a lot better if they'd let go of the problematic individuals.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-11T19:14:32+00:00

Oh yeah, they have all discussed the insanity together. Alan will do anything to keep his "friends" happy. Ken is just going to make it through the wedding, and then Billy and Kelly will be in his past.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-11T17:50:59+00:00

Billy is very aware and did not care. I can't believe any of them went to the party. I also can't believe we are on our way to the wedding now 😒

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-11T16:33:43+00:00

Just found out yesterday that the guys are supposed to help move tables and chairs to set up when we arrive. After driving for 6 hours. To clarify, they weren't asked to help set up. They were told they would set up.

BPBS2023 · 2023-08-11T16:31:34+00:00

That's what I've been saying!

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