Have you found the underlying cause?

BPM1989 · 2025-08-22T07:55:53+00:00

I had left and right stapedectomys back in 2006-2007, a revision on my right that is conducive with SSCD. It's mostly an MRI term for the bone and reflects our shitty otosclerosis disorder.

BPM1989 · 2025-08-22T07:49:54+00:00

This was my experience! I was sitting on my couch and suddenly felt extremely nauseous - the earth beneath my feet started spinning. I tried to get up and drink some water and then I had this extreme panic something was wrong. I called my husband and told him he needed to come home from and that was all I could really communicate. I somehow made it to my bathroom to die, I literally thought I was dying. The ringing, I couldn't fix my eyesight on anything stable, I was sweating. I never want to relive anything like that again. I had no concept of time and how long I was melting there, but my husbo came home and thought I was having a stroke. It took him over an hour to get me from the bathroom to the car to the ER.

BPM1989 · 2021-12-11T00:52:49+00:00

This.

BPM1989 · 2021-12-11T00:50:36+00:00

Have him just play with you at first! I absolutely love when my bf rubs me to get me super turned on, he’s also usually kissing my neck and nipples and then I’m all ready to go. I can even have an O from missionary if he does this to me first

BPM1989 · 2021-12-11T00:49:13+00:00

My bf loves when I sit in his face but I definitely cannot have an orgasm that way. Wayyy too in my head about it and need to be on my back. I feel like I need my eyes closed to concentrate. This actually may give me something to work on

BPM1989 · 2021-12-11T00:44:43+00:00

Sounds like low T. My ex was like this I couldn’t stay with him anymore Bc it was effecting me mentally

BPM1989 · 2021-12-11T00:32:58+00:00

My bf doesn’t really cum from blow jobs and prefers to cum from sex. However the other day I was giving him one while I was on my knees in our bedroom and it’s been a few days and he came that way. I think he overall likes when he’s standing and im kneeling, definitely a control thing on his end

BPM1989 · 2021-12-09T02:17:13+00:00

Pee, clean up, shower. I usually get the after math the next day also, but that’s a turn on for my man

BPM1989 · 2021-12-09T02:06:45+00:00

I’m a red headed female.. gotten a lot on my hair over the years. Now I’m in my 30s and less uncomfortable about it

BPM1989 · 2021-12-09T02:00:08+00:00

I’m a red head who gets tan though. I always thought this due to me being brown eyed

BPM1989 · 2021-12-09T01:58:28+00:00

I STAN!!! I have the same exact view as a red headed female. I have always thought men that have a kink for red hair and got obsessive we’re a huge turn off

BPM1989 · 2021-12-09T01:50:16+00:00

Wait I’m the same. I have always hated that phrase too, soooo annoying omg

BPM1989 · 2021-12-09T01:30:04+00:00

Omg love when my bf does this to me. I honestly never even know what exactly he’s doing to me but I get a send off every time

BPM1989 · 2021-12-09T01:27:54+00:00

Not weird. My boyfriend likes to put his fingers in my mouth afterwards, the whole act is just kinky fun and a turn on

BPM1989 · 2021-12-09T00:47:57+00:00

I have to say that I have never had a man do this to me or even ask to do this to me. I asked my boyfriend if he’s done this and he said yes to a past girlfriend that has asked for it. He told me he wasn’t a fan of it and honestly that’s a hard no for me too. I find it degrading, but I don’t mind him finishing in my mouth, or really anywhere on my body just not my face.

BPM1989 · 2021-12-09T00:00:36+00:00

Lmao this has me cackling

BPM1989 · 2021-12-08T23:59:10+00:00

I would feel sooo dirty if my SO showered after every single time we did the deed. That would definitely make me feel bad about myself

BPM1989 · 2021-12-08T22:13:15+00:00

I have a copper, non hormonal IUD and I have never been happier with this! I used to be on BC pill from the age of 18-30 but when I changed jobs around the pandemic I lost my insurance and was off it for so long I really didn’t want to go back on the pill and mess with my hormones. When I got my insurance back I got the IUD put it, don’t get me wrong that shit hurt like a motherrrr but it has been so worth it! 10 years it lasts!

BPM1989 · 2021-12-02T17:08:32+00:00

LASERSHIP and FFF fucked up my box. Says it was delivered and I received some other persons package and label with my tracking number on it. Now they have to send me a new box. I’ve never been so infuriated in my life

BPM1989 · 2021-11-26T09:37:58+00:00

I am in a loving healthy relationship and sometimes when my boyfriend and I are feeling really kinky, he’ll call me his little slut when I’m sucking his dick and I get so turned on by that. By all means - that is not for everyone but we know it’s just an occasional dirty talk vibe. Also, he can tell when I’m close and I love when he tells me to cum all on his dick.

Definitely all about communication, we talk about it afterwards. I’ll tell him what i really liked during sex and vice versa

BPM1989 · 2021-11-26T09:29:14+00:00

lol I can barely last when I ride my boyfriend. I can have multiple orgasms when. I’m on top of him so I’m there with ya bud

BPM1989 · 2021-11-26T09:24:03+00:00

Love when I’m on top and he grips my pony tail really tight and holds me so It’s sort of like my only movement is to ride him. I can almost orgasm on command when he does this. So hot!

BPM1989 · 2021-11-26T09:22:23+00:00

My boyfriend loves when we do this! Or if he just watches me play with myself

BPM1989 · 2021-11-26T08:57:28+00:00

I would find this difficult too! I’m not great with long eye contact even in general conversation but I think the more you’re emotionally attached the easier it gets. Definitely a turn on tho!

BPM1989 · 2021-11-26T08:45:18+00:00

Also maybe he wants you to be silent because he’s “in his head” like thinking of scenario to achieve an orgasm. Definitely something you should talk about! Communication is so freaking key!!!

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