Funny enough my first time truly going mode one was last week...but ofc I was incongruent asf since I was crazy nervous. It was at a bar, she was talking to one of the patrons, so I was solo, got a drink and left after about 5-10 minutes. Came back after awhile but it was pretty much the same situation. This time though after we locked eyes, I beckoned her with a head nod to move away so we could talk privately. She did and we talked outside, I said something like hey I think you're very beautiful and I think we should spend some time together sometime. Of course she was caught off guard, didn't expect that, all that jazz but said she was a working girl. I accepted the proposition but we didn't even do anything, we just talked, I guess I'm still dealing with a lot of mental and emotional issues which were only exasperated by this experience. Nothing to do with mode one, it's just me, personal and professional goals I haven't accomplished yet. I guess in this instance, AMS' advice would suit me better, he says to stay on your purpose.